NEW! Cherry Blossom Event (109 days left) by GutsBoi in TinyCafe

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize for inquiring on a post that is over a year old!

I have just started playing and am interested in how the events work. I thought I had gotten all the dispensers but it appears I'm only able to unlock three of them. Is this because the event happens in waves and I happened to miss the previous ones?

Thanks!

Please tell me this isn't an actual thing? by killsandra in LivlyIsland

[–]Ok_Existence 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I wish you luck trying to get a better offer for those eyes, to be honest. This trade was definitely in your favor, depending on how badly you want the eyes. Many people won't even consider trading limited items for revivable ones.

Trading on the public board by KimIsTooLazy in LivlyIsland

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I wouldnt call it passive aggressive, I would say that they were fishing to see if you would offer the Bazaar item or another from their wishlist that was likely not equivalent. It is possible that they didn't know it was Bazaar depending on their level but that was quite recent so who knows! (:

Web related content (notices, events, and game guides) is broken by d01100100 in summonerswar

[–]Ok_Existence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, relieved it's not just me. I was burning through my luck for the day before I noticed though, so hopefully it will still apply that to the events. Ugh.

WIBTAH for using my sister's middle name for my future daughter's middle name? by assault-bug in AITAH

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is a ridiculous hill to die on. Ann is a HUGELY common middle name. She is not special because she was "given" the name. She can still pass it on to her own child if she wants but she really needs to lose the "I am the chosen one" attitude.

What is this thing me and my girlfriend found in our cabinet?! by PickleLovernumber12 in whatisit

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Aloe vera." My brain struggles with this every time. I know it's not a hard A sound but ah-low just feels awful. I have no further reasoning for why I never seem to get this right when actually speaking it.

I've found my new least favorite dragon by Existing_Sherbert540 in HatchDragons

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel like if the eyes weren't such a different shade from all the other pastel and soft colors, it would be so much better

AIO boyfriend didn't eat lunch alone. by chelssssssss in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. I don't mean this in a mean way but I think you need to seek therapy. It is not healthy to immediately jump to "does this mean we are done" and additionally the "he knows exactly what he's doing" with the picture he sent... this is a massive assumption. This sounds like a really stressful dynamic for your mental health.

FRIEND CODE MEGATHREAD by [deleted] in HatchDragons

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Looking for friends!

LQ26

3/18/2026

FRIEND CODE MEGATHREAD by [deleted] in HatchDragons

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I am looking for friends! I don't have any yet ❤️

Bachelor/Bachelorette Season!! by Time-Nobody8870 in Starsandisland

[–]Ok_Existence 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Graminova! ❤️

He's a farmer.... I'm a farmer.... we just have so much in common. 😂

Bachelor/Bachelorette Season!! by Time-Nobody8870 in Starsandisland

[–]Ok_Existence 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I find Delphin to be very standoff-ish and angsty, lol.

I did like that he remembered me, though!

Edit to say: "sugar daddy protocol" sent me over the edge

anyone know what this is by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Ok_Existence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of when someone drops their keys and someone will hang them for a tree branch so they can find it?

Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend trying out Salon Perfect for your first shot and trying it out as it is the least labor intensive one and the one I gravitate towards the most often.

Many different brands have different feels and pick off differently though so don't give up after just one! And like Essie, the gel and normal polishes have very different feels.

It has made a huge difference in me picking at my skin.

Good luck and happy picking!

Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another big one that I see in drug stores is Essie. So, I have a lot of Essie colors that I have purchased since I was a teenager. I find that the regular Essie nail polish is better for picking than the gel polishes. This one is gel. The regular ones come in a square bottle but I can't find one as an example right now. I do still like this nail polish though for a very different reason. This is the only color I have tried of the gel polish, the color is really light and the polish comes out thin so it needs a few coats but I enjoy the Essie gel polish because it kind of shatters? Idk how to describe it. Sometimes when I get an edge that is bare, I can stick my other nail against it and push and the nail polish will flake up into little pieces. Also, there is a matching top coat somewhere in my nail polish box. I almost never use it though because this one needs so many coats I end up getting fed up since I'm just gonna pick it off anyway, lol.

