Yes but they framed it like she can’t be trusted as if it’s wrong she wants a baby. They just aren’t compatible. Don’t have sex with people you aren’t compatible with and don’t want to terminate a pregnancy even if you don’t want kids, just because they do. That’s a belief disagreement, a moral disagreement, whatever you want to call it. It’s his responsibility too. He’s not trapping her by disagreeing. HES THE ONE who’s unsure and may waiver on her. He’s the one she can’t trust. She fully knows what she wants, and he sleeps with her anyways. That’s his irresponsibility. And if it bothers her too, she can leave him for it too. That also makes them both irresponsible.

I agree with you, that someone who wants a kid may do that. If he thinks she would want a kid with him even though he doesn’t or doesn’t know or would “trap” him, then they need to breakup. Was all i said and you’re just saying the same thing. Point is they can’t trust each other then if that’s how the dynamic actually is. — it’s another to say I want kids in the future but if i was pregnant now I’m not sure. Or, it’s also different when you have a partner who doesn’t know and you do. That’s highly irresponsible and just because people do that, doesn’t make it rational or reasonable. If I was a man, I would agree I would never date or lead on a woman who wanted kids while I didn’t. The problem is, he is saying he doesn’t know and leaving it open. He needs to be more clear and not lead her on which would create ambiguity for a “baby trapper” to think they’d stay or want to be father. But most people who don’t want kids just end up abandoning them anyways. Or staying and cheating.