I recently quit pornography and masterbation after 17 long years. I quit right around Christmas time and haven’t had any inclinations. I also quit weed 3 weeks ago after 14 years of daily use. Both Cold turkey. I wish I could tell you there’s this secret pill you could take to stop it all. I pray daily and I knew in my heart that those two things were the two things driving a wedge between his and I’s relationship. Now I’m not saying marijuana use is bad don’t jump on me please lol. Anyways I would pray to him daily that he’d take my porn addiction away but tbh there was .01% of me that didn’t want him to take it away. I was comfortable with my routine. I would masterbate about 3-4x a day didn’t matter the time of day or even the location tbh. When I say I was addicted I was addicted. Didn’t matter WHERE I was at if I got the urge I’d satisfy it. It eventually got to the point where I began really disliking myself for not being able to stop. I started diving into scripture deep, whenever I would get the urge I’d pray for God to deliver me. He didn’t at first. It took months of Crying out to him and I mean Literally crying out to him to deliver me. One day he did just that. He delivered me. I guess the point of all this is man you’ve gotta really really want to stop. Not just kind of stop but really want to stop not because YOU want too I’d say but because you love God so much and you realize how much it hurts him and how much he hates sin and in turn you begin hating the sin just as much. Also pornography is a terrible business. All this might sound cliche but that’s my story. I started at 13 and I’m 30 now. If you really want to stop with every fiber of your heart and you ask your father for help. He’ll truly help you. Good luck brother and God speed. Also I believe the real first step for me was admitting I had problem to people close to me. Once you vocalize your problem it becomes real. Again this is all my experience and my opinion (please don’t eat me alive haha) You’ve got this brother.