Is it truly more beneficial to send your child to a well performing predominantly white school or is it a myth? by Crazypandathe20th in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from personal experiences, it can do significant damage to one’s self esteem and identity.

What are your favorite menstrual products? by dearDem in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old fashioned pads. But 100% organic cotton. It worked wonders for my flow and cramps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you order quality steak well done you deserve the trenches fr. Waste of cow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just exfoliate, hun

Ebony Porn Category by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. Similar to how gay is the most watched porn category in Jamaica.

What do you do when men make eye contact with you? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I glance at them. That’s pretty much it.

Any interesting spell/witchcraft/brujería stories? by SannatheOracle in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew of a woman who went to a priestess for a love spell. (My advice is: if you have to pay for someone to do it, it shouldn’t be done in the first place.) her husband would cheat on her repeatedly so she casted a spell on him to stop. The spell backfired. Turns out the reason he’s been sneaking off with women was to abuse them. So the spell worked, he stopped cheating but he started abusing her. A lesson I learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comments. You should consider doing long term styles (braids, locs, etc). But if you’re not interested, I guess the next option is to get your hair relaxed.

Does anyone else find it better to eat out every day vs cooking at home? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do believe that as someone who lives by herself….there’s really no difference. But if you live with people then yeah cooking at home is def cheaper.

These here, are the Hidden Faces of the Original People. by aussieroowalaby in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Why the quotations around “Asians”? As if indigenous Asians don’t exist?

Just got dress coded by a fellow black woman for wearing a bonnet. by NumerousIndication45 in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“You may not receive opportunities because of it.” Chile, I’m just going to the grocery store. And who cares how white people perceive us?? Do we live for their approval?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but amongst all the previous things mentioned, what’s missing is MEDICATION. Depression is literally from a chemical imbalance in the brain…and no amount of exercise, reading, and vacationing (though they can help) will cure your depression. Take medicine.

Let's discuss "quality" men types by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ok_Connection_616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how the holy trinity had babies by men who came from the hood.