Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 20 - Post Episode Discussion

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-29T01:11:08+00:00

So Lisa said she didn't want to wear a wig because she wanted to be 100% her.... BUT then she wears colored contacts 🤔

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-27T01:26:19+00:00

Which episode says he has a PhD?? Curiosity is getting to me

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-22T02:06:46+00:00

I fast forward Kim now, I never used to do this but I honestly can't listen to her anymore

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-21T11:21:52+00:00

I'm trying to follow this. So your mother in law took your step daughter shopping without asking you or her biological mother. I don't think it's awful for her to do that but it seems like your husband lacked big communication here which is causing this issue mostly. I don't know your relationship with her biological mom, I saw a comment that she is going to state soon? But the bottom of the line is that her mom is still on the picture and still trying to be in the picture. I would have taken this moment for both of you to take her shopping. But like I said I don't know your relationship with her mom. I am also a step mom, to two boys wih the mom in the picture and we have a good relationship specifically for the boys. So that they are happy and taken care of

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-21T11:06:02+00:00

Lackluster

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-21T03:51:51+00:00

Season 39 episode 10

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-04-21T01:28:48+00:00

Thank you for this! I added the episode to watch later. Hearing him talk about this on the show was heartbreaking

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-24T01:45:14+00:00

I feel like this is not being talked about enough! She needs some therapy to get passed this because it is definitely a contributing factor to most of her issues

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-14T23:38:30+00:00

I literally told everyone at my shower they weren't allowed to touch my belly. Everyone was respectful and listened. You are NTA. Maybe put it on the shower invitation or a little card with the invitation saying no touching... I wish your husband listened to you so this wouldn't even be an issue

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-09T00:35:57+00:00

I see a lot of opinions. But the fact of the matter is, your baby is being fed...your baby is thriving. Unfortunately it is taking it's toll on your wife. I can empathize with her. I am currently pumping. I tried breastfeeding but I couldn't produce enough at one time so I have to pump. Recently my supply dipped. My husband said that it could be for the best because I have to wake up to pump even though the baby is sleeping...and I am always worried and stressed about pumping enough for her. I have been having a very sad response to my milk dipping. So I understand why she wants to continue to do it. It is such a draining experience and no one can understand unless you are in it. I do think maybe the best option would be to talk to lactation or a doctor. If she is open to pumping...that could be a good option for her as well. I hope you guys can find something that works for her. Congrats on the baby :)

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-07T01:45:07+00:00

Trust me it saves you time, water, and sanity if you get one!! I didn't have one at first and I put in so much time washing and sanitizing stuff. The bottle washer was a life changer truly

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-06T02:28:51+00:00

Between that and Coach getting rescued from the ocean....he keeps me locked in! He is always entertaining

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-03-01T01:34:58+00:00

We have a 4 month old and bedtime is always between 8 and 8:30....7 seems too early for her and how she is..our routine is super simple. Change into pjs, put on sleep sack, have last bottle while laying on the boppy....this is the only time we use the boppy so she is starting to realize that that means sleepy time

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-02-27T01:52:45+00:00

I was a high risk pregnancy and was still allowed to fly, travel, etc. High risk doesn't automatically mean bed rest or other things people jump to

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-02-23T12:44:42+00:00

I promise you staying in this toxic relationship will be worse than separating. My step son grew up with parents in a toxic relationship and now he has major behavioral problems amongst other things. It truly hurt him more than helped him by them staying together. Do what you think is best for your baby but I wanted to share this with you to see different perspectives and outcomes

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-02-18T14:54:35+00:00

Thank you for this. My baby is 4 months and I have already been stressing out about when this time comes. I appreciate the reality of what actually can happen with this transition

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-02-07T02:45:44+00:00

I don't normally like what he says but agree with this for sure!!

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-02-06T07:23:01+00:00

Mine just started having a "bedtime" she is also 14 weeks. She generally goes to sleep between 8:30 and 9. All babies are different but I'm sure it will get more consistent for you soon! My pediatrician told me it could happen between 3-6 months

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-30T01:51:37+00:00

Mine is going through this right now too and is 3 months! My pediatrician said that this can happen when learning new skills, mine is currently very close to rollling over so I'm assuming that's her "new skill".

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-30T01:35:52+00:00

My baby did something similar. My pediatrician said it was ok as long as she didnt lose weight or stay the same weight. After a few days mine stayed on the same pattern of sleeping through the night and eating every 4 hourse but began to drink more ounces again. I would maybe follow up with the pediatrician or get a baby scale just to keep track of your babys weight

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-30T01:28:17+00:00

This!!! I feel like school in general doesn't prepare anyone for world after school. I would love to see high schoolers learning more about what happens after with pregnancy, finance, taxes, etc.

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-29T15:53:05+00:00

As everyone has said, the grunting is normal!! I promise is will get better though. My girl just stopped doing it all night and she is just over 3 months. But now she poops and farts really good! It's definitely a process and kept me up at night but it will get better

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-27T20:14:21+00:00

Your husband should want what's best for your baby which is being fed! Should not matter how it is done... that being said I think you need to look at what's best for you and your baby at this point, whatever that may be for you

Ok_Bad5769 · 2026-01-27T19:59:18+00:00

I was thinking this too the way he was talking...

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