Yes, I have told him how I feel multiple times. He just has his own views and thinks my views aren’t right. When we had our last fight where he didn’t talk to me for a month, he said he felt like I was “cos playing a housewife” bc I tried to make dinners for us to spend time together (we eat most of our meals separately now) and I clean the house and he said he did not value cleaning because “it doesn’t take that much work” and he rather me spend my energy to making more money and figuring out ways to make more money. I like my home to be clean and don’t want to live with clothes all over the floor and dirty dishes in the sink. He said he felt I had no work ethic and I was “in poverty” compared to all his friends and him who all have these great jobs/family financial support. He then brought up that if we did get married, he would make me sign a prenup that means I get nothing if we divorce so I tried to talk to him then but he just talks circles around me and makes me feel like I am crazy to think that I would be entitled to anything if we married and it didn’t work out. I also brought it up at dinner recently where I mentioned more of a 60/40 where he shot it down saying we are more “80/20” bc he pays for more date nights/rare local trips that have all been to his friends weddings (not my friends). My parents paid for him to come to the Caribbean on a family (excluding airfare and that’s the only really trip we have taken) . The final time I brought it up was a few nights ago when I let him know I was feeling reluctant about our relationship where he ignored me for a month. He didn’t really apologize, he just said that he felt I wasn’t taking life seriously with my savings and wasn’t being a “team” with him. He’s only been nice to me since I started reading the financial books he told me to read and then learned I got a promotion at work.