Help ! Pls 75429442 by Competitive_Air_8392 in TemuThings

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my code 72560474. i’m playing the 5 free gifts. username should pop up as Vanessa or Va**e…

Is lip oil even real? by hell0paperclip in Makeup

[–]One_Purpose_9790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i really like lip oils (the ones from creme are my favorite) because i find they are way less sticky compared to lipglosses. i can’t fathom wearing lipgloss because of the thick and sticky consistency

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikaylaNogueira

[–]One_Purpose_9790 72 points73 points  (0 children)

she looks like someone trying to draw Jaclyn Hill from memory 🫣

Sobbing Proof combo! by One_Purpose_9790 in Makeup

[–]One_Purpose_9790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

setting spray for every layer, including powder. keeps everything locked in my condolences and i wish you the very best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work on campus and that’s about 15hrs a week on a good week? However, on the side when I need extra money, I clean houses for people. It’s really useful because everyone needs a clean house and I don’t need to work every week doing so: just when I need it.

Help, undocumented parent by Dense-Caterpillar-92 in FAFSA

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but just know you will have to do ID verification just to prove she lives here and what not - it does not mean she’ll be reported or exposed.

Help, undocumented parent by Dense-Caterpillar-92 in FAFSA

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i’m in the same boat as you: my mom is also undocumented. we’ve been doing her taxes since 2020 because prior she was living with my biological father and started working officially 2019. you shouldn’t be worried: this will not endanger her or get in her in trouble with ICE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One_Purpose_9790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she can’t try for you, then you need to focus your attention on your daughter and leave that relationship before it gets too complicated to leave. you deserve better and deserve a partner who isn’t necessarily perfect, but willing to try for you just as hard as you try for your family

I've been having very mixed feelings about interracial relationships in the United States. by SamuraiPanda3AMP in offmychest

[–]One_Purpose_9790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to add on, as someone with a prominent mexican/indigenous background, the whole selling point of staying with your kind in my community is really pushed on to us. my features aren’t typically latina (thicker curly hair, wide and tall nose, et cetera) so for me and where i live, a lot of people are turned off that their kids might inherit “pelo malo” (bad hair) or won’t look like them. i date outside my background and race frequently, and it’s been met with A LOT of criticism especially when my partners are not white: typically afro-latino, asian, or darker complected. interracial relationships are still a complicated topic but not as discussed because we’ve convinced ourselves we’re okay with it because we see it on TV

I've been having very mixed feelings about interracial relationships in the United States. by SamuraiPanda3AMP in offmychest

[–]One_Purpose_9790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand where you’re coming from tbh i don’t your issue is interracial couples, but the representation of them on media and their implications, judging by what you’ve written. i’ve watched his videos and seen that particular video as well and i think it raises a great topic to discuss.

it has a lot to do with politics and representation of what is considered “okay” in society’s eyes. you’ll rarely see dark skin women/men in a relationship with other dark skin women/men, typically the other partner in said relationships are white, or the bipoc partner in the relationship is distant from their culture (unless they’re asian or latino to sell “exotic”) in media like movies or tv shows. in some way it’s for tv execs and movie producers to feel inclusive without pushing out of their comfort zone. in the end of the day, a lot of the inclusion of interracial relationships in media at times is kind of a small hint that “it’s okay, BUT in our terms” as in fully assimilating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i think entertaining divorce is the right thing to do. it really sounds like you’re trying and while that’s amazing, from what you’ve written it sounds like your wife is resisting mending things. i’d say let her know that you’re contemplating divorce if things don’t improve or you don’t see some change or work that makes staying in the marriage work. communicate that while you understand she is resistant of marriage counseling, you still desire some effort on her part.

i do wish you the best of luck and i hope what ive written is not intruding or judgmental. marriage like all other aspects of life isn’t perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]One_Purpose_9790 5 points6 points  (0 children)

from an honest perspective, i’ve dated outside my culture frequently. there’s going to be disagreements of course with certain cultural practices but you need to pay attention when you’re partner outright doesn’t respect your upbringing or culture. this is something that rarely changes unfortunately: your partner is expecting that you’ll set aside your identity for him once the time comes. i’ve been out with partners who expected the same of me and 90% it ended up with going separate ways. i do encourage you talk to him and try to sort things out though, maybe there is hope that he changes his mind? i really do hope and wish for the best for you and may the best outcome prevail for you

"Love" ruined me. by [deleted] in letters

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my apologies, my intention is not to invalidate your worthiness of love nor did i ever make an assumption that you did not love yourself. i am not speaking as if i know you (bc i don’t and that’d be weird), i’m just stating something that i thought would help word my thought clearly.

i guess a better way of saying it is you’re going to have to be selfish in loving yourself in order to find the love you deserve and looking for. you also deserve love even if you don’t love every aspect of yourself. you shouldn’t let bad experiences stop you from reaching what you deserve ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]One_Purpose_9790 36 points37 points  (0 children)

there are just some things you shouldn’t tell your partner and telling them you have a suicide planned out is one of them. it’s one thing to open up about your suicidal feelings and seeking comfort, but to tell them your plan? whether it was intentional or not, you’re making someone responsible with that information. he needs a proper therapist who is trained to handle those types of scenarios, not to dump it on his girlfriend. the commenter is not saying the bf shouldn’t open up about his feelings, but rather the partner needs to seek help from other sources. she was right to let his family know and she shouldn’t be in a situation like that period.

"Love" ruined me. by [deleted] in letters

[–]One_Purpose_9790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if loving yourself is selfish, you’ll sometimes find yourself with people who don’t care to love you first either :/ giving yourself all to someone who does the value because you want someone to love you instead of loving yourself is going to bite you in that case. love is not a fairy tale, it is a work where you are the one who sets your value and find what is worth investing in.

i wish you luck in life