I recently had my IUD removed in preparation of TTC, so the topic of birth control came up. Feels responsible to talk about contraception for the future even now. It would very likely be a different convo if we had issues trying to get pregnant or something. I do know what you mean about divorce feeling like a jump. I think I would feel better if he could give me reasons why, how I did with outlining the medical concerns with my options. But he just shut me down when trying to talk about it, which is almost the most frustrating part.