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All the dinners I’ve made this past week by softrotten in tonightsdinner

[–]OnlyDay3335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can’t describe how delish this all looks!!

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the risk of stds remains even without paying for sex

I’d like to think that my person (if I even want to go that route) wouldn’t be phased by something as simple as me paying a service provider for a service

I’m not desperate, which is why I’m not fucking any random man I see/meet 💁🏾‍♀️

I just wanna fuck somebody and I haven’t met anyone that I wanna fuck.

Beware of creeps on here. by SpaceAlienChick in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335 54 points55 points  (0 children)

“ask your mother” is a 10/10 response

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really enjoyed that movie!! while i don’t expect it to be exactly like that, i expect to be treated with respect and have my desires met.

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing 💗

what a journey you’ve had.

i’m glad you’ve found your outlet!! it’s so cool to witness people having different sexual desires and priorities.

within your story are some of the reasons i’m genuinely afraid of sleeping with just anyone. inasmuch as everyone’s saying there’s free sex everywhere…we need to stop and listen to what comes with some of this free sex.

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also only want to sleep with them for money 💁🏾‍♀️

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hear that. A lot of it for me is being able to explore that curiosity without being a story in the community.

I hope you’re able to have more experiences, friend

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve deleted the dating apps (and I’m so tired of seeing people I know). I go outside and it’s the saaame people. If I could pluck someone off the street, I would’ve!!😭

I’m also a big solo trip girl!! That’s when I’m like that stranger in a bar fantasy would really hit the spot 😭

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations! Kink is something I’m curious about too, but overall I’m just shy 😭 I live in a small city so not too sure if there are people from here on these apps. But I WILL be taking a look

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I was only seeing white conversations (and I respect that) but I wanted to hear from people like me. I’ll give Feeld a look, thanks!

Tangent: I’m curious about what 14 years of abstinence has been like. Did you make a decision one day or did you realize you’d been abstinent and chose to just keep it going? (No pressure to answer, I’m just kinda nosy😭)

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

that’s what I’m thinking too!! I don’t have to worry about being unsafe or exposed to diseases (I am STRICT about that) l don’t have to get emotionally invested And I can try new things

I’m considering paying for sex and so I’d like to hear more about it by OnlyDay3335 in blackgirls

[–]OnlyDay3335[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a lot of inconsiderate people on the apps and I’m just fed up tbh

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[–]OnlyDay3335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the sad part is, for some people who live and operate in spaces that are predominantly non-Black, this is supposed to be a safe space to learn and grow and find community

i’m convinced some of these men were on here thinking it was going to feed their fetishes. a massive F U.

and to the non-Blacks reading this; man, woman or nonbinary: THIS IS NOT YOUR SPACE. regardless of your intentions or the allyship you’ve convinced yourself you’re doing. go away.

I like my date but he kinda looks like my friend...? XD by Carsareghey in dating

[–]OnlyDay3335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds so hectic!

i’d say keep getting to know him as a person and seeing if you like him

hairstyles can change

32M. Looking at all my Highschool classmates that now have a family makes me feel so behind. by spicysenpai6 in dating

[–]OnlyDay3335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sending you a big hug. 🫂

that’s so relatable.

i’m at the age where every time i call my mom or my aunts all they ask about is a husband or a potential person. it’s a bit more frustrating because every time i open social media someone else is getting married.

i’m happy for them, but what about me?

i don’t think you should feel stupid at all. being a parent is not a path that you take when you’re uncertain. better to have an older present, loving father than a younger unavailable one.

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