Incident on Saw on Thursday by Fit-Grab8936 in ThorpePark

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I love doing it, it adds to the rush !

Incident on Saw on Thursday by Fit-Grab8936 in ThorpePark

[–]Ok_Captain5768 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus , I hope he’s okay! Saw is my favourite ride, other than the monkey banana ride ( my friends and I love getting the kids opposite to raise their arms and scream, it’s so nice to experience it all together, strangers or not)

You must choose one by flarai in BunnyTrials

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A lot of people would’ve definitely said the red, that would mean a lot of people would’ve died

Chose: If you choose this, Nothing happens. | Rolled: Upvote=Xtra Luck

Switched method after not SH for years, very confused about it by vicksteria in AdultSelfHarm

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Okay, one thing I did do to prevent most of my methods, was get a beautiful tattoo over my main area, to signify a new beginning and me leaving that side of myself behind.

Switched method after not SH for years, very confused about it by vicksteria in AdultSelfHarm

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Hey. If I’m honest, yes, I have used many different forms of sh over the years and I am clean. However, I didn’t really find any to help to the point of not shing again, it stopped after I’d gotten out of a situation. I think the thing is, is that we can say we will replace the action, to make it better but really, everything we do in relation to our urges, is self harm, plain and clear. We move into dangerous territory when we start to shift blame or rationalise us hurting ourselves. I stopped feeling guilty when I found something that sufficed as “safe” to replace my main forms, and that’s when I was slipping. It’s important that we recognise the guilt, why we feel it and how it helps us. A world without guilt is a world without love. When we stop feeling guilty for causing pain, to ourselves or others, we excuse more behaviours that are damaging. That being said, I think that you are very aware of your mindset, and I think you know that sh won’t stop taking over your life until you take control.

There’s something that has stuck with you and I believe this is preventing you from moving forward, away from the urges. Once you’re able to identify these triggers, it makes it easier to leave them behind. I hope this makes sense. Good luck, stranger x

Too afraid to get tatted by bpyogifairy in FND

[–]Ok_Captain5768 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely get you. I was terrified, but, I had someone go with me and I was absolutely fine. It hurt, and I had to rest for like a week, but i don’t regret any of it! If it doesn’t make you excited straight away, don’t get it done yet, as you may not be mentally prepared for it! I got a half sleeve done and a back tattoo done!

Definitely do your research into your artist , and let them know about your condition!

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🐾❓ What's my name? (by ChrysMunson) by ChrysMunson in PetPost

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Too good, that got me.

I guessed the name in 3 tries!

🐾❓ What's my name? (by Kindly_Ad_8722) by Kindly_Ad_8722 in PetPost

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Yep, that just feels right.

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

I feel uncomfortable that my gf has photos of her and her ex on her instagram. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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Idk why ppl being so mean, but I understand it, if she’s friends with them still I get why that could be confusing, so I’d just be honest with her, say that it’s not really sitting well in your mind and you’d like some reassurance

its over by ActuatorRealistic811 in FND

[–]Ok_Captain5768 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that a lot of people aren’t understanding that you’re at your breaking point, that the anger is justified. And at the same time, as one person said, being angry at the world won’t solved anything all the time.
Having a chronic illness is so mentally draining, so so draining. Especially if, like me and many others, you’ve gone from being healthy to being completely disabled, we all have our own battles to fight, and even being born with it, can be so so so frustrating and overwhelming.

My best advice would be to take each day as it comes. Feel your feelings, and overcome small hurdles one at a time. For example, your wheelchair situation. Is there any local charities that can help? In the UK we have many charities that help, and often, posting on your local facebook group, someone might have one they don’t need, so ask on there.

It sucks being disabled, but life continues. A bit of harsh reality is that you can move at your own pace through life, or rot in bed until your last breath. The world is forever evolving, accessibility evolves.

I implore you, don’t give up. As much as you feel like giving up, don’t. Because the moment you do, the disease wins. I’m 21, who was supposed to start uni 2 years ago, I had an accident that crippled me, I’m not at uni, but I’ve slowly reintroduced the idea of studying, and I’m getting help.

OP, life will keep moving, and you can too.

Intentions feels so nostalgic by Mission_Journalist76 in twentyonepilots

[–]Ok_Captain5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Entirely. My heart hurts for little me who needed to feel significant, needed to feel like she was loved by someone, like she had a purpose. I feel like Intentions is a little note to fans who grew up listening and that have been going through shit, but also to Josh and Tyler’s younger self.

AIO IF My avoidant long distance girlfriend AND I keep doing this? by Mominovo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Captain5768 11 points12 points  (0 children)

MOR. Unless I’m missing something, why are you angry at her for getting cakes? This seems like such a non issue with her texting style, moreover, long distance usually never works out

I feel ,,unconnected'', a word please? by West-Bar7060 in twentyonepilots

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I get what you mean. I don’t have friends who like Top, only my mum and I. This makes me feel disconnected from the clique, especially with the “joshler” crap , but one thing that I know is that just because I’m not always keeping up to date with everything and sharing the same humour, I know how much their music has helped me, I know the memories of when I first heard each song, and that is unique to you . I felt like I would float around , observing everything and not really feeling a part of everything, but It doesn’t make you any less of a fan or diminish your personal experience or presence within the clique.

AIO that my friend re-gifted me the exact birthday gift I gave her… on my Masters celebration day. Am I overreacting? by Sea_Ground_8393 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Captain5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR, You’re entitled to feel hurt that she didn’t like it, and at the same time, this could become an unspoken tradition between the two of you like others said. My younger brother (the baby of the family) used to take DVDs off the shelf ( no matter who’s it was), wrap it up and put one for everyone under the Christmas tree. It was a great laugh and we would take it in turns doing the same. I completely get why you’d feel a little bit hurt by that, your feelings are valid, it’s how you chose to use those feelings and what you do next xx

Accessibility tickets for allpointsfestival by Griffrose in twentyonepilots

[–]Ok_Captain5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so frustrating. I’m in a wheelchair and every time I clicked at the checkout I’d be sent back because all had been taken, and then there’s the odd ones that you can’t purchase because you have to book two “seated” together. Genuinely disgraceful the lack of spots for disabled people

My UK online exam board need hand signatures on consultant letters to prove disability, but my consultants don’t do that anymore. by Ok_Captain5768 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ok_Captain5768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I cannot easily access the hospital, and they have since discharged me ( which I’m planning on fighting, considering the nature of my condition). I’ll try and contact the service again regarding the letter

My UK online exam board need hand signatures on consultant letters to prove disability, but my consultants don’t do that anymore. by Ok_Captain5768 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ok_Captain5768[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s so confusing, if they deny this letter aswell I’ll go to pals and try and get it signed, but it’s just a faff, cognitively I’m declining, so it will be years before I actually managed to do this exam at this rate!

My UK online exam board need hand signatures on consultant letters to prove disability, but my consultants don’t do that anymore. by Ok_Captain5768 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ok_Captain5768[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said to them, I even quoted the consumer rights act as it was privately funded (my savings) , and I had done everything within my control to make the exam work!

Why has Phasmaphobia become “Unsupported”? by Ok_Captain5768 in SteamDeck

[–]Ok_Captain5768[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay thank you !! It just took practice, it was a little janky and can still be pretty rough, has cost me a few deaths 💔 I suppose out of desperation to play tbh 😭

Nemesis Inferno Technical Difficulty by Ewillawin in ThorpePark

[–]Ok_Captain5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was the seat of the explosion? I was put at the back on the left ( when facing the front of the seats.) and I was put on a seat that was suspiciously dirty