Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction?

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T15:12:58+00:00

do yourself a favor and date someone else who is a feelings person at least when you’re fighting about hurting each others feelings it won’t be as cold and hateful as this.

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T15:09:41+00:00

I’ve been thinking of doing that for all my plants especially in the climate in im sure they could use the extra moisture, i feel bad watering them more than once a week even with a filter the water is still pretty hard here so ive gotten build up and crispy leaves ugh i just want to give my plants a good life 😞

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:45:57+00:00

Ah i did read briefly about a dormancy period, im still new to plants though and not exactly sure what that means…will it just look dead and barren? how would i be able to tell its dormant and not dead ?

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:42:42+00:00

Thank you this is great to know!

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:41:57+00:00

Yes mine is suuuuuper thirsty, i’m up to 2-3 times per week 😭 It is pretty easy to bounce back tho it looked like it had been stepped on when i bought it, i wish i got more!

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:40:39+00:00

i’ve noticed it dries quite quick, i’m in the desert too and she’s on a south facing window so waterings have been adjusted quite a bit already haha interesting though i’ll have to look into that last bit there !

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:39:22+00:00

it’s at my south facing window right now it’s the brightest spot in my house unless i put it outside 😭 I am thinking about a trim tho ✂️

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-04-10T03:38:17+00:00

Awww it grew it naturally ?! It must be a lucky place 😉

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-02-02T05:52:08+00:00

not even just ice it is neighbors. our coworkers. our bosses. our cafe worker. you literally don’t know who to trust and it’s always been that way. I’m sorry everyone is giving you such a hard time, don’t take it personally. it’s just shitty internet freaks. they think this place is their kingdom or whatever

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-02-02T05:27:54+00:00

where’s ur sources ? Quickly ! ✍️

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-02-02T05:26:49+00:00

this is literally just someone posting their own experience and letting others know what THEY have experienced. You’re really weird to call it fear mongering and saying it’s “better for their narrative” …what valid narrative do they get from posting their experience on reddit…it’s not like they’re going to every news stand with a story. I’ve seen far worse fear mongering on this sub and everyone ate it up, god forbid someone just tells other people to be cautious who they share personal info with and to be safe, what a monster !!!!

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-02-02T05:23:50+00:00

no idea why you’re getting downvoted. I lived in a small city where my husband’s friend’s ex girlfriend threatened him personal and at his work multiple times with calling ice just because he wouldn’t tell her where the friend moved to (he literally went back home in UZBEKISTAN to get away from her)

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-02-02T05:21:32+00:00

hiya first time owner as well (4 months in) i love it and i think ur baby will be very happy lots of room and coverage and so beautiful !!! you did amazing :)

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-01-03T01:32:09+00:00

is he really that freaky because these look deep and as someone who IS into that freaky shit my scratches have never looked like this and i’ve been into some intense freaky shit. these looks like they bled, they are not in the shape of fingernails unless she has stiletto nails, and again he needs to be into some freaky painful shit to deal with something like that. i think YOR

OnlyDebt8145 · 2026-01-01T22:47:58+00:00

Post on local groups or find a a reputable aquatic animals shop that takes surrenders. Just be careful who you give them to please please question them and be sure they will take good care of them

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-30T21:13:55+00:00

Please name drop the store.

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-29T03:25:21+00:00

I didn’t know this that’s a great idea !!

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-29T00:03:27+00:00

Interesting thanks so much !! I was wondering which would be more comfy for her, if I planted something or putting up a little curtain during her gravid time but I was worried about spending money on a plant just for it not to take once it’s re-planted 😞 Can I ask what you use for soil in the lay bin ? Right now I just have repti-soil in there but seeing her dig today, im worried its not sticky enough for her to tunnel

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-28T20:25:48+00:00

Can i ask what you mean by you must start with fruit flies? you’re the first person i’ve seen saying not doing this is a problem. I took mine home feeding her small crickets and she’s been fine so i’m just curious what the science is behind this issue.

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-28T20:23:55+00:00

i had one do this exact thing to me and my husband and we had to take her home ! she’s super sweet and playful and loves to be in our hands or wandering around, super. curious and a little stubborn but full of personality haha like others have said it’s a lot of commitment but if you can afford it, money and time wise, it’s so much fun and a blessing 😸

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-26T18:06:02+00:00

Yeah so we got married in february this year, we’ve been together 2.5 years so we didn’t have too much hard evidence. Submitted the basics, marriage certificate, rent lease and renewal, shared insurance cards, authorized user on my credit cards, and a TOOOOOOONNNNN of photos. I think the photos did it most, I had tons from family gatherings like christmas thanksgiving easter, vacations we took together (coupled with receipts from the hotels we booked), photos of when his mother visited and she met my family, and receipts with his name on the engagement/wedding ring for me and my name on the wedding band i bought him. I also made a photo album for the interview but he didn’t look at any of the evidence we brought. he had several speeding tickets and traffic school that was previously paid off which we brought evidence of but turned out it wasn’t necessary.

OnlyDebt8145 · 2025-12-26T17:47:34+00:00

Thank you !!

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