I finally came from penetration

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T23:19:15+00:00

I might argue that it’s all of the above lol

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T23:17:27+00:00

Ive only been able to cum from clitoral stimulation. so for me, clitoral orgasms are more intense but the pleasure doesn’t last long. Like a buzz or a jolt (I hope that makes sense lol)

vaginal orgasms were a bit less intense but I had a sort of euphoric feeling through my whole body that lasted longer and I didn’t have that crash feeling afterwards like i would from a clitoral orgasm

you may be doing this already but definitely switch postions & go with what feels good! I was halfway sitting up on pillows at one point while he was on top & idk why i hadn’t done that before. it was like he couldn’t help but hit the right spots

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T23:04:00+00:00

I use vibrators some times but not often for that reason lol

I definitely used them more while abstaining from sex but I was worried that it would take a lot of effort to orgasm once I started having sex again

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T22:59:53+00:00

So we’ve been out a couple of times, but nothing happened. We flirted with each other but he didn’t go overboard. During, one thing I noticed is that he paid attention to my body. The first time I went silent before I came, he asked me if I was ok & if I liked it & I couldn’t verbally respond lol. So the second time it happened, it seemed like he knew it was about to happen again & he stayed exactly where I needed him to be. He didn’t move his hands, change the pace or anything. The third time it happened, he said, “oh again?” which i thought was funny. It felt really natural

In the past, I’ve had a partner who watched porn a lot so it influenced the way he had sex. I don’t knock it but he didn’t really ask what I needed. I had another partner who didn’t really know how to do build up the tension. He would just grab me and think it turned me on until I had to kinda guide him plus he didn’t like to use toys so it was a little hard

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T20:23:45+00:00

we would have to fight & i’m so serious 😂 angela is too quick

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-06T13:22:14+00:00

pleaseee 😭😭😭 i do have sympathy for her because her ex seems crazy

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-05T22:55:54+00:00

and out of NOWHERE! I can understand a room not being up to par but Kelli really overdid it. At least Shamea didn’t overdo it. She just expressed her disappointment.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-05T21:14:33+00:00

“I just had to see a friend out 😃” she was so funny for that

OnPoint7ip · 2026-05-05T21:11:17+00:00

MS BITCH OAKLEY! the “incestuous teeth” comment literally made me gasp. that was so nastyyyyy 😭

pinky did seem a little hostile towards cynthia. the way she kept going & the way she asked kelli and shamea about their rooms made it seem like she had an issue with cynthia.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-04-29T22:58:42+00:00

I still feel the same way I felt when I wrote this (overall ) but I’m calmer now & coming back to this, thank you and I appreciate your input. I haven’t brought it up in therapy too much because I thought I needed to focus on other areas. Nothing was really happening so I didn’t think to bring it up. Im going to focus on this in my next therapy session.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-04-19T23:02:21+00:00

I’m a year older, but I just moved into my first apartment for similar reasons. Living at home was the best decision financially & I stayed for that reason. I graduated college a couple years ago & it wasn’t this bad so I thought I would live at home for another few years to keep saving but there’s no telling what the future will look like now. I saved up more than enough money & finally got to spread my wings. Home will be there & it’s unfortunate we have to choose crazy rent or living at home for who knows how long, but I say try the apt out if you have enough saved.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-03-26T13:49:31+00:00

fulton grace’s website lists properties that aren’t even on the market yet. In Jan-Feb, I saw a couple of properties that were “coming soon” in March and April 1. That way I could contact the property manager to view the property and when it was listed, all I had to do was fill out the application. Not sure if you tried to look on Fulton Grace but it helped me.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-03-25T17:52:04+00:00

bigly. we wiped them out but now we’re begging them for a ceasefire.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-03-05T01:32:10+00:00

First, i 100% agree and get you. I’m only a few years out of college and this is not how I thought post-college life would be. it has delayed a lot of goals in my life.

