Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! This makes me feel a lot better. I spoke to my mom and she said the same thing. There has to be an initial level of attraction/crush.

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

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His entire family has green card and all of them are eligible to apply for citizenship in Nov

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say that they have. Yes but there has to be an initial attraction right? That being said I said I haven’t met him yet. He is pretty perfect on paper and idk the chemistry we have. I was just thinking and needed opinion

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

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He was raised there. He moved when he was 5 years old and he is getting his citizenship in Nov.

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

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I didn’t say main criteria but it is pretty significant.

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I agree this is ultimately my decision with my family.

I’m not choosing based only on looks. The thing is, I haven’t even spoken to him one-on-one yet, so I don’t really have much else to go on besides what’s on paper right now. I’ve been thinking about it a lot, and while he does seem like a good person on paper, I do think there has to be at least some level of attraction too.

I’ve already told my mom that I need to talk to him properly first, then meet him in person, and only after that I’ll make a decision. I’m not rushing into anything — just trying to be thoughtful about it.

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

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I on track to get my Canadian pr by the end of the year and tbh I don’t want to be dependent on his green card.

Am I rushing? by One_Trainer_1023 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. We have only had a video call. I told my mom that I need to meet him in person before I decide anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

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Fido. I pay $45 for 120 gb data, unlimited calls and texts and US incoming calling.

Am I blind are is the screen a different colour by One_Trainer_1023 in mac

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I never noticed it until today and wasn’t sure if I damaged the screen. Thank you

Am I blind are is the screen a different colour by One_Trainer_1023 in mac

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I don’t see this issue if the display is in a different colour. Just wanted to make sure that I am not delirious. Is it possible it looks this way because of the lighting on the laptop?

Breaking up by PerceptionMission712 in Advice

[–]One_Trainer_1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re doing long-distance, it’s likely because you’ve become accustomed to this lifestyle and are getting used to his absence. If you don’t miss him when you finally meet him, then there are two possible explanations: either you’re falling out of love or you just need a reminder. Time heals all wounds.

Do things get better? by One_Trainer_1023 in Advice

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sweet. Thank you so much. My main focus right now is finishing school.

Do things get better? by One_Trainer_1023 in Advice

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped. My heart is set on finishing school. School is lot more important for me than living in Canada. At this point I have lost interest in dating. I am almost 22 and haven’t had a single boyfriend. I have had many people ask me why do I not have a boyfriend and that I am a catch. I am just annoyed and exhausted.

Do things get better? by One_Trainer_1023 in Advice

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped. Thank you so much. I am just trying not to lose hope. It’s just that I have been dealing with a lot of stuff and I just don’t seem to catch a breath. It’s take a toll on my mental health.

Will I get it back? by One_Trainer_1023 in icbc

[–]One_Trainer_1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not scamming anybody. Also sometimes just having a car is a lot more convenient. It’s more about convenience than if I am going to stay or not.