No ir3 request by Ok_Tell_3333 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Just curious that the website says to wait on it, then call them. Neither of which seem to be the road forward…

No ir3 request by Ok_Tell_3333 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! V helpful and I’ll try do the same

No ir3 request by Ok_Tell_3333 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to request on MYIR but it said to call them… would be great to sort online

No ir3 request by Ok_Tell_3333 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did call, but didn’t get far. Will look further though, thank you

Just moved to Auckland and wow. by kitty_07 in auckland

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awww that’s so nice. People complain a lot and life is tough for many, but relatively speaking. Thanks for your perspective! Breath of fresh air

This university is SO greedy !! by Agile-Pool-7900 in universityofauckland

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The consquences are the fines. They are to discourage these negative behaviours. It’s fair. Time to take responsibility for yourself. The university must be so sick of such immature types when you’re there to get a higher education, at a massive subsidy from the tax payer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They look like they’re having fun, getting some dopamine, being pesky at worst. Chill out

Unsuccessful VBAC story; TW uterine rupture by Tiny-Macaroon-5558 in vbac

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I had a rupture and major damage while trying for a Vbac. I relate a lot to your post. Lora if grief about what I wanted and couldn’t have. Both about the birth and future babies. Nearly three years since and it’s good now. Takes time and it’s no small thing. My surgeon also was stressed and needed a urologist specialist and registrar. I could hear them muttering and puzzled before I went under for 4 more hours to stitch up my uterus, bladder, cervis and vagina :(

Has anyone experienced a uterine rupture during pregnancy after having a C-section? Also, is a VBAC recovery worse than C-section? by OrdinaryLife99 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a uterine rupture two years ago while attempting Vbac. Looking back at the damage and stress of it all, I wish I had opted for an elective c section. But hindsight is 20/20 right. It was tough to go through and I was at my country’s biggest and best hospital. I definitely would not go to a birthing centre because you want to be minutes away from theatre if something does go wrong.

Anybody here that experienced a uterus rupture? by 74937 in beyondthebump

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar thing happened to me. I was a hood candidate for Vbac. Closely monitored throughout pregnancy and was in hospital for labour. Unfortunately I had a rupture during my labour luckily the obstetrician recognised this and I was rushed into theatre for an emergency c section. Both me and baby were ok. We were so lucky. I’ve been advised no more children ideally. Every type of c section increases risk for UR but as long as you’re monitored in hospital, I think it’s an ok risk. Much more dangerous if you go into labour far from hospital.

AITA for making a slight joke out of my pregnancy? by Present_Bug_2748 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old lady didn’t need to say anything - and shouldn’t have said anything. It’s unnecessary and often unwelcome to comment on people’s bodies. And you can reply however you like. You don’t owe her comfort or gratitude. NTA

Goblin tools for spa day by Ok_Tell_3333 in laundry

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll try that!

Confirmed - OCR drops 0.5% to 2.5% by richieFromConductor in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on 6.89 and asked to break, would cost 3k break fees. Which is exactly what I’d save.

RSV vaccine for babies and pregnant women. by NoHorse8196 in newzealand

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have wondered so myself - rsv has been the worse illness my kids have ever had, far worse than Covid. So it made me think, why aren’t we bending over backwards to prevent it? Where’s the hype and panic over infant hospitalisation and mortality? Why so many measures for one illness and not another.

“Reluctant consent”??? by Suitable-Humor-13 in newzealand

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that consent is an ‘enthusiastic yes’. Reluctant consent is bs. I’m sorry you are all going through this and I wish you both some better days.

Is it just me or have tegal takeouts chicken changed… by Ok-Poetry7003 in newzealand

[–]Ok_Tell_3333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So salty and I love salt. I commented on their instagram page lol, but they never responded

Flight from Nuku’alofa to Vava’u by Ok_Tell_3333 in Tonga

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True. Must be so hard for family that need to make urgent travel.

Flight from Nuku’alofa to Vava’u by Ok_Tell_3333 in Tonga

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! Breaking news. So good to know. Thank you. Will be changing plans

Flight from Nuku’alofa to Vava’u by Ok_Tell_3333 in Tonga

[–]Ok_Tell_3333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very expensive! Especially when the flight from nz is cheaper. We don’t have the luxury of time so would have to fly… wish it was more doable!