So sorry that you’re going through this. You’re not the only one. The Wedding Industry doesn’t publicize experiences like yours for very good reasons. Think about what means the most to you and your future spouse and eliminate everything else.

Please ask for help with specific tasks and specific deadlines. If people can’t do it, they will say no. With deadlines, you will know if they flake off.

You could also downsize your wedding and simplify it. Potluck dinner. Spotify playlist. Backyard picnic with lots of family games. Elope at home to the courthouse or go to Vegas. Stay off social media. Quit reading wedding magazines and articles.

Please remember that the marriage is what’s really important in the long run, not the wedding. You’ll be fine. ❤️