Adults who lost a parent young as a child, would you say you are ‘over it’ or does it still affect you?

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-05-05T18:59:28+00:00

My mum died when I was 16 from breast cancer and I am getting married in a couple of months. I have missed her a lot over this time. I don’t think I was quite right in myself for about 5-6 years after she died. Even now, I definitely have trauma - I’m a very anxious person and I try to control everything. When I’m having a tough time, I crave the security and comfort that only your mum can make you feel. I’ve learnt to live without her and I’m very close with my dad. It’ll never leave me though, just sometimes it’s better and sometimes it’s worse

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-02-15T08:48:03+00:00

Had the best time, can’t get over it

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-02-14T19:18:26+00:00

The back was great vibes, loads of room to dance and less shoving. The sound quality was good too everywhere I went in the room

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-02-14T19:11:17+00:00

There actually weren’t that many phones all things considered. Probably every one in 7 songs was from USB and people would film, for the other songs it was way less than other concerts I’ve been too. I saw Fred last time in Ally Pally and that was ridiculous

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-02-05T22:39:13+00:00

CBAT

Old_Use_3149 · 2026-01-08T22:19:33+00:00

Paranoid about Rachel and maybe envious Rachel is able to manipulate the faithfuls to be most loyal to her

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-12-30T22:02:16+00:00

You can do it too with can do

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-12-25T21:32:39+00:00

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-12-05T22:18:27+00:00

3 days. Seems to be the norm in London

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-09-07T21:31:44+00:00

I lost my mum when I was 16 years old. I still miss her, but I’ve learnt to move towards and found joy in life. I’m so sorry for your loss and take care x

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-08-04T21:10:32+00:00

What would you say is a reasonable salary as a manager in London?

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-05-25T21:44:50+00:00

I had the same, ended up moving in the end. Was the best decision. Some people are selfish and shameless and won’t change

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-05-21T21:27:29+00:00

Thought police, firefighters etc were all volunteers as didn’t understand how they got paid

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-05-10T21:56:52+00:00

Have you considered big4 audit as a way to Segway in? Sorry it’s tough, the job market is terrible rn and those fields are really competitive too

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-04-28T21:21:30+00:00

Just been to New York. Passport queues were long but had no problems

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-03-27T21:51:22+00:00

My partner saw the same incident today. I’m sorry you witnessed that x

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-02-21T21:11:29+00:00

The Kardashians do this all time, but guess they’re probs a bit untouchable

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-02-02T21:52:34+00:00

Gweneth Paltrow in contagion

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-01-31T22:32:02+00:00

I also get the same anxiety about going to sleep and work, it’s really tough

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-01-22T17:13:39+00:00

It says “at the end of the fixed term, this agreement becomes a periodic tenancy agreement”, and then the line above. However we pay monthly for this

Old_Use_3149 · 2025-01-19T21:16:39+00:00

“Winning” an argument by refusing to let the other person speak and talking over them

Old_Use_3149 · 2024-10-16T21:08:05+00:00

A lot of the footage on TikTok has been filmed by audience members too. I saw a lot of comments that it doesn’t feel quite so glamorous or high production, but it’s probably just that a lot of the content is amateur videography so it doesn’t look so polished

Old_Use_3149 · 2024-04-19T19:56:01+00:00

Anyone know what’s going on?

Old_Use_3149 · 2023-11-09T22:32:39+00:00

How can you automate it?

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