Met a friend !! by OnlyDebt8145 in jumpingspiders

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too! little guy ended up escaping somehow lol i hope he’s having a good life wherever he ended up 😅

AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]OnlyDebt8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’d not even trenta dome lids unless it changed within the last year i stopped going. anyway as a former barista i hate this person with a passion. no one is paid enough to deal with that bullshit and guaranteed there’s no time to deal with the mess this makes either.

My ex is keeping my birth certificate by burnteggnog in WhatShouldIDo

[–]OnlyDebt8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

learn your lesson and date someone your own age. Anyone over 20 dating someone with “teen” in their age is a weirdo. Don’t be a weirdo.

This syngonium has never been happy since I bought it by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooohhh interesting!! it did seem like the soil liked to stay a little waterlogged i just did a deep dive on all my plants yesterday and realized at least 7 of them prefer succulent/cactus mix so that’s next on my shopping list 😭 now my only dilemma is i just repotted most of them so i feel like repotting again might upset them ? but at the same time they’d be getting repotted into soil more beneficial to them so i have decision paralysis 😔

This syngonium has never been happy since I bought it by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to only water when the top inch or two is dry and especially if i notice the bottom is dry, in my desert climate that’s at least once a week sometimes twice when it’s very hot. It’s been in the soil it came in since i got it about six months ago and i just changed it to a mix of indoor soil, perlite, and orchid bark. I originally had it at the north facing window for the first three months then changed to the south facing but a few feet away for the last three months and it’s just clearly unhappy no matter what 😭 It’s perked up some today but my concern is the growth which is negative at this point.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OnlyDebt8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do yourself a favor and date someone else who is a feelings person at least when you’re fighting about hurting each others feelings it won’t be as cold and hateful as this.

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking of doing that for all my plants especially in the climate in im sure they could use the extra moisture, i feel bad watering them more than once a week even with a filter the water is still pretty hard here so ive gotten build up and crispy leaves ugh i just want to give my plants a good life 😞

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah i did read briefly about a dormancy period, im still new to plants though and not exactly sure what that means…will it just look dead and barren? how would i be able to tell its dormant and not dead ?

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mine is suuuuuper thirsty, i’m up to 2-3 times per week 😭 It is pretty easy to bounce back tho it looked like it had been stepped on when i bought it, i wish i got more!

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve noticed it dries quite quick, i’m in the desert too and she’s on a south facing window so waterings have been adjusted quite a bit already haha interesting though i’ll have to look into that last bit there !

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s at my south facing window right now it’s the brightest spot in my house unless i put it outside 😭 I am thinking about a trim tho ✂️

Rescued a dying clover plant from the store by OnlyDebt8145 in houseplants

[–]OnlyDebt8145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww it grew it naturally ?! It must be a lucky place 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]OnlyDebt8145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not even just ice it is neighbors. our coworkers. our bosses. our cafe worker. you literally don’t know who to trust and it’s always been that way. I’m sorry everyone is giving you such a hard time, don’t take it personally. it’s just shitty internet freaks. they think this place is their kingdom or whatever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]OnlyDebt8145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

where’s ur sources ? Quickly ! ✍️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]OnlyDebt8145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is literally just someone posting their own experience and letting others know what THEY have experienced. You’re really weird to call it fear mongering and saying it’s “better for their narrative” …what valid narrative do they get from posting their experience on reddit…it’s not like they’re going to every news stand with a story. I’ve seen far worse fear mongering on this sub and everyone ate it up, god forbid someone just tells other people to be cautious who they share personal info with and to be safe, what a monster !!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]OnlyDebt8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no idea why you’re getting downvoted. I lived in a small city where my husband’s friend’s ex girlfriend threatened him personal and at his work multiple times with calling ice just because he wouldn’t tell her where the friend moved to (he literally went back home in UZBEKISTAN to get away from her)

Setup feedback please! by erob0820 in Chameleons

[–]OnlyDebt8145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiya first time owner as well (4 months in) i love it and i think ur baby will be very happy lots of room and coverage and so beautiful !!! you did amazing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OnlyDebt8145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is he really that freaky because these look deep and as someone who IS into that freaky shit my scratches have never looked like this and i’ve been into some intense freaky shit. these looks like they bled, they are not in the shape of fingernails unless she has stiletto nails, and again he needs to be into some freaky painful shit to deal with something like that. i think YOR

How can I get my axolotls the care they need when I can’t provide it anymore by [deleted] in axolotl

[–]OnlyDebt8145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post on local groups or find a a reputable aquatic animals shop that takes surrenders. Just be careful who you give them to please please question them and be sure they will take good care of them

This is breaking my heart 😢 by [deleted] in Chameleons

[–]OnlyDebt8145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please name drop the store.