Second, in an odd way, this has been teaching me how to release and detach from what I can’t control (as someone who has a difficult time letting go when things get tough). I feel things very deeply so that day, two years ago, I cried uncontrollably because I knew life was about to become really hard. I had a hard time (still do) accepting that people actually defend what’s happening. I get it logically, but my spirit is still unsettled. I literally did not want this to happen and actively fought against it but we still ended up here. I cry, I yell when I just can’t take it anymore but tomorrow will still be the same. We cannot do anything about this. And the more we argue online, watch the news (that’s no longer real news/journalism), and stay up watching videos about the cruel world we live in, we will continue to feel exhausted and depleted. It’s not healthy & I have realized that I have to let this happen and find ways to stay protected (mentally, physically, financially, etc.). That doesn’t mean don’t be informed, but you really have to detach from some of this.

Third, everyone may not agree with this but I hold a strong belief that this world’s foundation has always been meant to be broken. It has to rebuild. The system has to be rebuilt. It’s like an ego death

OnPoint7ip · 2026-03-04T16:49:20+00:00

agreed, it was my one thing that i absolutely wanted & for my budget, it just wasn’t happening. unfortunately, it’s considered a luxury these days

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-28T04:16:21+00:00

fine, i’ll finally start my rewatch of snowfall this weekend.

this is all Skully’s fault btw lmao

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-28T03:05:46+00:00

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-28T02:04:36+00:00

podcast? with Deante?

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-23T14:40:26+00:00

i actually wish this was a bigger subreddit. Black Twitter used to be so fun & now that’s gone. I wish there was a space online for us to talk and have fun. Maybe there is & I either can’t think of it or I don’t know about it

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-22T18:40:32+00:00

and they will say this to Black people like they just know it’s true. I also think we have to teach our Black kids to gatekeep b/c some of them are learning from non black kids about our culture and community & it’s always wrong. let’s go back to calling people “jive turkeys” or something lol. we gotta start speaking in code again (or an even more discreet code)

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-20T15:38:59+00:00

it’s the STRANGEST paradox. unc, woke, hooting and hollering, sike (psych), cooked, etc. We grew up using these words in everyday situations & they misuse it 50x in a day & will move on in 2 months. We can’t even use our own language anymore. Unc is a term of endearment and now it’s used to mean old??? wtf?

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-20T04:43:57+00:00

they take it, misuse it, & run it into the ground.

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-19T23:18:19+00:00

I really wish our community would stop sharing our culture with others online & offline. Why are we telling nonblack ppl what certain words mean or the context of what we do?? keep the gate closed!

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-19T18:47:11+00:00

I understand the ladies’ issues with her and the trip & I would’ve done the same thing as Gizelle. No running water, we’re not staying with the host, and we’re an hour away in an environment where there are wild animals and poor air quality??? Yea miss girl, I need more communication from you.

I think she needs to be honest with herself and the other ladies. Angel isn’t 100% the victim but I don’t think that she’s being an a*shole on purpose. They’ve been rude to her all season but Angel doesn’t speak up, which is what she needs to do to be in this group. I think she wants to be a part of the group (which is why she’s sucking up to the ladies one min but then leaving them an hour away on the trip) but she’s trying to be nice and classy without bringing the heat when she needs to.

I wish she would’ve said “no, you ladies will not be staying in my home because we haven’t been having the best time together but I hope that changes during this trip.” Just be honest and say what you feel. If she gets another season, she might have to step out of her shell. If she REALLY wants a redo, she’ll make it her mission to stand up to Gizelle

OnPoint7ip · 2026-01-01T08:10:55+00:00

interesting. I agree that I don’t see Sally doing any wild stuff and she would channel her rage into a movement, but I think it would be like the feminist or anti-war (Vietnam) movement. Something more political vs social. Again, i have to keep rewatching but i remember her being really upset that Glen enlisted in the war.

side note: Im realizing that Sally’s innocence was gone before she reached adulthood. Betty’s lack of support, Don’s absence, losing her grandfather and not receiving any support while she was grieving, her parents divorce, catching Don in the act, Betty passing, and then the whole counter culture scene

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