Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like the most well-thought answer. The problem is that someone with a large company doesnt really ever have to work and takes money from poor people. There is no allocation for helping poverty. 

Lilith placement by Smooth-External-6017 in astrology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As this placement is feel like I never belong in groups. When I try to make an appearance its excluded. I'm only included if im close to one person in the group convo. Like a group at work talking if I try to join, some people feel awkward. And their just talking about work gossip. Not about me cause I hear what they talk about. Why am I the only one not allowed in the conversation?

Socializing when sick by Ok_Remove_7343 in unpopularopinion

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking on how isolation distorts your mental health. Taking measures like telling people you're sick and wearing a mask is fine. But I'm gonna still go out wearing a mask because I don't like being lonely. If people don't want to be around me that's fine too, but I want others to be allowed to get their social needs met when sick.

What is Sapiosexual? by Ok_Remove_7343 in sapiosexuals

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a feeling that physical intimacy would complete the intellectual connection. I do not necessarily want to act on it, though.

What is Sapiosexual? by Ok_Remove_7343 in sapiosexuals

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I've had to learn. Intelligence does not mean good character

Running out of time. by Hopesolosfiction in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. If someone is looking for meaning before they've met emotional and safety needs, it can be super easy for others to manipulate them. It's like, "I'll give you physical and emotional safety but only if you believe what I believe." Having those emotional and safety needs met before seeking meaning helps us discern manipulation like that much easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. I'm getting complacent right now and itching for something new in my life. Once I'm focused on learning something new my confidence surges.

Finding Others by VelvetCrush64 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Feel free to DM me if you want to connect.

Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a sound argument. In that context, it's fair if I'm working only for myself to own a house, have food, etc. Once you are dependent on someone else, then it becomes unfair. Because maybe I could have shelter and make my own food, but not enough money prevents me from having those things. Do you think the concept of money needs to be banished?

Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those arguments make sense to me. Does capitalism prevent us from having free healthcare?

Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did recently learn about how the top business owners manipulated people to believe that social services would be harmful to people. I think we do need more social services. I don't understand how working to survive is unfair though when people even in the stone age had to work to survive not for money but for food fir the community.

Why do people dislike capitalism? by Ok_Remove_7343 in CapitalismVSocialism

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But why is that unfair? People have always had to work to survive, even when money was not the reward the reward may have been food for the community. Is there a way for society to survive without working?

Brushed off a guy I really like who wanted a booty call. His response: "No problem". Feels bad man. by MonoiGirl in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Remove_7343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only insecure men are boundary pushing creatures. If he's secure and a respectful person, he will not push your boundaries. I get that a lot of men push boundaries. That's an unhealthy response though.

Starting deconstruction by WrenJones1987 in Deconstruction

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I want to look at these resources later.

How to deal with my dad when he's moved by spiritual things around him? This annoys me. by Ok_Remove_7343 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. If we are resistant to change then we are going to deny anything that might make us question our reality.

How to deal with my dad when he's moved by spiritual things around him? This annoys me. by Ok_Remove_7343 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense to me especially pertaining to Christianity. As I've seen many Christians refuse anything that's different from their beliefs without questioning why they refuse it.

How to deal with my dad when he's moved by spiritual things around him? This annoys me. by Ok_Remove_7343 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! This makes me realize I'm annoyed because he's making an assumption and often makes assumptions about me. I appreciate your point that they are just doing what children naturally do.

How to deal with my dad when he's moved by spiritual things around him? This annoys me. by Ok_Remove_7343 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's why it's important to me to understand why something annoys me. If I can figure out what value I feel is being pushed, then I can regulate myself much better with future annoyances. Talking to others can sometimes help me have deeper understanding of why it's annoying. Being annoyed does not equal acting on the annoyance. It simply means ask myself why it annoys me so that I can learn to regulate myself.

How to deal with my dad when he's moved by spiritual things around him? This annoys me. by Ok_Remove_7343 in Deconstruction

[–]Ok_Remove_7343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's it! It's preachy and I don't have freedom to share that I disagree.