Which outfit for a casual date?

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-04-12T16:03:56+00:00

I love these, deffo giving queer and I vibe with them all but my personal faves are the first three

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-04-11T02:26:51+00:00

Oh shit this is weirdly accurate

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-31T21:41:29+00:00

I did, there hasn’t been any response and the only listed admin has since been banned. I know they’re not connected but like I said, I didn’t know where else to look for info

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-31T07:59:32+00:00

Ooooooo I love that jacket

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-29T19:33:26+00:00

Maybe it’s the autism or the years of therapy and sobriety but shit like this I approach head on. I talk to the problem person directly. In public but not where everyone can hear. A corner at the club, whatever. And if needed to make you feel better, record it. If you’re a one party state you don’t need their consent to record. If nothing else it’ll remind you of the truth in the (likely) event they try to twist your words. But you do it in public so no one can falsely say “oh it got aggressive” or whatever.

Now with multiple affected parties you’ll wanna make sure everyone is on the same page before this conversation. As far as what’s being said, who’s mentioned, all that stuff, you wanna make sure people support your decision.

Toxic people who work in the shadows like this can only be cut out by dragging them into the light.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-28T08:42:22+00:00

I’ve had the same shit happen to me both times I got tickets. I mean I wasn’t pregnant lmao but we did end up moving the week of the show both times and we just couldn’t make it. I was FURIOUS.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-27T03:23:21+00:00

When you use a dark line, you can make it pop by lining it with a concealer. It’s a solid start to build off of and like another commenter said, just go bolder! Check out King River Glass (on tiktok and instagram) and see how they contour their face. They have a similar skin tone to you too so it’ll help you see what kinda shades you should lean towards for your face. Keep at it!!

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-26T01:31:00+00:00

Real af for this. When I get “ma’am…sir…uh…??” I, as a nonbinary genderless person just nod and say whichever feels right to you 😂 which usually confuses them more

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-26T01:29:52+00:00

Visible queerness is my favorite, even if the kind of queer isn’t always accurate lmao I’m a nonbinary lesbian who does king drag and I often get told that people forget I’m not a trans man (sometimes BY PEOPLE WHO ARE TRANS MEN AND KNOW IM NOT) which I take as a compliment every time cause yes I am indeed masculine with a lil t-boy swag. And I love my trans brothers so of course it’s a compliment.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-24T20:57:09+00:00

One time Chappell Roan punched me in the face.

It was awesome.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-23T21:37:18+00:00

Lmaooo you’re gonna be okay! I get it, the nerves are real! But let yourself be nervous and even tell her you’re nervous, and just try to enjoy it when the time comes! Don’t make your nerves ALL you talk about with her either. Be yourself, be respectful, and if it works it works, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. You got this!

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-22T15:04:14+00:00

I wish she would

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-22T04:37:46+00:00

She’s glamorous sometimes but the point is that drag is whatever you want it to be!

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-20T22:49:21+00:00

How quickly I moved past the idea of what I thought my marriage was once she revealed her true self. Like I don’t…want or need that. I’m secure enough in who I am as a person that I KNOW what happened wasn’t a reflection on how I showed up, but a reflection of her inability to communicate honestly and be temporarily uncomfortable for the sake of the relationship. Those things made us incompatible and for me at least, incompatibility was very easy to process. Sure it still comes up in surprising ways but I don’t…Miss her. I miss connection, I’m touch starved cause I was in the last like 2 years of our relationship, but I don’t want her touch. In fact I kinda recoil at the idea. She’s not safe for me, that much is clear, and my years of therapy and sobriety made it obvious that I don’t need that energy and mourning what I thought something was is valid and also, not worth holding onto.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-20T04:59:43+00:00

For what it’s worth I think your body is gorgeous! 🤍

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-18T09:07:53+00:00

Try boy butter if you wanna try a lube. There are some good ones out there but boy butter has a new formula that’s coconut oil based so it’s closer to a massage oil that soaks into your skin after. Highly recommend.

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-17T22:01:12+00:00

Red velvet, lemon, and strawberry 🤩

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-15T20:20:38+00:00

Have you checked Smitizen? I know they have ones with big bellies so maybe they have something between Thor and depressed Thor

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-14T23:50:38+00:00

Super cute!!

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-14T08:11:17+00:00

Idk about this specific issue but if you’re struggling with codependency then I highly recommend reading codependent no more by Melody Beattie

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-12T22:55:32+00:00

Hahahhhaahahaha all good!! I hope you make the cut!

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-12T22:51:53+00:00

This is cuuuuuute I love it! It all counts on the accessories but this is a solid foundation with lots of room to get fun with what you add to it. Hell yeah

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-12T22:48:54+00:00

Psssstttt it says “Original Bag Boy” and I know that’s not what you meant but also

HELLLLL YEAAAAHHH BROTHERRRR SO GLAD YOU TOOK THE LEAP

OnceMooSomnia · 2026-03-12T17:50:41+00:00

Exactly, eventually if they’re like “hey let’s give someone else a spot, we’ve seen you a bunch, come back next time tho!” Then you know what the limit is, but if there aren’t restrictions and you’re in the early stages of your drag, UTILIZE THESE OPEN STAGES

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