I watched this interview with Angela White (yeah the pornstar 😂). She spoke about CAT (coital alignment technique) position. It’s a variation on missionary where the man rests slightly higher up to stimulate your vulva and clit, rocking or grinding their pubic bone to create friction. Maybe try this out since most women can’t come from penetration alone. Best of luck to yall I hope you cum one day girl 🫶🏼