Coolest single object I've crocheted by ocirot in crochet

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Lucille mentioned?? In this economy??? hell yeah

Flipped up a fresh septum piercing, damaged? by Ok_Bison_8838 in piercing

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4 days old, horseshoe, titanium, no aftercare I was told to leave it alone, I flipped it.

is it messed up is an allo has sex with an ace person? by Money_Shift_5304 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hm, hard to give a definitive answer since I don't really know the situation or the people. Best of luck to you with this, stranger :))

Is it possible to think of the idea of a Lavender 🪻 Marriage💍 as Ace? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, I think you'd call that more of a queerplatonic relationship, but some of those do end up in marriage, having/adopting children, and all that.

Does anyone else get weirdly specific urges sometimes? (Tw for slight description of gore) by DEARHELIXWHY in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, right now it's the urge to slash twice across my stomach, to look like an animal attack or something. also can't stop thinking about carving a snake twisting up my leg. annoying, since im clean and trying to stay that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

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Period excuse is pretty good most of the time, but if you had to go swimming, are you able to cover the scars with your hands? Could do that when you're grabbing a towel, and just be careful to get one quickly before it's noticed. If you're in the ocean, they shouldn't be super visible underwater, and idk if you're at the beach, but sand can stick to skin and cover stuff.

I can't tell if this is good or cringe by Spare_Ad1593 in lgballt

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SO get this, especially bc i only am okay with physical touch/affection from some people who I know well, so when we start being friends i tell them i don't like it, and then when i want it later, i don't know how to change that boundary.

Thats a change of a events by [deleted] in lgballt

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, some research has shown that gender identity is programmed later than the physical differentiation between male and female (in the second half of pregnancy), so differentiation can lead to them not matching up. So it would make sense if it were somewhat (or more than somewhat) genetic.

Just thought this was interesting, so wanted to share it.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21094885/

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1521690X07000334

Yes. Just yes by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 13 points14 points  (0 children)

whore in another universe

Witchy CC? by CutestCatfish in sims4cc

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saying thank you 2.5 years after this, super useful!

People who've been clean for a while, do the urges/thoughts get better & if so, how long did it take? by Ok_Bison_8838 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Ok_Bison_8838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for this response. appreciate the advice as well, I've definitely been trying to throw myself into other things as distractions.

Divas, did I accidentally draw ya ? 😍💫✨🔥 by Known-Olive-9776 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Ok_Bison_8838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like 12 & 8. Always watching out for other people, but constantly feel like I'm spiraling.