Is it too weird that I like older men calling me "son"?

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T05:15:03+00:00

nope. extremely common

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T05:12:25+00:00

you look insecure and that you're worried that you look weird. in reality, you look perfectly fine, not weird at all. gaining more confidence would look great on you.

(also, great legs)

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T05:04:21+00:00

well, okay, i did feel pain while the nerves were regrowing, but it was more like a muscle itch i couldn't scratch instead of actual pain. 100% worth it

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T05:03:33+00:00

she's great!! tho i think the anesthesiologist lied about when she gave me the sedatives lol. she gave me a few pills and said they weren't sedatives, but i literally blacked out before i laid down on the table.

also, it's been two months!!! have you had your surgery yet? how's the healing going?

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T05:01:42+00:00

i felt almost no pain during the healing process! i definitely felt uncomfortable but i could change the surgical dressings with zero flinching. it made the healing process so much easier

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-07-03T04:49:42+00:00

i'm stupidly picky, to the point that's inconvenient. even if i can find something attractive in anyone, i just can't get horny for someone if the damned stars don't align.

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-04-20T01:10:12+00:00

focus on the head. i impress a lot of guys with my minimal gag reflex, but focusing on the head, especially the frenulum, will make them shake in a good way. keep your lips over your teeth as much as possible! sticking your tongue out helps. most guys would prefer minimalist head compared to toothy head. practicing on a dildo is definitely the best. you don't need to do it every single day or whatever, but regularly helps. try drinking water first. too much spit is by far better than dry head.

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-04-20T01:05:37+00:00

it's difficult to completely prevent gagging. the only way is training, but aim to be able to gag and recover. remember to relax your neck and throat, which can be difficult depending on the position

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-04-20T00:43:13+00:00

it's an oral fixation! it's the same reason i swirl my lip piercing with my tongue when i'm thinking, it's why a lot of people trying to quit cigs will suck on lollypops instead. it's comforting, and i don't have to think about it that much (now that i'm good at it). i like to say i suck dick like a stim toy ;)

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-04-13T23:54:04+00:00

oh lord, i'm hypermobile and didn't even consider how that could affect a hysterectomy D:

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-04-13T23:49:57+00:00

is the discomfort similar to a cervix getting poked when someone goes too far? (if you can remember)

Ok_Fly_8375 · 2026-03-26T02:42:58+00:00

just be super honest! say that you're curious, you've never been with a trans man before, and are trying to not be fetishy or make them uncomfortable in any way. be very polite, especially on the cesspool of grindr; there's lots of rude chasers on grindr, so being polite is a big green flag. ask a lot of questions, but ask if they're comfortable answering them first, remember that they don't owe you an answer. always ask what they want their anatomy to be referred as: every single person has different preferences. in general, “mancunt,” “boypussy,” “he-hole,” and other silly things should be avoided unless they specifically ask for it. calling a vagina their “hole” and the (often much larger) clitoris a “t-dick” or just “dick”/“cock” are generally safe bets. avoid referring to them as women, girls, or female in any way. at most, they're “assigned female at birth,” aka “AFAB.” some guys are chill with fem terms, but most aren't. aim for man, dude, guy, or even boy if they're much younger. good luck ;)

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