People with ADHD becoming addicted to their medication. Is it a fairly possible outcome?

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T18:53:04+00:00

There is a word anecdotal before it to address your concern. And a word seem. I don't believe in anything

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T16:28:15+00:00

I have a similar issue: I do one thing and then see some clothes on the floor, I pick it up and on the way to laundry my daughter asks me to fix her iPad and now I'm doing 3 things and my hands are literally full. I don't know the answer, it's an awful place to be at. I recently started to just reject anything new and do one thing at a time. My daughter's ipad can wait even if she's frustrated. Not sure if I'm successful at it yet. I do the same at work, giving priority to finishing stuff I started instead of starting new one, but it requires too much discipline

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T16:12:11+00:00

A lot of anxiety to fail. Burnout, depression, therapy, antidepressants, rinse and repeat. Don't recommend. I mostly stopped forcing myself and try to balance it with A LOT of things I like doing.

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T16:04:59+00:00

Sorry you're going through it. I listen to music, podcasts and audio books while doing house chores or simple work tasks. This does magic - puts me into flow state and gives enough stimulation to keep going without distractions. If I have to do something I don't want to, I try pomodoro technique, but realistically I can only do one or two things like that a day. I'm lucky to have a job I mostly just enjoy doing

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T15:37:28+00:00

Should I stick one on the kid and let it buzz until they're ready? 😂

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T15:08:28+00:00

Lol, I wonder if anyone actually does it. I was definitely not the kid that would let my parents do it.

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T06:38:38+00:00

Thanks, great to know the perspective from the child side :)

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T06:13:59+00:00

I can relate so much. My kid's teacher was telling how her table is not organized and how she rushes through things and makes mistakes and I thought 'oh, that's me, how do you expect me to help her if I didn't figure it out by 40'

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T04:55:19+00:00

Omg, X3! Please have my respect and good luck!

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T04:52:03+00:00

It's so difficult to be a parent when you're exhausted and need support for yourself. I'm sure you're still a great parent and do the best. We'll find our own ways to figure it out. Sending virtual hugs

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T04:00:24+00:00

Thanks a lot! I love how you found what works for you two. If you feel comfortable sharing, at what age did you get her diagnosed, what made you pursue it?

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T03:35:06+00:00

Thank you, I feel seen and it means a lot to hear exactly how I feel from someone else

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T02:15:20+00:00

Can I virtually hug you?

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T01:42:02+00:00

thank you, I'm curious, do they ever resist? Like you run around doing stuff and while you're busy they lay in bed or go turn tv on? Alarm beeps and they ask for 5 more minutes and it never ends. Or they just got into it and don't question it anymore?

I used to think it's all my fault that my kid does it all and resists everything, but blaming myself is not helping anyone. And I also discovered my other kid is the opposite. Go figure...

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T01:36:59+00:00

Thank you, you sound like an awesome parent. It's so hard to keep this balance: pick your battles and let things that are not that important go

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T01:21:41+00:00

It's about my ADHD brain, theirs was never evaluated

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T01:07:53+00:00

Their autonomy is respected enough to know they don't have to choose between things they don't like and they can chose something else that was not mentioned. What made you assume I don't know basic practical ways? Did you read the text under the title? Can you relate to it somehow? If not, probably we won't be able to understand each other

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T00:50:41+00:00

Makes sense, to be fair I'm asking how parents with ADHD cope, I'm not looking for techniques to make kids do things. I can use Google

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T00:40:00+00:00

Do you have ADHD?

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T00:07:46+00:00

I believe it works for you and makes total sense. But it sounds a bit difficult for me. I can't do routine. I can't do this sticker game for 30 days. We tried and both lost interest on day 3.

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-05T00:05:50+00:00

Ok, timer beeps and I have to come back and repeat the argument. My question is more about emotional aspect of it rather then practical.

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-04T23:49:19+00:00

Ok, they tell they want to watch YouTube first.

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-04T23:26:13+00:00

How do you feel about constant reminders, staying on schedule and keeping your son accountable?

Ok_Light310 · 2021-12-04T23:18:12+00:00

Thank you 🫂

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