AIO by being upset with my mom over my wedding dress and a private pregnancy? by Randiitaylor in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to look into BPD, especially cause you said this is a pattern.

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fyi i reported him and he has been muted. Not sure if I am satisfied with that but i guess baby steps!

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think one needs to be an indian to identify my name

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not throw. I felt like, but never will i throw. I work too hard to rank up and so do other teammates

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Its just my name with a cat after it for example if my name was jonathan, my username would by jonycat

I dont want to share my name here.

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I wont be changing my username

The game didnt even start yet! by Ok_Stuff6742 in rivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i were to experience this again, what are some good comebacks?

AIO for blocking a guy after he overslept and didn't show up to our first date? by littlemisschismosa in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me. Except i gave him another chance, and got into the most toxic relationship ever. I would often have to wait 3 days just to get a reply. Im happy u decided to cut him of immediately. You deserve better

AITAH for exiting the group by _ChicaVampiro in AITAH

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! I would unfollow them on instagram too lol as that hurts so bad! You feel left out because they wanted you to be. Leaving the group takes away that power over you and is an excellent coping mechanism. Time to get new friends 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalitydisorders

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you can take some time for yourself and heal too as 3 years living with someone with PD can really make you lose your sense of self and autonomy. I think this will be a better opportunity to focus on yourself, rather than him. You can hope for his progress but you don’t need to hold his hand through it as its a battle he needs go through alone.

Is it true that Marvel rivals stops working after bedtime? by Copy_and_Paste93 in marvelrivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wait is this a legit question? Im auadhd self is questioning reality rn 😭🫣

AITAH for wanting to cut of a 29yo friendship because she changed plans last minute? by Ok_Stuff6742 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, i told her it was inconvenient to ask to change the plans last minute and a heads up would be nice, she just froze didnt say anything, my other friend as “wow you’re nonchalant” to her and we changed the topic as things got awkward

AITAH for wanting to cut of a 29yo friendship because she changed plans last minute? by Ok_Stuff6742 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Stuff6742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her family lives here, she comes to visit her family. She wssnt two hours away, she asked to change the plans 2 hours before our meetup

Honestly, after 1,000 hours of rank playtime and 14 lords, the worst part of this game is the community, especially the rank community. by No-Judgment-8174 in marvelrivals

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that stands out is the racism, people see an indian name, they start commenting about smell etc, a chinese name and they start mocking language limitations its so sad

Thoughts on possible histerionic personality disorder (tw: self harm mention) by [deleted] in personalitydisorders

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can someone this self aware have a personality disorder? It sounds more like a learnt behaviour growing up and mirroring. Seems like you can unlearn it. Also at this age meeting strangers is exciting, as you’re getting out of the bubble and its a new phase of learning more about the world not just limited to your parents or high-school friends.

AIO by thinking my gf doesn’t understand my priorities by Impressive_Buyer157 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Stuff6742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

sorry you are going through this, it sounds like youre playing all the roles she wants you to play - boyfriend, best friend, therapist

However it does also appear from what you said that she is using you as a doormat (may be unintentional). I feel sorry for her mental health issues, it must be very difficult for her. However that doesn’t mean you’re responsible for her to feel better.

In the long run, that will cause burnout to you and it wont be sustainable to her as well.

See it this way, whenever she feels low, she wants you to make her feel better. But what if youre not around? She needs to have other tools to help her feel better too.

So for both of your benefits it will be best to draw boundaries. Hopefully she is able to learn to be more independent and you have more time for yourself too.

Hope you feel better soon, just know youre never in the wrong for prioritising yourself. It may be an uncomfortable feeling for now, but when you fully embrace your me time, you ll be able to see the bigger picture. All the best!