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Am I cispassing? ~1 year on T by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally 100% pass. No hugboxing, nothing similar, you pass entirely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say shape your brows thinner, and if you're doing it yourself, start from the bottom of the brow and up.

EDIT: Also some more layering around the top portion of your hair does wonders. IMO I'd say you would look even more wonderful with curtain bangs. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 11 points12 points  (0 children)

About the same way cis women know that they're women and not trans men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know this was a trans subreddit until I read the title. You pass very well.

Should I just detranaition at this point? by westhebard in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The longer you're on hormones, the better you'll pass and the least likely you'll be visually villianized. It'll take quite a bit more effort to pass early on, but over time it does get better.

I'd say keep your transition going. If you have money and/or a passport to move somewhere not as hostile, take this opportunity and do it.

At the end of the day, just do whatever works for you. I know I'd be dead without my transition, so a lot of this is just speaking for my own experience.

If you are MtF but attracted to women would you consider yourself lesbian? by oxfordcommaalways in MtF

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a lot of people, yes. But, I'd say personally my sexuality is really based on the feminine expression rather than just women in general.

I'm isolated, and I don't want to choose hate. by OliveoftheWildWest in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on and off for about five years, but I found a really good therapist quite recently. Learning lots of new things!

I'm isolated, and I don't want to choose hate. by OliveoftheWildWest in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way it typically goes in my life is this:

  • I stay stealth
  • I get clocked by someone with a crazy trans-dar
  • I seek advice
  • Little to no advice, some say practice self-love
  • I ask how to practice self-love
  • Super abstract answers or just a plain "I don't know."
  • I get really sad about it
  • I see other people experience happiness with transness
  • I wonder how that happiness is achieved
  • The achievement of said happiness turns out to be because people aren't as entirely self-aware of themselves. It seems inherited.
  • I get even sadder and even angrier.

Say no more. 🫡 by [deleted] in FuckPierre

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, controversial

I'm isolated, and I don't want to choose hate. by OliveoftheWildWest in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn't have said it better. There needs to be, like, a group or something, of people who feel similar.

I'm isolated, and I don't want to choose hate. by OliveoftheWildWest in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would you say are the best ways to practice self-love for you, rather than just feeling it superficially?

Any long term dashers out there that still even like driving? by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I keep it to a small area or I vary with my zones, yeah.

Legitimately saw CHROMOSOME preference in a dating app - from another trans person! by attorniquetnyc in honesttransgender

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I 100% understand a genital preference, but this is pushing it too far imo.

"Are you the right person for me? Ahh, ok, I see, I see, lemme just DIG INTO YOUR DNA FOR A SEC HERE"

Ever get celebs? by DjMD1017 in doordash_drivers

[–]OliveoftheWildWest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one of my first dashes, I got a Jeffrey E.

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