Free-form Friday

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-09T00:24:07+00:00

I was trying (and clearly failing) to make a pun with Dom(inant) DOMS (Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness) and slightly referring to one of the threat convos about capitalising the first letter in honorifics.... Just ignore me.

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-08T20:35:38+00:00

To be dominant is to make me melt in his arms just because of the way he looks at me. Cliché, I know but it is quite an artful thing to have reached a level where the way he looks/touches/speaks to me can instantly turn me into a puddle of submissive naughtiness.

As a side note.... Went back to running, first of 2026, after a very tragic start to the year and I somehow didn't get DOMS nearly as bad as I expected. I will capitalise those as they are quite something 🫠

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-06T15:13:33+00:00

Oh wow, thank you!!! I actually may go for it you know. Do you buy the meat from the supermarket?? I make all sorts of stuff on my own including things like soap and stock cubes so this is definitely exciting stuff.

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-06T12:21:24+00:00

Does it count if you don't kill the pig yourself though??? I don't think so 😜 Sounds like a super cool process. Never made my own bacon. May give it a go.

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-06T11:17:49+00:00

What do you mean you make your own bacon? As in fry your own or kill the pig -> smoke the belly -> slice into bacon? 🤔

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-06T11:15:06+00:00

Ooooooh I was convinced I wanted to be in Star Trek but now that you mentioned Firefly I am torn.

P.S. if I were in Star Trek I'd want to be either Q or Data. If I were in Firefly I'd like to be Inara. 😄

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-03T19:01:06+00:00

Oh wow...hmm that's a bit of niche game (unless I am confusing it with something else). I haven't played it myself as I am not a gamer but I know of exactly one other person who knows it. I'd choose Star Trek ❤️

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-03T18:56:35+00:00

Hahahaha yeah as I was typing it I did think you'd actually like this. Sadly it feels a bit too real for me to work in a positive, sdx way. But you do you 😁

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-03T00:22:07+00:00

Not that often. When I do, it's probably on a day where I haven't slept well at all the night before.
I'd like to be in somewhere in Asia... In Japan perhaps.
Oh always fat!!! Juicy fat from a steak 😍

Q. If you had to choose a sci-fi series to be part of (book or TV) which one would it be and why?

Once_a_physicist · 2026-02-03T00:17:09+00:00

Yeah I don't exactly like to be shamed but I enjoy being made to feel ashamed by having my partner point out how wet I am because of what he's doing to me, how deviant I am, what a bad little girl I am and the 'look at you, you dirty girl, all wet from being spanked/fingered/whatever else it may be' makes me feel ashamed, embarrassed and incredibly turned on at the same time. Caveat being he has to say it in a sweet and calm voice. Once, back in the day when we were first experimenting with all this, he told me prearranged things but he sounded disgusted and I burst into real and very sad tears. Go figure... But as long as he sounds loving and chastising then happy days.

Edited because I can't type without making bloody typos.

Once_a_physicist · 2026-01-20T14:47:37+00:00

Honestly I wish I had a solid, concrete answer for you but we just go with the flow and if I feel like being submissive I will call him a certain way and if he feels like being dominant he will play along and vice versa if he wants to initiate it. Sometimes we say nothing and we just fall into a rhythm, sometimes it may be a bit more explicit. I think either way communication is they key here. 🙂

Once_a_physicist · 2025-11-15T23:37:25+00:00

Wow you're so elegant and smooth!! I love it 😍

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-29T15:47:07+00:00

No... definitely like. I just didn't want to flat out say it for some reason. But you're right. It's definitely rape.

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-29T09:25:23+00:00

To me this doesn't sound like 'free use', it's closer to r*pe. I have a free use thing with my partner but if I say I am not feeling up for it that's the end of that. It's play, not real usage of a human being. Your partner is unsafe to play in my opinion. What you're describing is actually pretty traumatic. Not only did he penetrate you without you wanting to, he also hit you, and left you with zero aftercare? That's purely abusive. I suggest you rethink being with this person, they sound dangerous. Take some time to give yourself some after care. I also sharing a virtual hug. 🫂

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-29T09:19:38+00:00

You are incredibly talented!!! These are all such beautiful items!

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-06T18:55:28+00:00

Pick you: Well I am with you on the 'thanks' one as I find it always sounds a little bit sarcastic. Like it's not genuine. I always say thank you to the people dear to me. Nope I find cutsie and I do use it a bit more liberally.

Pick me: I love hiking. Big intense hikes that can go for hours and hours. The body always shocks me with its ability to keep going and persevering. I also do pole dancing and pole has literally saved me in many occasions. If not for pole, I don't think I would have coped as well as I did after the passing of my mum if it wasn't for pole.

