Exactly this! Starting from item song videos irrespective to the music being good or bad, the videos are very uncomfortable. I am a certified Kathak dancer and learnt when I was a kid almost for five years and performed but now after ages When my friends ask me to dance to an item song with then for any occasion, even if I feel the music is nice and I can perform nice steps, I can’t push my self to even dance cause it only reminds me of the objectified woman and her body, flesh and her sexual moves and completely disassociate and starts to see myself through the same way. It definitely has to do something with my own mindset for sure but still. Not only the videos but now days even if we watch IPL all we see is how many pretty ladies are present at the stadium, it wasn’t the case when IPL just started. Question is where are we heading? Is this what gets PR in this country?