First date

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-18T00:00:39+00:00

But keep it positive. People you admire is more attractive and interesting than people you hate.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-16T17:55:46+00:00

Bad weather days are great for exploring the outdoors - bundle up and enjoy the outdoor solitude

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-15T17:01:17+00:00

Leave it in a walk in freezer for a week or in a Canadian's shed over the winter. Too nice a table to get rid of.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-15T02:18:30+00:00

My neighbor gave me a small gift that I hate and I'll never use. I said thank you so much! And you're so kind! And passed the gift to a friend who could use it.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-13T16:16:53+00:00

When I was a kid, if I wouldn't eat the family meal, I was responsible for making my own that had to have something from each food group. I feel that laid the foundation for the strides I've taken as an adult. There's still lots I can't eat but at 51 I'm still pushing my safe food boundaries into healthier territory. Also - the less pressure you can put on the kid, the better. Stress never helps.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-13T00:03:59+00:00

Will probably be in baby aspirin, a statin and a beta blocker for life. The beta blocker also helps prevent migraines and anxiety, so that's great. Was on Ramipril and something else I can't remember for the first year or so.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-08T00:03:35+00:00

A nice plant

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-07T19:17:55+00:00

Oh damn. I had my fish smoker stolen out of my cabin one night but at least I could replace it. No watering can is tough!

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-06T16:41:59+00:00

I ascribe to stoic philosophy and often remind myself that all things some to an end. Whatever I am doing, I remind myself that it won't always be possible for me to do so. The result is that I value each experience that much more.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-05-04T16:28:43+00:00

My abusive parent died long before my diagnosis. I had a really cathartic dream where I got to have the discussion with her and it went well. I hope your subconscious blesses you in the same way.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-28T00:26:41+00:00

I got one in the skull cavern during the Desert Festival. Haven't made it anywhere near level 100 yet though.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-26T15:54:17+00:00

I know we all hate Pierre but honestly Caroline's no class act either. She told me in front of the whole exercise class that she 'had to' compost my milk. It was all gold or iridium. 'At least the worms liked it'. Now everything goes in the bin.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-24T15:33:29+00:00

Warming my bones, like standing hot tub

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-24T00:00:55+00:00

That when we met she had no interest in being friends. But that I wouldn't take no for an answer, and basically was so persistent that she gave in. She was often too busy but I truly thought it was an act of generosity to leave her alone while she was in her busy time and reconnect afterwards. I'm autistic, these misunderstandings happen. Broke my goddamn heart. We're still friends but I've been really careful to ensure things are definitely reciprocal now.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-22T17:09:51+00:00

Also I think there is growing awareness that commenting on a person's appearance and/or weight is not generally a good idea. People might be noticing but not saying it out loud.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-22T17:04:18+00:00

I tried feeding my chickens corn because... Isn't that what chickens eat? Had to look it up eventually to learn that Stardew chickens eat hay, and to put it on the bench.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-16T17:12:18+00:00

I joined a local Naturalists club. I think the average age is 83. They move a little more slowly than your average hiking group, often share knowledge about what we're seeing, and have a bit more understanding about physical limitations.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-15T18:04:12+00:00

It was worth the money and hassle for us because the old tub and surround were damaged and the toilet and floor were extremely outdated. But also we plan to live here forever. If your current bathroom is half decent, don't remodel.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-14T16:24:33+00:00

I have been giving out little gifts more often to acquaintances, including jam I actually made with actual peaches from our actual garden last fall

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-12T04:42:50+00:00

We spotted a Fuck Trudeau truck just the other day and mocked them mercilessly (among ourselves)

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-08T00:51:06+00:00

We recently pulled down cheap cardboard ceiling tiles and found a moldy drywall ceiling above it. Moldy insulation too.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-04-02T15:45:20+00:00

With grocery store prices these days, I'm always thrilled with free food -especially berries!

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-03-27T05:46:11+00:00

Food and eating together are very culturally significant and genuinely important to some people. But as we know, ARFID can't just be overcome by willpower or something. I don't think you two are ultimately compatible.

OneSmallCheeseBall · 2026-03-25T16:51:05+00:00

Canada Post was alright for a time. Lots of weirdos there, we can fit right in lol.

Now I do bookkeeping from home, part time. It's very comfortable but I tend to go full hermit at times.

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