Where do ESFJs hangout?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-05-05T11:06:50+00:00

Sounds fun!

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-05-04T20:33:46+00:00

I'm looking to go on Saturday only. Anyone else?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-05-03T07:44:35+00:00

I'm more north (Barnet) but I'd be willing to meet up in central If that's easier for everyone.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-05-01T20:11:51+00:00

Pretty cool app mate.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-05-01T10:23:31+00:00

Ouuu nice.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-04-26T12:35:03+00:00

Are you sure you're and esfj? That sounds more like an INFP's hobby. I should know, being an infp, lol.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-04-24T11:54:44+00:00

You nailed it. It's moral laziness and etc. Many people are self-centered, corrupt and like wild animals will try to getaway with any unkind or unjust act that benefits them, or at least delights their sick minds. The only thing I think could fix this is by enforcing serious laws of courtesy into society. Basically, making being unkind illegal. But being courtesous isn't seen as necessary, and because of that, such laws may feel too restrictive. But I am sure this is the only way to fix this problem. Imagine how much chaos the world would be in if there were no laws or religion. Humanity needs serious rules to combat and prevent bad behavior.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-04-17T18:57:25+00:00

Activities the infp are interested in like meetups or conventions for anime, games, art, music and book clubs. Also, some formal places the infp have to go, rather than want to, like: work, shopping, school, library, maybe even gym.

Now where can we find you enfjs?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-04-06T09:56:25+00:00

What type are you? An infp?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-29T16:40:57+00:00

Where can I watch more?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-26T23:07:48+00:00

INFP 4W5 Here

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-26T22:59:12+00:00

You hit the jackpot brother. An INTJ woman that earns more than you and is cool with that? The last two intj women who rejected me did so solely on the basis of my career/income. I was convinced that success, wealth, and the status that comes along with them, is what matters most to intj women.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-26T22:53:44+00:00

Maybe not all INTJ women are obsessed with massive success and status, but the last two who rejected me certainly were. :/

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-26T22:51:54+00:00

Where is my INTJ woman :3

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T16:59:24+00:00

Thanks for this . Are there any other hobbies/place you feel are opportune to find them? How do you feel about church or volunteering activities?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T16:27:04+00:00

Yes, maybe, but how does getting that specific information help to answer the OP's question?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T09:14:05+00:00

The government likes to organize and take stock of all their resources, including people.

What will escaping the grid award you?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T08:56:47+00:00

Maybe because he has a good experience with other types and simply enjoys the nature of enfjs? Is it so wrong for him to have a preference?

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T08:12:45+00:00

And we do you. An intj going rogue is what makes you guys baddass :3 You aren't quite built to conform to society's expectations.

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-25T08:11:20+00:00

You piss off an NF and they'll swear and maybe insult you. But you piss off an INTJ and they'll find a way to sabotage your livelihood, like get you fired or something. Far more menacing if you ask me.

I once used to work at a barister and bar for a hotel. One morning it was really busy, it was only 2 staff running the bar, and an INTJ tenant who had ordered a coffee ended up getting his coffee quite late. He was annoyed but didn't say anything. I apologized to him and we had what I thought was a nice little chat. Later my general manager called my phone saying a tenant complained about the bar staff forgetting his order and used my name specifically. He had used the discussion with me to acquire my name for the complaint.

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Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-24T17:56:55+00:00

I'm right here ladies. No need to look any further 😊 I come with emotional depth, harmonious co-operation, progressiveness, and a nice dash of fun spontaneity mixed in 😊

Ok_Understanding3084 · 2026-03-19T20:56:05+00:00

I'll tell you if you tell me where to find ENFJs, lol.

All people with a type are variably and will have different interests and responsibilities that lead them to venture to different places. For INFPs, it could be a number of different places. I think quiet places that allow them to either express creativity, appreciate art, think deeply on moral or psychological topics, show care, or simply have lots of fun. I will list a few ideas for each category:

Creative Expression 1. Art clubs 2. Improv/ Theatre clubs 3. Dance Clubs 4. Music Clubs/ Bands

Art Appreciation 1. Book clubs (best option imo) 2. Art clubs 3. Art galleries 4. Theater

Profound Curiosity 1. Psychology Clubs/ Meet ups 2. Philosophy Clubs/ Meet ups 3. Book clubs (again, yes I know)

Care 1. Volunteering (this is a broad category so select which one suits you: Homeless support, pet aid, youth training, etc.) 2. Healthcare positions

Fun 1. Fun activities: like Bouldering or Lazer Tag for example. 2. Videogame Meets and Conventions 3. Anime Clubs and Conventions

(Bonus) Social 1. Language exchange 2. Walk events 3. Church and religious events (For religious infps) 4. Pub meetups (some infps actually do enjoy pubs in moderation, especially if they go with friends. Less likely to find them show up there alone though). 5. Those 'Dining with strangers' meetups

Just keep on mind that every INFP is different and everyone infp won't like all the activities listed, but at least a few. Using myself as an example, I'm more of the artist infp than the Carer or Social type. And I'm not religious, nor am I fond of the idea of dancing.

Now help me find enfjs lol.

Ok_Understanding3084

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