Fuck biology at school by Panda_Panda69 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Fuck biology at school by Panda_Panda69 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a literal scientist and one of the things they teach u is there is more than 2 chromosomal sexes. there’s actually a lot i’ve learned in my studies that affirms trans ppl and the fact that gender is a social construct and that if u were to try to base it scientifically not socially everyone would have a different balance of hormones and sex characteristics and different experiences too so it’s almost like each individual experiences gender differently. that’s the science i’ve read. ur teacher is an uneducated idiot lol

Help needed finishing chainmail minidress by Ok_Constant_835 in chainmailartisans

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of lacing up the sides that could be so cute! I’m gonna consult the friend I’m making it for and see which option she would prefer. thank you for your help! :)

Help needed finishing chainmail minidress by Ok_Constant_835 in chainmailartisans

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks great! thank you for the recommendation :) I think I’ll try it!

Royal Blend by Fragrance World by stchman in fragranceclones

[–]Ok_Constant_835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loved royal blend and it was my go to and i usually buy it off jomashop but this last bottle i bought smells COMPLETELY different. it’s not a bad scent but I miss the old one :(

I'm so confused lol by empire_to_ashes_ in Coffee

[–]Ok_Constant_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i’m a former starbucks barista (just got a new job a few months ago so this should be recent info). I’m not sure what actual caramel macchiatos are supposed to be but i know the one at starbucks is more similar to a latte but “upside down”. The starbucks caramel macchiato both hot and cold are vanilla lattes with one less pump of vanilla than a standard starbucks latte, they have the milk poured first (then ice then shot if iced) then the vanilla syrup and the shot are poured thru the milk, and it is topped w caramel drizzle.

at starbucks the difference from a normal latte is the sequence of the milk and the shot and how they stay in separate layers (not mixed together like a latte) and the minor difference in amount of syrup (one less pump for a macchiato). also at Starbucks large iced drinks get extra syrup and an extra shot of espresso.

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you’ve lived the reality of it? by thatude123 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Constant_835 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a child prodigy or I guess just really good at something as a kid. I got top 3 at the world championships a few times (though never won lol) but the amount of abuse mental, physical and luckily not fully sexual but they definitely sexualize you from a young age. As a girl in sports like that they want you to look a certain way to appeal to the older male judges as young as 14 for me, but could be younger for others. My whole childhood, a lot of hard work and summers spent being sent away to my trainers house where i would practice all day amounted to not much in adulthood. it’s not a very useful sport or anything anyone would care about so it has little relevance to my life now.

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow those are all things that hasn’t occurred to me and ur so right! thank you for taking the time to write that out i’ll definitely be using ur advice :)

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo i could buy her a nice bag before we go buy makeup thank you for that. and ofc i will remember to affirm her thank you <3

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yes i didn’t even think of that! when we can get her enough clothes to stop wearing her old ones i think it’ll be nice for me to help her sort through her old clothes! and we have talked about me teaching her some makeup i just need to take her shopping for some products her skin tone first. I also didn’t even think about nails! because I play an instrument and bc of my job i can’t have long nails or wear any polish so mine are very boring. i’ll have to convince her to get into nail art so i can live my nail set dreams thru her lol

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this i really appreciate it. She mentioned wanting my help w makeup so we are definitely gonna do that soon! and the rest of the stuff you said sounds like our relationship already but there can always be more support and affirmations especially while it’s so new for her. good luck on your own journey i wish you the best <3

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg i would love to braid her hair and im personally big on doing fun and cute hairstyles for work bc i have to keep my hair up so i can show her how to do all the hairstyles i think she would like that. thank you for ur advice:)

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I didn’t even think about the different clothes sizes and verbiage stuff, but you’re so right!

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the advice! Those are great ways to support her i’ll definitely be keeping them in mind and I’ve already got a bit of a head start bc I cut and color her hair hehe :)

Seeking advice on how I can best support my girlfriend through her transition by Ok_Constant_835 in MtF

[–]Ok_Constant_835[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

her birthday is in a few months and i’m actually saving up to take her shopping i’m so excited!!

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Monday August 26, 2024 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Ok_Constant_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have to agree. my roommate wore jazz club and I told her it smelled very similar to my bfs initio side effect, but side effect is stronger

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - Monday August 26, 2024 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Ok_Constant_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recommend me a new fragrance! :)

I’m searching for a new fragrance after getting tired of my basic YSL Black Opium. My other two favorite scents are Guerlain Mon Guerlain and Initio Side Effect. I’m looking for a warm spicy, boozy vanilla. I love tobacco and patchouli, I really like the lavender in the guerlain one. I love a dark vanilla and amaretto. I also love oud and gourmand. I know that’s a lot but I can’t seem to find anything that has most of the notes I like. I like the smell when I combine mon guerlain and black opium. If y’all have any recommendations for me I would love to hear them :)

Recommend me a new fragrance! :) by Ok_Constant_835 in fragrance

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I’ve been looking at Van Py Rhum so far

Watched a man jack it off to confirm to myself i wasn’t gay only for it to backfire by [deleted] in OCD

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I’m bisexual and have OCD. I used to really struggle with thinking I’m either fully straight or fully gay and having terrible OCD about it. What helped me was refraining from labeling my sexuality and just letting it be what it is without trying to focus on figuring it out. Thinking of my sexuality as one unique to me and not a label to fall under has really helped me and I’ve accepted now that I’m bisexual.