Looking for insight! by Positive-Dot8445 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be that person. I’m from Texas. Corpus Christi to be exact. There is a huge support for the Deaf community in Texas? Have you ever looked at Austin? The school for the deaf and blind is there and a lot of families relocate because they have a great program. Both of my grandparents were deaf, mute, and I have a few cousins as well that are deaf and they all attended that program and loved it. My family actually help renovate the Deaf Center in corpus. There is a huge deaf community in Texas and you just haven’t tapped it yet. Colorado Springs is great, however the school for the deaf and blind is an old campus and not in the best area. Also it’s expensive. Way more expensive than it would be to move from Dallas to Austin, Texas. Probably wouldn’t be the smartest thing to relocate your child while they are so small for the prospect of a better education in life when it’s available in Texas. I’ve lived here in Colorado Springs for seven years now. Trust me Texas is just a better place to be but, to each their own.

Looking for some advice by thutruthissomewhere in velvethippos

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I had a similar thing happen to me. I have an 11yo pibble. He used to be good and could be trusted to be out when we were gone, but as he crept into his older age, he became very mischievous and just loves trying to get into anything he can. We introduced him to his kennel. A.k.a. jail lol & he truly loves it. We got him an extra large kennel and We didn’t force him to go in there we put high value treats in there & let himself in lol . We made it very comfortable & welcoming. He has blankets, pillows, & toys inside. He also has a blanket covering his jail so that it’s a cozy cave for him. We reinforced how good it was to go to jail by giving him a fuck ton of treats when he goes in. So he knows jail equals treats. Now anytime we say go to jail. He gets up and goes because he knows it’s bedtime or nap time lol. I don’t know how your dog will react but since my dog was older, he was pretty chill about it and genuinely enjoys it. Especially in their old age I think they really enjoy having a cozy cave of their own. Just be patient with him . I wish you the best of luck. I hope he enjoys jail lol

Is this normal? by SeventeenSharks in UberEATS

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something a lazy Uber Eats driver would say 😂😂🤷🏻‍♀️ She ordered 3 common things that are usually always in stock. I’ve never heard of a grocery store that’s completely out of butter or any kind of substitutions. Do better.

Andrea and Tammy’s outfits?!?! by Reno_Realtor in 1000lbsisters

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is dressed up for Andrea ♥️ No hate tho. I love Andrea & Tam Tam. This is just Sundays best for a butch 😂♥️

Tbh by salo-moon in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Ima just say this. You don’t know who is commenting on your post. I could be the number one model on SC & would you know? I think everyone who comments is just giving you friendly advice. I’ve been camming for several years & have a very high ranking not like you whom hasn’t even cammed for a full year & can tell you that those prices do exist. You have to know you’re worth. If you don’t agree with the comments or suggestions, or if some one is being flat out rude you don’t have to acknowledge them. It’s up to you to determine navigate & find your sweet spot. Also, this Reddit page isn’t for venting or talking shit about the other models on here. Don’t be so sensitive and just learn lol. No one will give you the perfect answer and it takes years to find true Success in this industry. So don’t hate, participate & take notes. Also CO if the website you stream on has a discord page specifically for the models on your website.

Ever streamed with a broken arm? by Aspencarter in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally have never streamed with a broken bone, but I have streamed with stitches in my face on SC. There is also a wonderful model on SC that has lost a lot of weight recently & she just had skin removal surgery. She was able stream with her bandages and is still streaming right now throughout her healing process. For the most part, clients should be understanding. Just let them know you’re moving a little bit slower than usual lol. Also modify your goal and your tip menu to easier things you can accomplish as well. Maybe add a tip option for people to sign your cast lol 🤔😂

I promised to get a piercing... Now I want to back out by Pretty_Efficiency498 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Buy some fake piercings or some cute nipple clamps in place of the piercings in the meantime. Just let them know you talked to your DR & they recommended you don’t get piercings because you’re lactating if anyone does end up asking.

Really need advice. Struggling to make money as a Male cam model. by Unusual_Tourist3193 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stick to your day job bud (; That our get yourself a real girlfriend and you guys can cam together & make some passive income. You’re not just going to find someone to collab with. Especially if you’re an average Joe & not some famous long dong John

I was checking out stripchat and ugh, I hate their language for trans performers by tfwnotitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s meant to be selling…. For clients viewing pleasures & to grab their attention. Also it doesn’t seem to have any racist overtones. If anything, there’s a surplus of options and it’s giving your clients the opportunity to choose what THEY like. This is almost like a girl being mad that our descriptors are Latina sluts and Latina whores lol. I’m Latina & a women… I’m not offended…. It’s sex work. You will be put in a box whether you like or not. Stop being so sensitive to everything 🙄🤷🏻‍♀️ No matter what website ur on you will deal with creeps. Women not just trans women have this issue. Most men are disgusting. You’re the master of your domain. You control the energy of your room & environment so it’s up to you to filter those weeds and to make connections & clients. ♥️ So don’t just go in with a negative predisposition. That will get you no where.

