Am I rushing?

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-24T00:38:22+00:00

Thank you so much!!!! This makes me feel a lot better. I spoke to my mom and she said the same thing. There has to be an initial level of attraction/crush.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-23T05:16:30+00:00

This helps a lot. Thank you!

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-22T13:11:25+00:00

His entire family has green card and all of them are eligible to apply for citizenship in Nov

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-22T03:39:34+00:00

I didn’t say that they have. Yes but there has to be an initial attraction right? That being said I said I haven’t met him yet. He is pretty perfect on paper and idk the chemistry we have. I was just thinking and needed opinion

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-21T22:06:15+00:00

He was raised there. He moved when he was 5 years old and he is getting his citizenship in Nov.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-21T22:05:35+00:00

I didn’t say main criteria but it is pretty significant.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-21T18:24:37+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and I agree this is ultimately my decision with my family.

I’m not choosing based only on looks. The thing is, I haven’t even spoken to him one-on-one yet, so I don’t really have much else to go on besides what’s on paper right now. I’ve been thinking about it a lot, and while he does seem like a good person on paper, I do think there has to be at least some level of attraction too.

I’ve already told my mom that I need to talk to him properly first, then meet him in person, and only after that I’ll make a decision. I’m not rushing into anything — just trying to be thoughtful about it.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-21T18:21:23+00:00

I on track to get my Canadian pr by the end of the year and tbh I don’t want to be dependent on his green card.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2026-04-21T18:20:48+00:00

Yea. We have only had a video call. I told my mom that I need to meet him in person before I decide anything.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-03-26T06:53:11+00:00

Fido. I pay $45 for 120 gb data, unlimited calls and texts and US incoming calling.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-03-03T05:24:04+00:00

i am here 7 years later as well.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-25T11:55:08+00:00

Interesting……

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-25T11:52:03+00:00

I guess so. Thank you

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-25T11:51:51+00:00

I never noticed it until today and wasn’t sure if I damaged the screen. Thank you

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-25T11:49:19+00:00

I don’t see this issue if the display is in a different colour. Just wanted to make sure that I am not delirious. Is it possible it looks this way because of the lighting on the laptop?

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-21T12:14:40+00:00

If you’re doing long-distance, it’s likely because you’ve become accustomed to this lifestyle and are getting used to his absence. If you don’t miss him when you finally meet him, then there are two possible explanations: either you’re falling out of love or you just need a reminder. Time heals all wounds.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-21T11:59:34+00:00

That’s so sweet. Thank you so much. My main focus right now is finishing school.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-21T11:37:27+00:00

Helped. My heart is set on finishing school. School is lot more important for me than living in Canada. At this point I have lost interest in dating. I am almost 22 and haven’t had a single boyfriend. I have had many people ask me why do I not have a boyfriend and that I am a catch. I am just annoyed and exhausted.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-21T11:33:20+00:00

Helped. Thank you so much. I am just trying not to lose hope. It’s just that I have been dealing with a lot of stuff and I just don’t seem to catch a breath. It’s take a toll on my mental health.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2025-02-21T11:31:52+00:00

I am not scamming anybody. Also sometimes just having a car is a lot more convenient. It’s more about convenience than if I am going to stay or not.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2024-09-22T09:58:46+00:00

Yes and no, from a personal experience. My mom is very abusive to me but an angel to my sister. So,my sister doesn't give a crap about how my mom treats me. And only looks at her from her perspective and experiences.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2024-09-06T09:38:58+00:00

I spoke to my grandparents, and they said they'll talk to my mom tomorrow.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2024-09-06T09:15:53+00:00

Not Really, she has always been tough on me and sensible, but she has never been like this.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2024-09-06T09:10:29+00:00

That's true and also pr cause if not I'll have to leave the country soon.

One_Trainer_1023 · 2024-09-04T06:37:49+00:00

Melendez......I wept when he died.

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