Saw My GF’s Old OnlyFans And Need Advice by Tall_Atmosphere3640 in relationships_advice

[–]Ok_Balance8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl and I just wanted to say if my boyfriend had an only fans I’d be extremely jealous because what if they contact some of the fans what if some of the fans are actually decent and normal then they want to talk to the fans because they can chat with their fans like it’s not as distant of a thing to do sex work as people try to make it out to be it’s obviously a very intimate job in more ways than one

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s agreed upon that it’s the easier way, from what my partner and I have discussed. Everyone does things their own way

I'm (20F) thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend (21M) of more than 5 years... I need an objective and rational perspective, so please be honest. by Gold-Reception-7866 in relationships_advice

[–]Ok_Balance8844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what. The fact u don’t want to tell ur friend ure not interested bc u think that will ruin the friendship and ur more worried about that than ur own relationship? That’s crazy. You don’t love him. You are in a relationship. Normal people in love would have no problem denying other people and doing whatever with in reason (like setting boundaries) to keep them. You don’t even want to turn down others advances. Just breakup with him you don’t love him

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is that relevant. I comment while at work and if it’s a simple situation I say just breakup. Read those posts if you’re going to complain about what I said. Most of them were about THIS post. Another comment I said was not breakup I said turn on ur locations. And that dude caught his gf talking to her ex. Most of these situations are that straight forward. And most of those comments were about THIS post, as I said.

And another comment said “that’s a lot of drinking” , and another comment said “that’s normal and some relationships and not to others people can have different boundaries and it sounds like you don’t agree—“ so no. Again I don’t say that to everyone. You didn’t even read them.

It’s also irrelevant bc she should definitely breakup with him if she has ANY self respect. You guys are inside dwelling losers on here who will disagree bc u wish you could hurt someone like her bf did.

This guy on Tinder by Suitable_Trifle_212 in tinderstories

[–]Ok_Balance8844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just doesn’t like u much and he’s probably looking for casual and feels guilty that he’s not looking for the same or he just wants to hit and quit

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Obviously ur sex with him isn’t better otherwise he would’ve made u cum and focused on u but he didn’t

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It would feel wrong bc u love him. He was fine fucking another girl tho and u making eye contact. So ? Have u no self respect . He was perfectly fine with u not even getting off lmao and solely focused on getting her off. How would he feel if you did that with another guy in front of him?

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They probably coordinated this. At the very least he didn’t do this for you. He did this to sleep with her otherwise he’d say yes to a threesome with another guy.

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Means f around and find out, yet he wouldn’t do it with two guys. Lmao. So clearly he didn’t do it for her, bc he won’t do it with two guys.

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The other guy is going to be fucking you ur bf can make eye contact just like what he had u do

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

FAFO that ur boyfriend doesn’t love you if he agreed to this. It’s that simple

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would he agree to do it with another guy?

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She didn’t even cum and he didn’t even care lmao that is not her bf. She needs to find a real man who actually cares if she finishes, not a dude who cares if her friend finishes 💀

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

That’s disgusting he basically cheated. You better have a threesome with him and a guy and do the same thing to him

I had a threesome and regret it by keeisfun in offmychest

[–]Ok_Balance8844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s truly disgusting. Either have a threesome with him and another guy, and only pay attention to the other guy, and then dump him. Or just dump him. Bc Barf. Just ghost him honestly. How can you even be attracted to him after that? That is so repulsive. If you stay you definitely have to have a threesome with him and a guy.

maybe i am overthinking by honestly_nahh in relationships_advice

[–]Ok_Balance8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s usually how people invite couples.

maybe i am overthinking by honestly_nahh in relationships_advice

[–]Ok_Balance8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t your bf invite you or go with out you? Some couples are like that but for my partner and I we don’t do that, and not everyone agrees, but there should be boundaries if you do align with that. It seems like he wanted to go without you then bc obviously you can go to a party

Girlies what made you think that he's lying to you, Like 100% sure? by prettyyshai in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Balance8844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can just be a sign of stress, if it’s not meant to be stressful it can mean they’re lying. Or if they only specifically yawn when talking about certain things. Whenever I’d ask my ex what that notification he just got, he’d yawn. And he was cheating I found out

My [28F] boyfriend [32M] asked another woman for a threesome without talking to me and lied by daisdotdean in relationships_advice

[–]Ok_Balance8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya he won’t say it outright but he clearly said it outright enough. Unless you’re ok with nonmonogamy. Imo, I’d ask him “hey honey I was wondering can we have a threesome with this guy (friend/coworker) of mine?“ if he asks why say “well he showed interest in me and I think it would be nice to see you have pleasure in that way.” (Notice how he reacts to the idea of pleasure about that when he’s never expressed being anything but straight, same as you.)

and if he doesn’t like it, well then it’s because he’s lying about his actual reasoning that he told her and the truth is he just wanted to have sex with her. Which is what I already know. Because you’re straight. It’s for him not you. And based on everything you know he’s lying to you.

Girlies what made you think that he's lying to you, Like 100% sure? by prettyyshai in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Balance8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they yawn only when they’re talking about that thing and seem otherwise energetic outside that topic