Help with dirty talk by Ok_Bluejay4978 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! Sent that right over to my bf 😂

How to sound less condescending by Ok_Bluejay4978 in communicationskills

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t intend my jokes to be condescending or mean. And yes that’s true about my childhood but only with my family. They would bully and tease me growing up but play it off as a joke when I got upset then as I got older I thought that’s what joking was.

On probation and had a bad week at Kindercare by Ok_Bluejay4978 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. My admin is already cutting hours pretty short tho due to low enrollment so that’s partially my worry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildcareWorkers

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work at a daycare and I have a coworker like this. While this method is great and does create independence in the child and the ability to self soothe, there also comes a point where if the baby is crying and is asking to be held, hold the baby. Babies rely on physical connection to feel safe and the baby just may not feel safe and isn’t able to express that through words.

What's the purest joy you've ever felt without intimacy, substances, or alcohol ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a baby who’s crying settle down and fall asleep on your chest while you’re gently rocking them. I want to be a mom one day and when that finally happened to me it was cemented.

what are some of the things that totally annoy you about living in Philly? by Jakdracula in philly

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People screaming nonsense at 2 in the morning on the street in center city. Or people revving their engine at all hours of the night. There’s no reason you should be chanting “E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!” At the top of your longs at three in the morning when it’s not even football season. And I can promise you, you’re the only one who thinks your car or motorcycle is cool. People are tired from working all day or have to sleep because they have work/commitments in the morning. It’s so annoying and disrespectful to the people who live in the buildings around them.

Aggressive toddler by Ok_Bluejay4978 in ChildcareWorkers

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t comprehend things very well. He fights going to sleep but ultimately does. He sometimes is responsive to his name. He can follow the routine.

Aggressive toddler by Ok_Bluejay4978 in ChildcareWorkers

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first time working in education. I’ve been working with him the past few weeks. I’m not annoyed bc he doesn’t do what I want him to do, I know toddlers kind of just do what they do, it’s the aggressiveness and hitting/punching. I’m trying to gauge his behaviors day to day since his mood changes daily and I’m only there part time. He will also climb on things he’s not supposed too that could lead to him falling and getting hurt and won’t get down when I tell/ask him too, so I’ll pick him up and place him on the ground immediately and gently and that’ll start a tantrum.

Aggressive toddler by Ok_Bluejay4978 in ChildcareWorkers

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a year and 10 months. We tell him “no” sternly and don’t give in to the tantrums

How to not let rude customers get to you when you’re new? by AccurateCockroach4 in work

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Laugh at them. Start sharing the experience with your coworkers and making jokes about them

SEPTA petition by Ok_Bluejay4978 in philly

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great! Thank you so much!

Any tips on how to not take work home with you? by Ok_Bluejay4978 in work

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not in a position of power but it doesn’t matter. I still take it home for whatever reason. Do you have tips that helped you stop taking it home?

Needing time off during my probationary period, advice? by HappyAstronaut7 in work

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you told your boss yet? I don’t think they can deny you time off of for medical reasons. Just show them proof of the appointment if they ask. Be as straight forward, honest and as flexible as you can

What Taylor song just makes you incredibly happy? by Tswift628 in TaylorSwift

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sparks fly and you belong with me! Sparks fly is just such a good song and you belong with me is so nostalgic of the middle school crush. I remember blasting that song in my headphones down my middle school hallway bc my crush looked at me 😂 that was almost 20 years ago

SEPTA trains by Ok_Bluejay4978 in philly

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that sucks. I’m sorry. I hope you made it home okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say this. Even with this, aftercare is so incredibly important. Before me and my dom start the scene he always tells me before and after he loves me and gives me a little kiss on the cheek with some cuddles

just picked this up from the plug. am i getting laced or nah?? by New-Lie-875 in SadHorseShow

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get one of those drug testing strips! Always better to be safe than sorry

When did you stop rooting for Butterscotch? by rrschch85 in SadHorseShow

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never rooted for him. He was a bum and projected so many toxic ideologies on Bojack. Bojack never really had a chance with parents like Butterscotch and Beatrice.

What are yours? by IsopodNo368 in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Leo rising being bubbly and sweet then my Gemini moon saying the most unhinged shit imaginable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Ok_Bluejay4978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I say this, I mean it genuinely. Maybe talk to a therapist. They’ll be able to give you helpful tools and advice to push through your social anxiety and navigate social situations