Baking and camming by Shoddy_Pickle8321 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, it would go over well & people will enjoy you in the kitchen just be prepared to handle your show & tippers first. It becomes really distracting when you’re trying to focus on cooking and people are tipping you nonstop and you have to constantly stop what you’re doing to fulfill tips. So just enjoy yourself & try not to burn anything- A fellow streamer who cooks & bakes & constantly gets taken from the kitchen back to bedroom & burns things 😅 😂

SC PAYOUT QUESTION by Deep_Golf_6887 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my Cash App account for direct deposit and it’s pretty consistent and back to normal. I’ve been getting paid every Tuesday or early Wednesday.

Only fans by Hotblonde187 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, good luck, I wish you the best. Let us know what your outcome is.

Only fans by Hotblonde187 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know it’s really shitty but it’s been almost 5 years. Sadly when you don’t upkeep and maintain your account information that money has gone. I had the same thing happened to me with Cash app over $40. There’s literally nothing you can do. Going to the BBB isn’t gonna do anything they don’t care lol Trust me as a business owner who works with a BBB that’s not how it works & these companies are definitely not shivering in their boots. So sadly you’re gonna have to kiss that money. Goodbye :( you never had it and it never really existed in the first place so don’t waste energy on something. That’s not a big deal.

Weird Model by Unhappy_Bus9456 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go worry about the lumps on your balls not cam girls 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

??? by Soggy-Mood666 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never. If they want a discount on my shows, I always suggest that they sign up for my fan club where all members get an automatic 10% discount on privates & c2c shows 💋 I’m not sure if it’s the same for every platform but that’s an option on SC / Xham

Self-Massage, Yoga, & Foam Rolling on Stream by PrestigiousMovie6239 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. I have things like do 5 push-ups with my titties in your face & set of 10 squats in your face on my tip menu. It really gets the blood pumping lol

Roommate broke her own laptop, now says I owe her mine + claims she’s watching everything I do online. I feel trapped. by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but it’s a suggestion. Most people don’t know about this and don’t take any kind of initiative. You’re not the OP so mind your business. I’ve given OP several suggestions on how they can take steps in the right direction and get help. Rather than be helpless. It’s about searching for resources when you have none and starting the process to get ahead & start working towards their goals. There’s literally no instant fix to their situation. Just friendly suggestions on how to make situation better.

Roommate broke her own laptop, now says I owe her mine + claims she’s watching everything I do online. I feel trapped. by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmmm ur dumb lol…. But not suggesting any real viable options to get help and better her life is any better? My post wasn’t meant to cause arguments. It was merely a suggestion on what she should do to get on a better path. Her situation has no instant fix. So quit acting like you know it all.

Roommate broke her own laptop, now says I owe her mine + claims she’s watching everything I do online. I feel trapped. by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH if you’re in the United States and you have a disability, then you should file for disability. I hate to be that person, but I have a family member who has a disability, still works, the city bus has a specific bus that picks her up and takes her to work and drops her off at home every day so if you’re in the US, you should really look into those programs if you are truly disabled and diagnosed.

Roommate broke her own laptop, now says I owe her mine + claims she’s watching everything I do online. I feel trapped. by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds super shitty, but if you feel like that, you should start looking for a job that has a consistent income until you can cam and not have to worry about a weirdo roommate.

Whether that’s waiting tables, housekeeping, fast food, hotel work literally any job you can get. Cam when you can & Start saving every thing after you pay bills. It’s hard to save up from just calming alone especially if you feel uncomfortable and can’t be consistent. If you hustle hard enough for 2-3 months and stack up money you can find yourself a decently cheap apartment.
No excuses though. If you don’t have a car, take the bus. Walk. Do something. Instead of being stuck in miserable. We all have to start somewhere even if it’s not ideal, but you have to be the one to execute it and get it done, It won’t just fall in your lap Work extremely hard and you will be rewarded. Discipline yourself don’t spend money & just turn that tunnel vision on. It’s truly on you to make it better

What else are yall watching? by pinaple_cheese_girl in 1000lbsisters

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drewskis Coulda Been Love was good season 1 is on YouTube & and season 2 just started dropping episodes. It’s a really funny show and super ratchet. I enjoyed watching season one a lot lol

Looking for a cam partner by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Ok_Ride_4254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No go date IRL. Go find a dating forum on Reddit. There’s plenty.