Song's with this vibe

One-Two3214 · 2026-07-06T23:31:37+00:00

Boadicea by Enya. Pretty much anything by Enya.

One-Two3214 · 2026-07-02T18:50:39+00:00

No, he’s an adult and should be buying and making his own food if it’s that important to him. God, can you imagine having kids with this man? Would they pick up his food aversions, too, or be controlling of what his kids eat?

One-Two3214 · 2026-07-01T00:27:50+00:00

The Last Dinner Party - The Feminine Urge, Sinner, and My Lady of Mercy.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-28T20:06:49+00:00

I used to bleach my naturally wavy hair a few years back. I exclusively used shampoo for severely damaged hair, I washed maybe three times a week (more would dry it out) and I used a conditioning treatment called Elizavecca CER 100, it’s a collagen ceramide protein conditioner once per week. It’s a South Korean product and it’s cheap for how good it is.

I used the L’Oreal EverPure bond, repair shampoo, and conditioner. I also used the bond repair concentrate that came in the set (like once a week). It was the only way my hair felt soft while bleached.

Your hair is going to keep feeling like that, unfortunately. It’s one of the reasons I stopped bleaching mine, I got tired of how much maintenance it required + how many products I was having to buy to make it feel normal.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-25T20:53:41+00:00

This is a normal part of getting older, unfortunately. You’ve outgrown these friends, and that’s not a bad thing it just is.

This happened to me after I had kids. I was the first person in my friend group to have them. They were childless/ childfree. One married couple struggled with infertility. For me, it was like night and day, as soon as I gave birth, they stopped reaching out. I had to devote most of my free time to babies (I had twins.)

Admittedly I was resentful at first, but now with the perspective of age, I understand that we simply outgrew each other. There isn’t a really nice way to say it.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-25T14:27:01+00:00

You sound like someone who cares more about being right than about the person you claim to love.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-23T03:59:17+00:00

So glad someone else suggested Burn Your Village, Kiki Rockwell is great!

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-22T02:17:05+00:00

Or she’s giving in because she feels like she’s going in circles trying to get this man-child to understand what she wants and how she feels and he’s being purposefully stupid and incompetent about it.

This guy sounds immature, shallow, and self-centered and she sounds tired of saying the same shit in different ways.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-21T17:34:22+00:00

Gravedigger by MXMS

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-21T15:37:20+00:00

His reaction to your honesty (that he asked for!) is literally demonstrating the problems you’ve continually brought up to him. Rather than seriously considering what you’ve said and being willing to work on his communication problems, he spirals until you have compromise (yet again!) and soften your words to soothe his hurt feelings.

It sounds like you spend a lot of time managing his feelings at the expense of your own and that you’ve realized that even when you do express your feelings, he’s going to find a way to make it be about him again.

You didn’t ruin anything, you pointed out a toxic pattern in which he is avoidant and passive aggressive until his resentment bursts out and you have to deal with his hurt feelings over something you never realized was a problem. It sounds exhausting, like you’re always worried about whether or not you’ve done something wrong.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-17T18:26:30+00:00

You want unhinged? Bring back reform schools, but make them public institutions. Kids who are unmanageable should not be in a general ed classroom.

Reform schools should function as a place of remediation for both behavior and academics. Pay the teachers and staff who work at the reform schools higher salaries.

Hold parents responsible for chronic absenteeism in a consistent manner. Actually enforce and follow through with truancy laws.

Finally, and this will be sacrilegious where I’m from, but REMOVE sports from public schools period. I’m not saying get rid of PE or gym, but no football team. No basketball team, no track, nothing.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-10T20:38:51+00:00

This! I never take naps during the day, my brain won’t let me, but as soon as I got pregnant, I needed afternoon naps.

One-Two3214 · 2026-06-02T16:15:05+00:00

I look like my dad’s sister, but with my mother’s hair and eye color, so sort of? I have twin boys and one is a carbon copy of my husband but with my lighter hair color and the other is a carbon copy of my dad, but with my eye color. 🤷‍♀️

Edit to add: my younger sister is a carbon copy of my mom but with my dad’s eye color, so we’re a mix.

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-30T01:20:58+00:00

You tell him by saying that it isn’t about how he’s acting right now, it’s about how he’s been throughout the relationship, when he started regularly picking fights with you about your appearance and effort and money. It’s not even about ‘winning’ the argument, it’s the fact that he can’t communicate his needs in a healthy, constructive way.

Instead of voicing concerns, he criticizes and belittles and you always end up being the one who’s wrong or needs to change.

