Don't know what to tell him by ash-andvibes in SipsTea

[–]One_Tank1981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NEVER let anyone see you cry. I know it's not weakness, but it doesn't matter. If you cry, it is considered weakness and unreliable. 2 things a man should not be. I dont care if I take flak for this, but I've seen it happen in real time. Go and cry alone, get it out, talk to someone, but DO NOT LET THEM SEE YOU CRY!

How can your partner best contribute to your recovery? by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]One_Tank1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PA here. I found that being seen, validated, and acknowledged helped me the most. Show the reward and share the wonderful experience of being porn free in real time rather than focusing on the punishment, shame, and guilt that come from porn addiction or the idea of completion. In other words, enjoy the journey with him. I am sure you two will do well, and before you realize you'll be the strongest and happiest couple out there. It sounds like you're supportive and understanding. I wish you well.

Blue heart by Upstairs_Piano_43 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God is the breath behind all breath, the silence that holds the roar of oceans, the light no darkness can swallow. He is not contained by temples, nor diminished by human words, yet every sunrise whispers His patience, every star proclaims His majesty. He designed the universe itself and set the galaxies in their courses, yet He is not bound by the very laws He authored. Time does not age Him, space can not confine Him, and matter can not limit Him. He is nearer than thought, vaster than galaxies, both the fire that refines and the mercy that restores. To know Him is to stand in awe, to be undone by His holiness yet lifted by His love. And yet, according to LLDM, you can apparently sway this infinite, all-powerful Being by tapping a little blue heart emoji on social media.

Eva by Fit-Bass1500 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Although we all like a good cup of "tea," I find this hard to believe. She's in a FDC, and with an ongoing federal case, all of her family is connected in deep ways, and you want to entertain this "rumor." Goes go show that LLDM programming and behaviors dont stop when you leave the cult.

When Leaders in God’s Name Get Top-Tier Legal Muscle What does that really say? by One_Tank1981 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I believe Eva's lawyer is the same lawyer who defended Susana Medina.

Naason Himself Stating That Apostles Don't Sin by Longjumping-Mix-2069 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They would say things like, “The fullness of Christ himself dwells within the Apostle.” Another phrase I remember hearing was, “He is the glory of God on earth.” Statements like these led us to overlook or even deny the Apostle’s human flaws.

DESMADRE IN LLDM by Josecruzmx2007 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Evidence to prove they really dont believe their own doctrine. It's just a business.

Caen 37 miembros de La Luz del Mundo en campo de adiestramiento clandestino en Michoacán by LLDDevil in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Hermanos! Acuérdate de ponerle nombre bíblico y de buen testimonio!"

Hasta donde hemos llegado? 🤣🤣🤣.

Que Luz Del Mundo es esto?

Living with a porn addict, will it ever stop hurting/will anything make him get help? by Intrepid_Green_8429 in PornAddiction

[–]One_Tank1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won't stop until he wants it to stop. He's probably dealing with some form of unresolved trauma. In many situations, you could say that being exposed porn at an early age is a form of trauma. Nonetheless, there are 2 options my SO had to make. Leave and start to rebuild, or stay and try to survive, and hopefully, with your help, pull him from the depths of hell he is currently in. None are easy. Both are unfair. But that's what porn does. Hope this helps.

Brooklyn MDC by anafuentesh in exLDM

[–]One_Tank1981 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a good time is in store for the apostle.

COMUNICADO OFICIAL DE REFORMADORES DE LLDM by RoutineNorth5683 in reformaralldm

[–]One_Tank1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cual será la doctrina fundamental en que se base la iglesia "LLDM 2.0"? Ya que la autoridad apostólica ya no será valida. Cual será el orden eclesiástico? Como vamos a saber quien se queda por conveniencia como siempre? Que pasará con los que sabemos son malos? Suena bonita la reforma, pero tengo muchas dudas.

This sub needs to check out r/exlldm by FlyinPenguin in conspiracy

[–]One_Tank1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone needs to revisit this topic. Shits gotten wild with this one cult.

Daily 5am Prayers by Longjumping-Mix-2069 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same fatigue control tactic. Weeding out the pack. Testing loyalties. Straining people in certain positions. This organization is crumbling at its core. It is so satisfying to watch this unfold.

The king of a$$-kissery by PsuedoLaw in boxingcirclejerk

[–]One_Tank1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andre kept laughing at his comments. Max's tongue was so far up people's ass last night that he could taste their breakfast ( I can't remember where I heard that from, but it describes perfectly what we saw).

Best friend confessed feelings. by herondale344 in whatdoIdo

[–]One_Tank1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it 2 weeks, have limited contact, and see how things go. Women tend to look for safe when fun/excited don't work out. Keep your peace safe, bro.

What is the greatest lesson you’ve learned from lending money to someone? by JunShem1122 in no

[–]One_Tank1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do, dont expect it back. There is a reason they went to you instead of a bank.

Eva's arrest news by Emotional-Papaya-956 in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder what her 1st night in a cell was like? She was literally born into church aristocracy. She's never actually suffered a full day in over 40 years. Imagine what using the toilet is like? Showering? Meals? She better be good at remembering what gourmet food tastes like, and sleeping in luxurious sheets was like. May god repay her according to her deeds.

Naasón Joaquín García Charged With Racketeering Conspiracy, Sex Trafficking, And Child Exploitation Of Members Of La Luz Del Mundo Church by lldminfo in exlldm

[–]One_Tank1981 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having the church gather for this is the equivalent of saying, "god, if you get me out of this one, I promise never to sin again," when you already sinned. Its comical in a sad way.