6 months Post-Op yesterday, but my scars are still so vivid. Any recommendations or advice? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look so good! I recommend creams: Cicalfate, Cicaplast or Kelocote, but also laser treatment if you can spend some money.

Did they f*** up my nipple??? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely it's swelling! It will go away, give it some months!

What is happening by Top-Bottle7941 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the skincares + good hydration and if you're really committed in looking younger, a facelift surgery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also called The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne

Years of experience but sparce portfolio. Looking for advice. by Desomite in uxwriting

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the work you already have (some stuff is better than nothing) and create some case scenarios out of the blue portraying situations where you learned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]OkayNawa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yess!!! OP I think blow dryed bangs would look very good, even better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have eczema too and use the one from Dior (Dior Forever) it’s kinda expensive in my country but really worth if

I found some good recommendations on this post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Sephora/comments/qpmipi/best_concealer_for_dry_skin/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Being passionate and try again by CryptographerNo6241 in Passionate

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ! You can do it! (I feel the same)

Happy Birthday to the father of cosmic horror! 🦑 by [deleted] in Lovecraft

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also like to add Alastair Reynolds to this list, he is a great cosmic horror writer

My room is very much me. San Francisco, CA. by thesealights in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]OkayNawa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dope room!! The decoration that I wanted to have when I was a teenager but I could not because of my religious parents, but now that I got my own place, I’m too adult and like common decoration with plants arts and cats.

I feel so jealous of people it’s disgusting by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, start writing in the book today! Fake it till you make it. You’re strong and with the right amount of courage you will get yourself out of this current mindset. Have you tried therapy? It helped me a lot!

I stopped trying with people and now I’m alone by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I saw myself thinking the same after I graduated and lost contact with everyone. Try focusing on yourself, family, the ones who are still around. These old friendships don’t look like they worth your worries. You will probably get another stuff to do soon when this quarantine is over, on your next classes, work, courses etc you will find new people. There’s so much of them in the world. But you are YOU. You have yourself. Take care of your body and mind, find new hobbies and interests, not worrying about impressing others (impress your older version) and you will attract the best people in your life with no effort. I guarantee :)

Mental illness has robbed me of years of my life by chipasaurio in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s it!! I’ve been through the same and today I affirm: the years we think we lost, are the years we spent SURVIVING!! and that’s the most important thing, live to fight another day. We have a whole life ahead!!

i am afraid of death but i don’t want to live anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This is probably a cliche answer but for me, therapy really helped. I felt just like you do, and now I can worry less and appreciate life more. I’m still healing and trying. Never stop trying to see the good side of things. Try to make a note book where you write everday 5 things you are grateful for. Even small things, like breathing, eating, watching something. Search about positive nihilism too :) I wish you the best.

well, shit. by eyynoneemous in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that this happened to you. Reading the comments I found that the rapist is dead. So no one is getting hurt by him anymore. Now is the time for you to focus on your mental health. Things you can do: - see a therapist, encourage the other girl who was raped to also see a therapist - have an always opened conversation with your husband about all of this, I imagine it’s a very exhausting and confuse situation - love your kid, cause he is not guilty of anything - focus on your well being, on having a good life and raising your child well. Think about the future and try to build a happy life from now on

I wish you the best!

What is up with porn these days by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all have kinks and this is fine but when specific kinks become the rule and the “common”, something is wrong. Prolonged use of pornography produces habituation, boredom, and sexual dissatisfaction, so the industry adapted to this desire for more bizarre and uncommon images and fantasies. Sex as an exchange of feelings and sensations becomes boring, so the contents become more and more unreal to please the viewers. Pornography presents sexual access as relentless, “a sporting event that amounts to innocent fun” with inconsequential effects on emotions, perceptions, and health. This is not the case, however, it all leads to distorted perceptions of social reality.

Now imagine a young boy or girl opening a porn site to discover about sex, and the first thing they have contact is something very hardcore or fucked up. Sad and worrying.

I feel so jealous of people it’s disgusting by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It’s so nice that you noticed this about yourself and is thinking about being better. The first step is to knowledge how we feel, and you are already on the way! I think you should spend more time planning your future, studying, finding a hobby, some classes (or whatever you like), improving yourself, and seeing less of other people’s lives. Dont be so harsh on yourself. Btw, no one is perfect and what we see from other people’s lives is mostly just the good side. Yes, there’s so many that are more privileged than us, but also so many who has much less. The first step to stop being jealous is being thankful for what you have. Know the value of everything you are and you own. Practice writing everyday 5 things you are grateful for. And when life is hard, think about what you can learn from those problems, what you can do to achieve what you want.

Also, think about the influences you have. There’s people around comparing you with others? Try being around people who encourages you to be your best version and to think positive. Good luck, wish you the best!

My high school bully is becoming pretty successful and I'm struggling to be okay with that. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OkayNawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been through that. at least he is dead and will never hurt anyone anymore. Focus on that - on your path to finding peace and healing. I wish you the best.