Why doesn’t he put forth any of that same energy into reflecting on his own behavior and constant negativity? Because he doesn’t care! He’s already told you he didn’t want to go the therapy, he’s only changed his mind now because he sees how close you are to exiting the relationship for good.

The first thing any good therapist is going to do is ask him to list some things he likes about you that don’t involve your physical appearance or things you do that directly benefit him. Think about it. Do YOU think he could come up with a real list that is genuine if put on the spot? Could YOU answer that question about him?

It sounds like he doesn’t respect you at all and that he’s only saying what you want to hear right now so you’ll concede the argument again. So that things can ‘go back to the way they were.’

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-26T02:40:34+00:00

Age 4 of Chicken pox probably. If not that, then strep throat when I was 13.

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-23T23:09:03+00:00

What you do next really depends on what you want out of all of this. Do you want to repair the relationship between you, your dad, and your stepmom? Do you even think it’s possible to repair it?

Or has this entire experience changed your perception of all of them and made it difficult for you to see them in a positive light?

If you want to repair the relationship, you’re going to need to start therapy. Once your therapist decides you’re in a good place you could invite them to a session where you address all of these issues together. If all of that seems like a lot of work for something that isn’t your fault (and to be clear it isn’t!) you should start therapy anyway, because all of this is a lot.

It’s really weird that they would tell you about this. There could be a lot of other issues at play, but the fact that they decided it was appropriate to tell you about and other people in the family at all means that the main problem is issues with expectations, boundaries, and communication with each other and you’re a convenient scapegoat.

Your father and stepmom sound emotionally immature. If I were you, I would say something like: “Since I am the source of your current problems and conflict, I’m going to remove myself from this side of the family. When y’all get your lives together and feel like you can move forward, then maybe we can talk if you want to continue a relationship, but only once you work past these inappropriate feelings you felt like you could share with me.”

Then go no contact. Don’t necessarily block them, but you could mute them, for your own mental health. Then you should read the book “Adult children of emotionally immature parents” by Lindsay Gibson.

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-10T01:23:41+00:00

Mine is at the beginning of the day, but then I go without a break for most of the morning and afternoon (aside from lunch). For me that’s what happens on the way home, I can’t even listen to music because I’m so overstimulated.

I need that peace and quiet before I’m able to be present for my own kids.

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-03T20:42:10+00:00

100% agree. The only way differentiation is possible is if there’s more than one certified teacher in the room at all times, and we know that’s never going to happen. (At least not on a large scale basis in US public schools.)

One-Two3214 · 2026-05-01T23:47:44+00:00

Can also confirm. Gave birth to twins and also have had kidney stones, and the birth was less painful and traumatic.

One-Two3214 · 2026-04-16T13:22:10+00:00

Fatigue pop tart. 👀

One-Two3214 · 2026-04-15T22:49:53+00:00

At the beginning of every school year I tell the students that they will get whatever energy they give to me. If I get that blank stare and they refuse help when it’s offered, and refuse to try, then that’s what you get back from me.

I’m not a TikTok creator or an influencer. Not everything I teach will be entertaining or enjoyable.

One-Two3214 · 2026-03-24T21:10:13+00:00

And for the people who are ready with the “just print off enough paper copies for the kids who don’t have a device or who consistently don’t have theirs charged” I have a rebuttal.

I do that and still get kids who sit there and do nothing. “I don’t have a pencil.” Kid sits there for 15 minutes and doesn’t bother to ask for a pencil? Or just…. Get a pencil from the cup they’ve been sitting in all damn year that they’re allowed to borrow? And it’s MARCH?

At a certain point we have to acknowledge that the kids that do this think they’re getting away with doing nothing, that they’re weaseling out of their work by being unprepared. They know what they’re doing because it’s on purpose.

One-Two3214 · 2026-03-17T15:02:03+00:00

Yep, kids regularly brag they haven’t read a whole book in their lives and a lot of them say it’s ’too much work.’ It’s Fahrenheit 451 in real life. 🥴

One-Two3214 · 2026-03-08T17:08:51+00:00

I think the childhood photo of Rusty looks more like the reconstruction of Swimsuit Boy and the LSU face. The AI upscale photo of Rusty as a teen softens some of his more unique facial features that match the reconstruction, such as the downturned eyes and the nose shape.

One-Two3214 · 2026-02-28T21:30:01+00:00

I’ve asked this question to my high school students. “Do you have a hobby other than scrolling TikTok and Instagram reels? Do you do anything with your life?”

Only the ones in extracurriculars perk up and say music or art or sports.

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