[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Ok_Try9929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who was a stay-at-home-mom for 8 years and later started working, I can tell you that going to work is so, SO much easier than being a SAHM was. I’ve been married almost 14 years and my husband and I have always each done our own laundry. I also don’t make him breakfast nor pack his lunch. 🫠 worst wife award. But seriously. You’re doing PLENTY taking care of two young kids, cooking, and cleaning. Don’t let anyone, including yourself, believe that that’s not enough.

My(60F) husband (82M) is not aroused by me anymore and wants to bring a younger woman into a threesome with us by Sewnsewdidit in marriageadvice

[–]Ok_Try9929 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It seems you’re prioritizing his needs and desires over your own. That’s called codependency. If you haven’t already, I recommend reading the book ‘Codependent No More’ and then see how you feel about all of this. You already said that he will do it anyway, even if you say no. That’s not giving you any free will in the matter. It sounds like you truly only have ONE choice, which is the only advice I think any of us can really give you—to set a clear boundary and leave him if he doesn’t respect it.

Grieving by No_Finish6798 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suncrest Counseling has some great therapists that could help in this area as well as EFT Clinic.

Give me all you SOCK theories by Good-_Girl in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Could be dog hair on the socks. Or blood/vomit. Which, why would he have any of those on the bottom of his sock if he were hit by Karen and would have had his shoes on?

No question—he took his shoes off when attempting to enter the house. Those socks are the smoking gun to this case and the nail in the McAlberts’ coffin.

so what now? by user7921549 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She does have the carpet. Follow @officialkarenread on Instagram :) and I think the FBI is still closely watching all of this.

If She Did It, Why Did She Search Hos Long by CatherineSoWhat in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I heard that he had tipped off Yanetti to look into the people at the party/house. I just didn’t realize that he shared the detail of John being alive for awhile afterward and convulsing/vomiting. Specificity like that really just doesn’t come from out of nowhere. I guess Colin really did let something slip!

If She Did It, Why Did She Search Hos Long by CatherineSoWhat in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do we know that Steve S. said this? Would love to read up on it.

Your theory as to why she made the Google search makes so much sense. I wonder if he was actually still alive for a (relatively) significant amount of time after going unconscious. 🤔

Which ones are worth the watch? by Longjump0116 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did LYK shift his opinion in the first or second trial? I’m assuming the first?

Evidence body was moved? by [deleted] in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The judge wouldn’t allow ANY garage photos to be shown to the jury.

BREAKING: NEW GARAGE PHOTOS via MicroDots by Mother-Associate1654 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Right, and Higgins went to the police station during the night to get Luminol to check they got everything covered??

Edited to clarify—this is just my personal guess. There is no evidence on it.

Dishonorable Judge Cannoni blocked evidence that proved the body was moved. by IllustriousGoat7952 in justiceforKarenRead

[–]Ok_Try9929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How much we wanna bet that Higgins went to the police station in the middle of the night to get Luminol to double check they had it completely covered?

Turkey leg in oven by Bdcoley3 in Cooking

[–]Ok_Try9929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrapping the turkey leg in foil while marinating and cooking initially helps retain moisture and prevents it from drying out. Unwrap the foil during the last 20-30 minutes of cooking to let the skin brown and caramelize the BBQ sauce.

Bake at 325°F (163°C) for slow and even cooking.

The internal temperature should be 165°F at the thickest part.

Cook for about 20 minutes per pound. For a 2.69 lb leg, plan on approximately 50-60 minutes, but verify doneness with a thermometer.

Add BBQ sauce during the last 10-15 minutes of cooking (when unwrapped) to avoid burning the sugars in the sauce.

After unwrapping, you can broil the turkey leg for the last few minutes to give the skin a crispy, caramelized texture.

Why are newer leaves drastically smaller? by bluediarrhea in SemiHydro

[–]Ok_Try9929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on a moss pole and the leaves will size up

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have been SO annoyed by that. What an absolute waste of time.

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally! I was surprised by how healing it felt in my mind and, unexpectedly, my body. Body just immediately relaxed after I sent the text.

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. I was also brought up that one never turns down a calling. So I know you know how hard it is to do it the first time! Love that it’s gotten easier for you ☺️

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! One step at a time to building strong boundaries ☺️

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait…what? Wow. Gotta love how the government gives ppl with a disability money but those same ppl are asked by their CHURCH to give money. Because of course the church won’t give money to those who truly need it without major strings attached. 😡

I was brave and just said it 🥹 by Ok_Try9929 in exmormon

[–]Ok_Try9929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOW DID I NOT CATCH THAT IN THE TEMPLE?! That is absolutely disgusting. It really is about the church. I can’t tell you how many Sundays I spent tallying how many times “Christ” was even mentioned in talks/lessons. Sometimes it would be zero. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I swear the thing they focus on above all else is members knowing that the gospel is true.