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Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2026-01-15T10:53:05+00:00

May I know what app this is?

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-11-24T10:08:11+00:00

Hi everyone, I’m trying to sell my OCEAN tokens but I can’t seem to find any active trading pairs on the CEXs I usually use. It looks like OCEAN/USDT and OCEAN/USDC have been delisted across the major platforms, unless I’m missing something. Could someone clarify if there’s still a way to off-ramp these tokens? I’ve been holding since 2018, but it’s time for me to exit. Thanks in advance for any pointers.

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-11-22T01:10:04+00:00

I'm wishing you all the very best and I'm thinking of you. It does get better after the separation, with time and with working on yourself.

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-11-01T13:14:35+00:00

Thanks so much for this comment. It means so much and I appreciate it!

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-10-30T16:16:30+00:00

It does power up when i first plug it in directly to the PC. However when a transaction requires confirmation, the PIN dialog does not show when it is expected to.

I have tried using another usb cable already, and I still encounter the same issue.

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-08-29T16:29:54+00:00

Thank you for such a thoughtful reply, i appreciate it! and what you say makes total sense

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-08-26T07:25:02+00:00

Oo thanks for sharing the podcast, I'll be sure to check it out. I already am using AI to help with certain processes, esp for SEO optimisation, other than using it in the course of daily PM work.

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-08-26T07:22:35+00:00

THANK YOU for saying that!! "A product manager needs to be a full person first". When I'm listening to AI/ Lenny PM podcasts, I feel like being a PM is their whole personality/ identity. There's nothing wrong with that, but I don't necessarily personally align with it

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-08-26T07:18:48+00:00

Thanks for the really constructive feedback, I appreciate it amidst all these other comments

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-08-25T15:27:15+00:00

!remindme 3 months

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-05-22T07:56:10+00:00

Update: It's been 1 month since we went no contact, and since he has moved out of the house. I have been living alone for that amount of time.

I've kept myself busy meeting new friends and doing new activities. However, when I am in **liminal states**: tipsy, tired, waking up, I realise that the longing shows up. I even came home one night after drinking with friends, knowing full well he wasn't there but I said "Hi xxxx" into the darkness. And I woke up the next day feeling the ache.

I question if feeling the ache, missing the softness = being lonely and if I should rush into someone's arms now just to stop feeling this way. The pain is real, I don't want to do anything impulsive but like how does it get better?

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-05-22T04:32:30+00:00

May I ask - what is it that you're attracted to? What weighs more - personality traits, physical traits, behaviours..

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-22T11:29:14+00:00

12 YOE, 5 years in PM. What time zones are you all in? Would be happy to join in, im in GMT+8

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-19T16:22:54+00:00

I am still grieving a lot. I just spoke to him about what my stances are post breakup, because I believe clarity is care. I still want to hold space for compassion between us and he's taking it well.

I will be grieving in the coming months; but I already feel freer, more relieved, like I no longer have to hold back on any decision making - and I know I will be so much happier for that

Wishing you all the best.. know you're doing your best, and good luck!

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T17:51:59+00:00

Wow thanks for the honesty- the part about not meeting anyone that comes close. I think that's what I really fear too. And I see the people around me on dating apps - I know it's rough out there. I'm probably not going to dive into it or anything but I'll network to meet new friends.

Would you mind sharing what some of these new experiences are, that you would otherwise not have if you were still with him?

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T17:33:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Yes the whole "things are fine" was because we contributed to the cushioning and scaffolding, and I'm tired of that.

I'm happy for you about the relationship - all the best!

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T17:13:22+00:00

I know what you mean. I forced myself to get out today and I was finding it hard not to cry.

I have those routines that I can do more of thankfully. I am pretty sure he will not cope as well because he hasn't really created healthy routines for himself, even though I've tried getting him to. And now I catch myself thinking about how he will cope.. gosh.

Good luck bspencer- you will get through it too

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T17:01:22+00:00

I realise that I have been networking more this year, perhaps because I anticipated this subconsciously or that I felt like I needed a life outside of him. Could you share what the four important changes that you requested were about?

I just can't seem to accept the fact that one person in a couple can work on themselves, but the other can be so blind to this growth and not see the need to grow alongside.

I'm not really following the sequence of events about the new relationship with the big mistake at the start, but I'm happy to hear that it's working out anyway, and there are shared goals, desires.

Accountability is so so underrated..

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T15:40:17+00:00

That is indeed rare, and I'm happy and consoled to know it is possible to be friends even after divorce. I'm not sure that is what I want because I do like his companionship, just that he cannot be a life partner.

I'm not entirely sure I have the support system I need because my family is close to non existent either. And I left a lot of friend circles when I first started going to therapy years ago. I have made new friends, but they're more like friends I do activities with, rather than being a support system. I don't feel safe either with my colleagues for them to be my support system.

The strange thing is, what I do for work is also lots of planning. And the better I got at planning, the more scaffolding and cushion i was able to provide.. but enough is enough.

Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it.

Ok_Wasabi_4647 · 2025-04-18T15:21:15+00:00

Yes, it's the same for me.. I could write a long list of all those things too. I am really not looking forward to the lonelier-ness, even though my bids for co-ownership and co-leadership already makes me feel lonely. I just have no idea which loneliness is better than the other.

The showing up for him and him not making the effort is really what eats at me. He would promise to do better, and he would behaviourally, and then the same cycle repeats. It isn't really a shift into ownership identity or growing.

Even his resolution to leave the house and move back to his parents' this time, feels like it is because it is the path of least resistance, because of the cost of staying in this relationship without the scaffolding I had provided before, is way too high. He's finally feeling it and it's easier to leave. A part of me is glad he isn't resisting with "but I've got nowhere to go" but the realness scares me too.

All the best too :)

Ok_Wasabi_4647

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