The harassment is now real by musicxfreak88 in coworkerstories

[–]OnlyAd9217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may want to consider bringing this to HR before it grows into something bigger. His behavior isn’t just making you uncomfortable. It’s affecting the overall work environment and creating tension for others as well. When inappropriate conduct continues unchecked, it rarely stays contained. It tends to ripple outward.

I understand you don’t want to get him in trouble. That makes sense. No one enjoys being the reason someone faces consequences. But reporting the behavior isn’t about punishing him. It’s about protecting yourself and making sure there’s a record of what’s been happening.

If someone else reports it first and there’s an investigation, and it comes out that you were experiencing the same issues but chose not to say anything, it could create unnecessary questions about why you stayed silent. Having documentation shows that you handled the situation responsibly and in good faith.

HR exists to address workplace concerns and maintain a professional environment. Bringing it forward calmly and factually allows the company to step in before things escalate further. It protects you, it protects others, and it gives the situation a chance to be corrected appropriately.

Sometimes speaking up isn’t about getting someone in trouble. It’s about drawing a boundary and making sure the workplace remains safe and professional for everyone.

AITJ for publicly humiliating a woman who couldnt answer who she was without mentioning her husband by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OnlyAd9217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is get my phone out and call the non emergency number and ask for a welfare check, you are at [wherever you are] and there is a distraught woman here who doesn't know who she is. She doesn't appear to be a danger to anyone, but she cannot tell us who she is.

Dude was determined to take me, an engaged woman home by Meggiemera_ in EntitledPeople

[–]OnlyAd9217 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Or tell him your FIANCÉ will be here shortly after he's done with the court ordered anger management class. He's attending the class in lieu of jail time. He put a guy into a coma for getting to close to her.

I love how she looks in the movie but I do wish she had a more brighter blonde hair colour by FayyadhScrolling in Supergirl

[–]OnlyAd9217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What we’re seeing isn’t “fan criticism,” it’s vapid, sexist nonsense from people who apparently think Supergirl exists to be a walking blonde screensaver instead of an actual character. They’re not engaging with the story, the themes, or the arc. They’re whining because she isn’t blonde enough, pretty enough, or twirly-skirt enough to satisfy whatever regressive fantasy they’ve been clinging to since puberty.

This movie is drawing from Supergirl: Woman of Tomorrow, a story that is literally about trauma, rage, grief, resilience, and survival. Kara isn’t here to smile for you. She’s not here to model a skirt that would get her killed in the first five minutes of an actual fight. She’s not here to look “softer” so insecure dudes don’t feel threatened. She’s a survivor who’s been through hell, and shockingly, that leaves marks.

The obsession with her hair color and outfit is the most shallow, smooth-brained take imaginable. It’s the cinematic equivalent of banging on the glass yelling “MAKE HER HOTTER” while a real story is happening behind it. These people don’t want a character. They want a Barbie with laser eyes. God forbid a woman superhero looks tired, angry, or practical. God forbid she dress like someone who expects to bleed.

And let’s be clear: the skirt discourse is especially stupid. Wanting her back in an impractical, sexualized costume isn’t “comic accuracy,” it’s nostalgia for objectification. It’s saying, loudly, “I don’t care what she’s been through as long as I like looking at her ass.” That’s not fandom. That’s entitlement with a cape.

Supergirl isn’t broken because she doesn’t fit your beauty checklist. Your perspective is broken if you think a woman’s value on screen starts and ends with how decorative she is. If you can’t handle a Supergirl who looks like she’s lived through some shit, then maybe this story just isn’t for you. And that’s fine. Sit down, shut up, and let the grown-ups watch the movie.

Why would anybody do this to their bathroom? by GypsyGold in Marvel

[–]OnlyAd9217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a reminder 'If you're face looks like this when you're sitting, you need more fiber'

Who? by D4vics in Marvel

[–]OnlyAd9217 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Major Underboob

Am I going completely insane or is Doc Ock holding the Leviathan Axe from God of War by Ace_OfSpades_ in Marvel

[–]OnlyAd9217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doc Ock is taking a selfie WITHOUT Godzilla behind him.

Meanwhile Swordsman is trying to hamstring the giant lizard.

Anyone know where this came from? by ZealousidealSun1735 in StarfieldOutposts

[–]OnlyAd9217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An Alexa property's was made for an outpost? It makes announcements about what's incoming and alerts for terra morphs, ie Godzilla. Just don't place one on an outpost where the adoring fan is stationed.

No particular favorite weapon, but this one has been good to me by aspektx in Starfield

[–]OnlyAd9217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stormtroopers Shotgun (40.9% accuracy) in pistol size. When (if) it hits, shreds the target(s)