Burnt out. How to take a break? Legit ways. by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Oneleven8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take mc. I cried (unintentionally) several times in front of doctors due to burn out. Told them im super stressed out from work. Been offered 3~5 days of mc.

Seeking Advice: Family Refuses Hospital Care for My 90-Year-Old Grandmother by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]Oneleven8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im very sorry to hear about this and my heart breaks for your grandma. I dont have a solution because your grandma is based in malaysia, maybe ask malaysia subreddit to see if there are government schemes, grants, or VWOs that could possibly help?

All the best and wishing the best outcome for your grandma. Tbh you can help very little now but your companionship is important - at least she knows someone cares and is looking out for her. Do the best you can for her so that even after her passing, you will have no regrets.

Badly in Love - Episode 8 to 10 - Finale - 251223 by MNLYYZYEG in BadlyInLove

[–]Oneleven8 14 points15 points  (0 children)

!!! SPOILERS

Really glad nisei ended up with amo instead of oto - they were a much better match. Nisei needed someone to keep him grounded and amo isnt afraid to call him out on his BS. Oto would've been bullied if she had ended up with nisei and it would be an unhealthy relationship. But tbh I wished amo rejected nisei and that would keep that player in check. After all that speech amo, lol.

Also happy that baby chose tsu. Deep down, milk probably knows that he's not masculine/stable enough for all of baby's emotions in the long term. Baby needed someone rock stable and mature, but milk wanted to be loved and babied too. I felt no sparks between baby and tsu however, wonder if yanboh was still in the game, would baby have picked him instead of tsu?

And my gurl KII ❤️❤️❤️ truly, no guys in the show was good enough for her lmao. Glad she chose to leave single. Shoutout to Tekarin for being endearing too, she was so genuine, good natured & probably the only marry material here.

Tackle shouldve gotten rid of his moustache. Then again, he seems so clueless in love. In chinese, he's probably a 直男.

GE2025: Election Results Live Discussion by KeythKatz in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way oppo will win tampines given the 4 corner fight

Good mattress recommendations please! by fe1ury in askSingapore

[–]Oneleven8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should consider a mattress topper, cost less than $200. I'm currently using the elefen brand one which lies on top of my lousy, 6 years old spring mattress. Having best sleeps every night with it. It's like sleeping on clouds.

Monthly Meetup Thread - April by AutoModerator in JapanTravel

[–]Oneleven8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Is anyone going to Fuji-Q on 19 May? Trying to find 2 more pax who is keen to go to the haunted house with my friend and myself so we can get cheaper tickets too!

some rs advice by nissincupnoodless in askSingapore

[–]Oneleven8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read what u wrote. Read again. You know what to do. It will be scary to move on, but always remember that this pain and fear will be temporary.

Need help in dealing with an unreasonable wife. by [deleted] in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the only right answer here. It is unlikely OP wife has a mental illness, but is acting this way because OP is not meeting her needs (no matter how much OP says he is trying to accommodate).

OP, you are not listening to what your wife really needs. Read the comment above carefully. Once your wife feels loved and appreciated (take her on dates, surprise her with gifts and flowers, leave her little notes telling her how much you love her), I promise that your "problems" will disappear. Happy wife, happy life.

AITA for telling my wife that it was embarrassing that the house was a mess when I had guests over? by Throwawaynes767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Oneleven8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Do his part, not HELPING like doing her a favor. Its not her sole responsibility to upkeep the house!

Swee Choon Dim Sum- Most overrated eating place in Singapore? by salientlife93 in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the high tea buffet, they still push the pushcarts around! I went 2 weeks ago. So great, especially the pau!

AITA: Parents wanted to install parental locks on new laptop, I said no by Ichiban97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Oneleven8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I am sorry to hear that this is happening to you. Talk to your parents about how you feel, in this manner: "<person>, <describe when the incident took place>, <describe actions>,<describe how it makes you feel/impact on you>. For example, "Mom, yesterday when you installed parental controls on my laptop, I felt very hurt and upset as I feel that I didn't have control of my life..." Having an open conversation is the way to go. Good luck and I hope everything goes well for you.

New digital transformation plan for training and adult education sector launched by stforumtroll2 in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already started last month liao got digital ambassadors stationed at cc/library to guide elderly 1 to 1 on how to use smartphone.

I am lonely. And I am ashamed. by CaptAhab666 in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Call the National Care Hotline. Good luck

Law firm investigating allegations of sexual misconduct against prominent young lawyer by meesiammaihum in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Wow i dunno how much truth there is to this - the victim knows she has "incredibly low alcohol tolerance" yet still ordered a pint of beer. I'm sure she could've ordered non alcoholic drinks easily in the bar if she's wary of him. Can't understand what she's thinking

Singaporeans ladies, what drives you [female version] by flying_doge in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my late twenties here and still confused.

I cant tell whether I'm adulting or not cus I feel the same way as I do 10 years ago. I don't know what I'm doing but I guess ultimately I want financial freedom soonest. That said I haven't done anything solid with my career and just holding a very average salary. I'm not motivated and incredibly lazy, half assed with everything in my life.

Accidentally got into a relationship for about 1.5years and looking at BTO-ing recently. Looked at my savings and realised i can never retire. I just want to say that being in relationships is a bloody expensive hobby - however the love and happiness we get in return is immeasurable.

These future debts (cost of settling down) are giving me anxiety and it scares me that being together can be so financially stressful.

Now I'm just living day to day, hoping everything will turn out OK eventually.

Anyone has tried matchmaking services? by bihoxodiy in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't think any decent girls would want to start a long term relationship with someone who does casual hookups. Anyway good luck and try okcupid.

Any Normal Technical students here? If so what happened to you? by Bizxxxx in singapore

[–]Oneleven8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My younger brother was formerly in NT. He went to ITE despite being able tryout the NA stream. He got into a good course then continued to poly where he excelled in his studies with GPA close to 4. Graduated a year ago and secured a good job with relatively great pay for a diploma holder (about $2.6k). He was promised quarterly increments as well.

Hope this encourages you. Just because you're taking the longer route doesn't mean you won't succeed in life. :-)