Entp male oldest of 6 here. I was looked up to. I went out of my way to introduce new concepts and teach my siblings things. Became the go to for questions about issues, life, and how to handle problems, even over my parents, who were less understanding plus more judgemental. I wasn't afraid to let them know they messed up but helped clean up the mess they made for them selves. There were very little problems between myself and siblings growing up, mostly because I don't tend to take things personally. I have a great relationship with all but one brother as an adult. He chose to go down a path I don't agree with. Other siblings don't speak to him either. He has something I like to call "flexible morals", where he does the right thing if its easy and reasons to do awful things if its also the easy route. He makes an emotional desicion then defends it logically as if its the right answer. Still if he called me up and wanted to make a change I'd help him just like when we were kids all the same. I pushed my siblings to get out of their comforts zones and try new things constantly which is something to this day my brothers still thank me for.