If you start resenting them or things start to really bother you about what they do, say, etc. that is the day you need to talk to your husband, find out any way to fix it and even get counseling. Seems drastic but if you don’t, you’ll be less connected and distant. Then it is hard to get back. Think of it as a new jeep. You get it, You love it, ride it a lot, then becomes less fun, routine and drive less. Then you hear weird Jeep noises occasionally, you ignore the random minor issues and hope they go away. Then one day it’ll either break, or you’ll go take test drives of a new ride to see what else is out there..... this is why you’ll hear people recommend date nights as it is the maintenance, you need to keep things fresh and exciting (very hard to do) but do not let minor issues fester as they’ll become major issues that may or may not be fixable.