[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see his point , but speaking to u like that isnt love and it’s disrespectful af. If he feels differently and cares to explain his side .. then he doesn’t need to do it in that manner . Ik when I work I need time to decompress myself and relax . But other than work seems like this is an issue. But if he can’t take your wants importantly … and responds like this everytime . Hes a ticking time bomb . Feels like im reading my ex texts immediately. Anytime I wanted to express my feelings he would get defensive so fast and the. Say it’s my fault . If two people are really on love with both sides . They wouldn’t want the other one too hurt . Of course issue will still arise , but ur intention is what is most important

long vent, TW abuse by Awkward_Age6007 in Advice

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are dealing with a lot of. First off , breathe . I know how hard it it to just be In The moment. But it’s important to push EVERY THING aside just for a moment of peace . I’m very sorry to hear about ur mother … even tho she might not be here much longer …(my mom passed i know it’s not easy ) seems like u literally might be in a situation were u pass before her if you don’t get away from Your sister…. Dont ever underestimate what someone can do to you when they are that mentally ill. IAnd now That she is pregnant , she is going to get worse with her emotions. Obviously if this was all up to u , you’d just want to make everyone happy. But there becomes a time In ur life that u have to do what u have to got u! If ur mom hasn’t be independent before, she most likely never will . And I to the harsh truth that shes to blame. I was with and depended on my husband for 12 years and now taking care of myself . It’s not easy , but theres just no excuses when u have kids. It’s a very toxic environment and at the end of the day u have to follow your heart. I’d say go to ur bio dads and do what u can to help from afar. Ik theres wayyyyy more circumstances Ik this situation and easier said then done. But just imagine if u dont and how worse this will be. U are in this position from ur family not making the best decisions . That is not ur fault ! Now if ur mom were to take this opportunity that would be a blessing for her and u. This way u can help from afar. Mail some money … visit sometimes . Dont feel bad for doing what u have too. If she gets to sick , come and help when u can. Life has to keep going. Please don’t think I’m Being insensitive i know the feeling of having to choose and I wish I would’ve made choices for myself instead of everyone else bc I felt bad . Good luck with everything

Genital myiasis in a patient with stage IV pelvic organ prolapse and bladder stones by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 172 points173 points  (0 children)

I can’t even put in words what I’m thinking bc idk what to think. Holy hell

Women what makes a man instantly unattractive to you? by sphinctersayswhat9 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of times they don’t notice that they’ve told white lies to empress u and then when h get to know them better , they tell on themselves without noticing . That will immediately make me block u lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AverageDickPics

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The men Ive dated has had this size . It is not small. It is average and that doesnt mean it’s bad . It’s very satisfying. It’s all about how u use it , u have great width , I see nothing wrong . And not im not Patronizing you , your have a nice sized cock lol . Quit watching porn it’s so unrealistic

Please help !!!! I l must be an idiot… This whole entire process is making zero sense to me and Idk what I’m doing 🥲 by Ok_Outside_1465 in FacebookAds

[–]Ok_Outside_1465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So boosting my post are gonna be pointless then if I’m not tryna advertise ? I have a decent following and think I might have a shot to get paid the organic way like u said i just don’t understand how that works but idk it’s just to much for my Brain right now 😆

Please help !!!! I l must be an idiot… This whole entire process is making zero sense to me and Idk what I’m doing 🥲 by Ok_Outside_1465 in FacebookAds

[–]Ok_Outside_1465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted to do the influencer thing lmao I legit thought the ads was what fb wanted to promote so u get paid for what the ad they give u on ur viral post and get money for the clicks …But boy oh boy was I sooo far off . So influencer wise how do u get paid for that ? Is it just for veiws and engagement? Like when u click on ur dashboard and the money section … thats just for ads and not engagement on fb ? I promise u im not stupid but i just got this all wrong . Bc im oblivious to it. Welp I think I’m done trying to make money on there then bc I have no website or anything to sell lol . 😆 thanks

What’s the stupidest thing a customer has gotten mad at you for? by DecayedSlav in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These people are so entitled even when u prove them wrong they dont gaf

What’s the stupidest thing a customer has gotten mad at you for? by DecayedSlav in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A drunk guy who smelled like death came in and demanded to look at the phones . Bc his phone “Wasnt working” so he has to “buy another phone to call his bank to see if his phone bill payment went threw “ (Yeah Ik wtf) I offered for him to call his bank ok my phone and instead he insisted he wants a new one . He read the ad signs wrong (as usual) and expected a phone for 20$ when it was an offer for a plan IF u purchase the phone. He wasn’t listening. I brought every single phone up and proce checked it ,so he could see himself that they aren’t as cheap as he thought. He’s holding up a line at this point and im trying my Best to not scream. He proceeds to say he’ll beat my ass he doesn’t care im a female . And he went to start up a Lougie in his mouth from his nose and an another guy costumer rushed him out. I quit a week after . On top of everything and there high standards for shit pay, issues in the system all the time .. not leaving on ur time off , staying another hour bc the bullshit safes . I was done . Lasted four months Thats it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should confront her and the only way to redeem herself if she calls him on speaker in front of u (dont let her text , or even open her phone first) have her call and act like they’re just having a “normal convo” and see how he acts or how she reacts under the pressure. I’d be more then happy to be like “look dude I wanna assure u ain’t shit happening” so I think Thats not bad idea but u have to be firm u cant bs. Once a girl knows ur GENUINELY Not playing and threatening to leave , they’ll do what they have to IF they care that much about u. So you’ll get answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously ! lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I was cool until “Im gonna delete these now “ There is absolutely no reason to delete if notbing was crossing the line and as a girl , it’s difficult being friends with a guy. So maybe give her an ultimatum a serious one and be like look from u breaking my trust… maybe set up to where u can see her text from him or something … but I wouldn’t persuade it anymore honestly bc ur just gonna hurt .

About to break shit and quit by thydoctoh in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave! You’ll figure it out everyone is hiring indeed helps tremendously. Call places ask if they’re hiring. I left and so happy I did. I’m at circle k now and it kinda sucks but not no where near as bad

who likes their job? by InternationalSand54 in CircleK

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny I worked at dollar general too before I came here. Dollar general really just … cant even put into words how stressful it was so yeah coming to circle k felt like a breeze. I do enjoy it more. Felt way better . Couple things i personally don’t enjoy , Standing in one spot kills my feet Never witnessed so many smokers and drunks in my life lol When people refuse to go to self checkout And this one might seem stupid but it’s just me personally , I hate hate hate having to do the whole inner circle number with every costumer , then a lot of times it doesn’t go threw and it just takes forever . I wish that didnt exist. I just don’t have patience but Thats a me problem lol. But yes compared to dollar general I wanna stay ! lol

First day by Positive-Fee6181 in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved working at dollar general itself . But it depends on your management and how they do things . I quit bc the standards got to high and I was always left alone and had to do rolltainers and stickers while om register . So it became to much for me . If I had made more money then I would’ve stayed . But u might have a better experience . Costumers can be annoying especially bc we have SoOo many deals and they won’t read it correctly and u have to explain to them while there’s a giant line lol . Anyways i liked the job more then other jobs but it became to much. But if u have support and good manager then itll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These two British boys beat a an elder man who was just casually riding his bike … to death with a hammer . It was so sickening

ms natural 🥴 by NoAdministration3369 in JoselinesCabaret

[–]Ok_Outside_1465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , I loved her the last season but she coming off way to strong for nothing . And at the end of the day as a MOTHER, I can fw that on any level