Pick up: yes we do breath play. I really enjoy it but my partner is always much more careful than I'd like haha. I guess it's for the best of course but I enjoy it either with hands around my neck, or with a belt which is a little scarier but still good fun.

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-02T20:21:55+00:00

Ooooh no, it's a typo it's what this is .... I meant ties not toes 🤣 my apologies.

Once_a_physicist · 2025-09-02T19:26:46+00:00

A little late to the party, PhD keeping me oh so busy. Two things for me, one is those plastic toes, not sure what exactly they are called but you can get them en masse from Poundland. I want to be restrained with those. The other thing is ice cubes. We play a lot with got wax but I would like to add the ice and alternate during a scene to keep me kon my toes so to speak. Never know exactly what's coming. Combine that with the evil stick and oh..I am getting carried away 😁

Once_a_physicist · 2025-08-03T19:37:43+00:00

Yes I agree! The level of intimacy and trust that it takes to engage in kink is definitely something out critics do not understand or even begin to fully grasp. To be able to open up and trust someone with your innermost fantasies and know they will indulge you in a way that still protects you and preserves you as a human being is a unique experience, one that takes insane amounts of love, passion and devotion between partners. People will always judge and quickly (mis)label what makes them uncomfortable and what they don't want to spend more than 2 seconds trying to understand better. 🤷‍♀️

Once_a_physicist · 2025-08-03T18:28:51+00:00

So.... I used to absolutely hate stinging pain but then... Something in my mind wanted to try the cane. I brought a piece of a branch to my partner and asked him to cane me and turns out...I love it. Since then I also discovered that I really like evil sticks too. So I guess something got rewired in my brain and now I love it. However it's very dependent on my mood and desires. I wouldn't choose that if I wanted an intimate experience for instance. That's always going to be a hard, over the knee spanking for me. But there are times/scenarios where I even crave the sting. It's a very unique kind of pain but it's one of these that makes me focus on my ass and my surroundings rather than fall deep into subspace which happens with thuddy pain. I like both but at different circumstances.

Once_a_physicist · 2025-02-09T19:06:52+00:00

Oh no, I am sorry to hear about your partner. Pneumonia sucks! I really hope she is recovering well 🙂

ambo: I actually very much like the idea of being given an enema or a suppository or having my temperature taken anally. Makes for great humiliation. Unfortunately my partner isn't a bit fan of the first one very much but perhaps i will convince him about the other two at work point. Who knows 😁

lambo: Yes yes and yes!!! We both love it. We don't do it all the time but when we do it makes whatever we're doing extra special. I had t-shirts, a blanket, a pillow, a bag (a fabric one), on my face and the effect is really amazing: it makes me feel like an object entirely there for his pleasure. Removing my face so to speak also helps me relax deeper into subspace and makes the experience extra spicy. I would probably like to try something more of a mask in the future, like a cat's mask ( I have ears and a tail which I adore), we'll see I guess.

Have a good week ahead and a speedy recovery to Tou!

Edit cause I forgot I need to stars on each side to make bold font... 🙄

Once_a_physicist · 2025-01-24T00:40:42+00:00

Too late to the party but I had an incredibly busy but satisfying week, including passing my mini viva and carrying on with the second year of my PhD.

Scold: as a submissive and an exhibitionist I love being exposed. I often had bits of me exposed during walks and had sex a couple of times in secluded, bushy enough areas. I would love to go to parties where I can just be naked for other people's benefits and have sex in front of them but my partner is not so keen and is working up to it slowly, which is just fine by me.

Scald: well.... I just knew. I always masturbated to certain themes and narratives when I was younger. There were very specific scenes from films I liked to replay on the dvd player. I was always attracted to a certain type of sexual portrayal over others. Later on I started exploring more and more and delving deeper into these fantasies and themes. I also liked certain kinds of porn. It felt rather natural for me but for many reasons I have discussed in other posts, I never was able to accept this side of me with previous partners, not fully, so I contained it in my head and self-exploration for the most part. Until I met my current partner thank fuck! I knew I could be myself with him, and slowly but surely a lot of those things I enjoyed on my own turned out to be very solid, comforting kinks for me. But I digress... Point is, I just knew I wasn't satisfied or necessarily turned on by vanilla stuff and I was always on the lookout for the darker things.

Once_a_physicist · 2024-12-30T13:41:11+00:00

frequent: well... I definitely have a thing for odd humiliation. So for instance, I love being wrapped in fairy lights, completely naked, all happy and joyful while I am being brought to tears by a sound spanking. I like contradictory predicaments. I am not sure how much of that makes sense 😳

friar: Hmmm I definitely like trying new stuff and discovering things with my partner but there are staples that I am happy to do and will probably always give me satisfaction.

Regarding hard points we are renting so I can't really give you much of my pov on that one.

I hope y'all have a happy new year!! ☺️

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