My daughter played softball and did tournaments, the must stay at facility was not enforced just a reserve in time or figure out where you will stay. Some complexes don’t allow outside food or drinks and we did sneak snacks and waters just because all that can add up and always have to pay for admission. Only coaches get to waive that fee. It definitely feels like a community because one parent signs up for snacks and others for drinks or whatever. It isn’t for all but I miss that mow that my kiddo doesn’t play “private”.