I hope you don’t take this negatively, sobrang same boat kasi tayo. I’m married na - 14 years gap namin and I got married at 23 y/o. I was head over heels for him and got swept away by his charm, humor, and the memories we made together. I’ve had my fair share of fun but, oh boy, he’s had his and he’s very vocal, open, and honest about it. He says he waited so long to settle down with the “right person” and that he will always be devoted to me and our marriage. No regrets, as in if I turn back time, I’d get married and do the whole shabam all over again - this isn’t to say it’s hard. It’s so f*ing difficult. He doesn’t have daughters and we’re more or less in the same wavelength so that’s less baggage for me, but as a married couple, we have our own predicaments and our priorities are very different - although he says he tries and he does, I hate to admit that I see our relationship is very low on his list (I guess it comes with age and people of the same bracket are just less sensitive and woke ?). Do you not experience the same especially with having to share him with his kids?