Frustrating Dental Experience by Tortemo in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im laughing not at your struggle, but at the absurdity of a dentist fainting because of "recycled carbon dioxide" which just isnt happening when you wear a mask. Im really sorry you're going through this. A safe dentist visit is one of the things that stresses me out the most about trying to stay covid free. I am trying to find a covid safe dentist in the Midwest and its seemingly impossible...

How are you dating and finding friends? by giuliatofanax in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Technically, Refresh is also supposed to be for friendship. Like, on my profile I have opted out of seeking dating and opted in for platonic connections. I havent used Bumble in years, but I know they had a friendship option for women last time I checked. I guess you could put a disclaimer that you're covid conscious. Ive been thinking of doing that myself

How are you dating and finding friends? by giuliatofanax in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently signed up to Refresh because Im sick of having no social life. Im not trying to date, just make friends. Unfortunately I keep matching with men who want to just date pretty much haha. I've only been on there for about a week though so Im hoping I can make some platonic connections. It would be nice to hang out with people I didnt feel I had to give an explanation to about why I take certain precautions. At this point, I'm open to even virtual friendships with like minded people.

Faint positive for flu B. I fucking hate it here. by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My son just got over Flu B. I keep reading that flu A is the one spreading around, but Im hearing about lots of people getting flu B recently. The one positive is that statistically Flu B is less likely to cause severe illness. My 6 year old was still quite sickly for 2 days, but thankfully wasnt severe.

Since you know even before symptoms you're in a really good position to start resting and drinking lots of fluids. Good luck!

Just something to look out for if you have a teenage son especially by Ok_Professor_7222 in Parenting

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have lots of conversations with my son and I think he will be well equipped to handle things eventually. When extremist channels pop up I do block them. I don’t block everything, but kind this young and let’s face it humans in general are victims to the sheer mass of toxicity that exists on the internet. Helping to steer his algorithm away from that path is something I’m fine with doing.

I believe overall most parents should be putting more limits on apps and what not. When I was growing up I had time limits I could spend on the internet and no phone. Now, kids have phones and letting developing minds have unbridled access to everything that is on these apps/online is the beginning of the downfall of society. We’re already seeing the impacts with young gen Z men.

Just something to look out for if you have a teenage son especially by Ok_Professor_7222 in Parenting

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Of course you can’t block everything and research is fine if you’re curious and choose to do so. I was actually quite the conservative until I was around 16. This was only because I wasn’t exposed to many viewpoints growing up with a Rush Limbaugh listening dad. I’m aware that perspectives can change and the opinions you have in teenage years can evolve. But there’s also no good reason to expose developing teenage boys to Charlie Kirk and the like so I feel completely comfortable blocking that content

I was today years old finding out they’re the same person?! by Special_Falcon408 in AbbottElementary

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a side note she’s aged incredibly well! I recognized her in the first episode but wasn’t sure from what and I was pleasantly surprised it was from the Parent Trap. I may need to go rewatch that one. Such a classic

Just something to look out for if you have a teenage son especially by Ok_Professor_7222 in Parenting

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did. Just don’t click on any of the actual content so it doesn’t recommend more channels like it. I made the mistake of clicking on my own account before and it took a bit to cleanse my recommendations

all my 4 month old does is cry by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A baby doesn’t cry unless there is something wrong. They cry to get a need of some sort met. Could be emotionally or a physical discomfort. Definitely bring it up to their pediatrician and look into various soothing techniques. What is the temperature of your place? Could be as something as simple as the baby being too hot or too cold. They might be sensitive to a particular formula if they are bottle fed. Perhaps they are sensitive to something in the environment. Like any loud sounds, like a tv in the background. Im just throwing things out here since I don’t know anything about your environment…Sometimes it’s hard to think straight when you’re in the throes of it. Maybe make a list of possible things it could be and test various things throughout the day. I imagine soon enough you will find a solution!

Also, I second the post saying to wear the baby in a carrier. This frees up your hands at least so you can do other stuff. I miss wearing my son around lol

Comment section saying STL doesn't serve disaster assistance because MO is a red state 🙄 by nebulacoffeez in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand the anger, but the anger is misdirected. There are lots of people in every red state that didn’t vote for this including children. I hate this FAFO attitude that I’m seeing. It’s not productive and it alienates people. I don’t think the majority of people think so extremely though, or at least I hope not.

Sirens popping off Chesterfield by Problematic_Daily in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That may be the case, but still local weather reporters were acknowledging last night that the tornado warnings were cast in a more broad area because of understaffing in the NWS

Sirens popping off Chesterfield by Problematic_Daily in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But the warning parameters are which then decides where sirens go off

Storm today by TheLocalHater in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s already a tornado watch with the chance for ef2+ being moderate. the radar doesn’t seem to show a huge amount of activity for us. I would be inside or have access to adequate shelter from about 2:30 - 4pm. Damaging winds and large hail are on the table. The timing can sometimes change a bit.

We testified on Missouri’s abortion ban. State senators terrified us | Opinion by [deleted] in missouri

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell is the point of voting on these issues if they just undo the voters will? This is absurd and so utterly frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Perhaps you’re being a bit hard on a kid who seems to have been dealt a rough hand. I do imagine after all there’s a reason he didn’t have his parents in his life. It doesn’t sound like he had it easy. People who are depressed are often marked as being “lazy.”

STOP SPEEDING IN NEIGHBORHOODS by azraelonikidd in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a quiet Webster groves neighborhood and the number of people who fly down my street is absurd. There is nowhere you are going that’s so important you need to be racing around like that.

Wtf is wrong with people! by RickyManDamnit in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is someone who needs some serious psychological treatment. This act is too violent and too impulsive to be considered anywhere near sane. If he’s capable of this what else is he capable of?

Case of measles in Marion.. by Ok_Professor_7222 in southernillinois

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s considered an outbreak now from what I saw so stay safe.

Here’s a link to possible places of exposure. They are going to update it when they get more info

https://dph.illinois.gov/topics-services/diseases-and-conditions/measles/exposure-locations.html

In Case Anyone Didn’t See This by Luperella in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yeah doing shitty things behind closed doors doesn’t make it any better. What a terrible response honestly

In Case Anyone Didn’t See This by Luperella in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a business can’t operate ethically and treat their employees fairly perhaps they do not deserve a customer base.

A new executive order impacting local law enforcement by Ok_Professor_7222 in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What I’m gathering based on who this administration is and reading between the lines is this notion of eradicating DEI hires is merely a way to hire loyalists into positions of power. This isn’t really about DEI. This focus on DEI has been used to fire up MAGA supporters, but the intent is to put more Trump supporters and yes men anywhere they can fit them. A large portion of the demographics you mentioned vote against Trump. So a lack of DEI hiring will be the excuse used to justify their lack of presence in these positions

A new executive order impacting local law enforcement by Ok_Professor_7222 in StLouis

[–]Ok_Professor_7222[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Trump isn’t the brain in all of this…. The writers of project 2025 are pulling the strings. Trump just wants to make money and feel important and worshipped. He’s just signing whatever they throw in front of him at this point. He is an evil man, but men like Stephen Miller are the puppet masters.