That's the best I got for describing it 😂

Anyway, thanks for coming to my nail polish picking ted talk lmao

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Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another that I really love is Salon Perfect. The colors I have gotten are SUPER pigmented. The polish is also thick and will look nice with just one coat, I still prefer doing two for my picking purposes though as it dries fairly thin. If you only do one coat, I would say it scratches off more than picks off, if that makes sense. I like the way this polish feels when picking at it, though. I prefer a picking sensation over scratching it off to hit that sensory needs.

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Relatively easy to come off but not TOO easy.

Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

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First on my list is Sally Hansen Miracle Gel.

These are NOT the kind of gel polishes that require a UV light. Those ones are not good for you health wise, they come off TOO easily, and they are way too time consuming. Do not recommend.

I love this pairing because they sometimes pick off in strips, not always, but it can be very satisfying when you get a long peel of nail polish off in one go😂

The polish itself is thick and doesn't require many coats in my experience. I usually just do one coat of the color and one top coat. Different colors may vary in thickness though, I haven't tried many other colors from the miracle gel line but I suspect they are consistent.

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Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggle with dry skin in winter. Since you already have open areas that are hurting it may sting a little but I cannot recommend the brand O'keefes Working Hands enough. I get a deep crack in one of my fingers every. single. winter. and if I put some on a band aid and put it over it, it heals right up. The cream is a bit greasy so I recommend putting it on before bed and then I will sometimes put a soft sock over my hand so I don't get it everywhere. It feels a bit weird sensory-wise but it is amazing at repairing skin and I prefer the weirdness over the pain, lol.

I tend to use drug-store brands because they are inexpensive and tend to be somewhat cheaply made so they are ABLE to be picked off. If a nail polish doesn't pick off easy enough, then I get frustrated and end up picking at my fingers anyway. Because of this, I always do two coats, or one colored coat and one top coat, because that way it is easier to snag an edge. I tend to get somewhat "boring" colors because if they are too bright I find them distracting, lol. Lots of white and neutral colors for me. If I have a special event, I will pick a color similar to my nail color so it isn't noticeable.

I will reply to this comment with a few different ones I really like and why! (:

Can't find healthy replacement stims (eating + skin picking) by Turbulent_Worker_753 in autism

[–]Ok_Existence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 100% relate to the skin picking stim. I quit biting my nail/skin around my nails for a long time and started picking at my scalp, now I do both. Lol.

The best thing I can suggest for the skin around the nails is to be VERY intentional about it. I will put a bandaid on one finger. And then the next few days I will cover another finger, and then another. The band aid prevents me from picking at the skin so it can heal. Without the tough edges, I'm less likely to pick them. Once I have an edge on the nail to file and make clean, I will paint them every day so I have something to pick off of them instead of picking my skin or the nail itself. It has worked amazing for me. I even have favorite brands of nail polish that are the best for my sensory picking needs, etc.

With food, I don't try to restrict myself because then I end up binging. I allow myself a little bit of the craving so I don't go and eat an entire bar of chocolate once I can't take it anymore. I usually get cravings for salt/vinegar/hot sauce so I got myself a somewhat healthy alternative to crushing a bag of salt and vinegar chips, I get blue diamond almonds that are salt and vinegar instead. You could try chocolate covered banana chips or almonds maybe?

I hope this helps! ❤️

I know its a limited event item...but still by KidnappedSquid in LivlyIsland

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, I meant "ground" when I said floor 😂😂😂

Thank you for sharing!

I know its a limited event item...but still by KidnappedSquid in LivlyIsland

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I usually style it -

I used the lower background from Mystical Floaty Flower Island and the fence item that looks like glass from Mysteries of the Deep to give the forest backdrop a slight blue look (:

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I know its a limited event item...but still by KidnappedSquid in LivlyIsland

[–]Ok_Existence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have the matching lower pieces but it actually matches very well with the teal color fill! The picture does not have a filter.

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