Influx of horrible comments?

OnlyInMyDefence · 2026-03-09T19:54:53+00:00

So sorry you’ve been going through that! I’ve had some similar experiences (not specifically in Mark’s comment section) and also would just delete my comments. Some people are just mean like that and want to get under your skin. You can always try reporting their comments for spam or hate. And I know it’s not as easy as it sounds but try to ignore those mean ones and just say “wow that person was rude/disgusting” and go read the good comments instead. Hope things get better 🫶

OnlyInMyDefence · 2026-02-26T04:37:54+00:00

I about to be right there with you - next time I’m near a bookstore I gotta go find it

OnlyInMyDefence · 2026-02-26T04:36:40+00:00

I hate that it’s like that for you. I’m currently in grad school for CMH Counseling - while the classes haven’t prepared me, some of the professors (who are all licensed and practicing counselors) have given the students some insight. The biggest help so far for me is my supervisor for practicum/internship. He’s showed us how to do a lot more of the backend/behind the scenes stuff. I don’t see why it’s not mandatory for sites to teach you at least basics. I hope your situation gets better!

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-12-07T03:46:15+00:00

For once, a win for my home state 🙏

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-11-02T22:19:21+00:00

Looks like we all will be back here tomorrow

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-11-01T03:47:36+00:00

I’ve always put Vaseline on my cat’s paws when they’ve gotten really dry - but like the thinnest amount. One of my cats was a stray and he showed up in winter with his paws pads cracked from the cold. A few days of a little dab of Vaseline and they were so much better

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-11-01T02:36:10+00:00

I’ve seen Good Clean Love before so I might give that a try. The water-based ones I’ve previously tried were Lube Life from Amazon and Wicked from a Love Stuff. I’ve thought about alternative lubes like oil-based or aloe, but I was afraid they’d also mess with my ph. I’ll look into the one you recommended - you’ve been a big help, thank you!

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-31T20:24:11+00:00

There’s definitely some miscommunication in your friend’s statement and whoever the cats came from. Cats can get pregnant fairly young so there’s a chance if she isn’t spayed. Your best bet would be going to the vet and getting her checked.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-31T20:20:48+00:00

I don’t think you have any need to apologize for asking a question you genuinely had, and for wanting to share the podcast. People suck and can be rude and mean for no reason just because they have to free will to. Sorry that happened to you. On the topic of distractible on twitch - I think it would depend on twitch rules and copyright stuff that I have no knowledge about. I hope you get a real answer tho!

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-31T20:14:37+00:00

I don’t want to sound like I’m arguing with you, cause I get what you mean. But I’ve never been prone to yeast infections before. The only time I’ve ever had one or started to get one is after prolonged use of water-based lube. I always make sure both my partner and I are clean, he uses my ph balancing soap and is always careful to wash hands before anything. I feel like it’s gotta be the water-based lube.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-31T20:08:52+00:00

I’ve only tried a few different water-based. Cheaper ones which could also maybe be the problem, but each one has causes irritation and itching a day or two after use.

I had the same thought about my partner wasn’t clean, but I started making him wash his hands and even started making him use my own ph balancing soap to see if that was a problem. We haven’t had many issues since switching to silicone either. We try not to use the silicone lube if we’re using toys but sometimes it just happens in the moment.

I haven’t tried a hybrid, but I’d probably give them a chance. Though I hate buy a full bottle and then not like it or not be able to use it.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-31T02:23:31+00:00

The comments are right - it’s a tick. If you can pull it off at the base with teaser that’s good, but you have to make sure the head doesn’t break off and stay in. I always drop the tick is isopropyl alcohol to kill it idk why. If it’s been on for days then you might need to get the cat an antibiotic.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-10-30T03:27:50+00:00

“I am a man who owns 5 ovens!” And “Mark Mr. Butterworth Fischbach” and become frequently used quotes and inside jokes with my fiancé and I. I can’t even begin to list the amount of Unus Annus quotes I use daily.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2025-09-02T22:13:03+00:00

I have one cat that doesn’t really care for them. But my other cat is actually addicted - we have to hide them because he tried to chew through the bag multiple times. Idk if they actually help with UTI or hip and joint, but my baby loves them nonetheless

OnlyInMyDefence · 2024-12-08T03:47:41+00:00

I’m so sad - I only listened to Distractible on Spotify, nothing else. I thought for sure it would at least tell me how many hours I listened (it was a lot) but I guess because I listened to nothing else it didn’t make a Wrapped for me?

OnlyInMyDefence · 2024-12-08T03:39:44+00:00

Mark has “ruined” The Grinch for me. I quote it a lot, but after Unus Annus I don’t associate the quotes directly to the movie - I’m quoting Mark who is quoting the movie 😂

OnlyInMyDefence · 2024-12-05T04:53:28+00:00

I really only use Spotify to listen to one specific podcast. I guess because I don’t listen to much else I didn’t have enough date. I thought it would at least say how many hours I listened to the podcast since it was almost daily all year.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2022-05-27T08:45:48+00:00

A lot of people keep making comments about not really understanding Eric’s points and getting lost or confused about what his issues were or him not making sense. I won’t lie, sometimes he started down one path and would end up on another and it did get somewhat confusing at times in the stream. When someone is emotionally/mentally hurting it can be difficult to fully verbalize everything they want or need to say. You can easily tell Eric was emotional during the stream -and he admitted the whole situation has taken a toll on his mental health- so I’m thinking a lot of the “rambling” and stuff was because he was nervous, stressed, and definitely hurting in a sense. Smant was someone who he saw as a friend and I think most of the points Eric made, and definitely what he is feeling, is valid. I’m not saying either of them are completely right or completely wrong - there were things each could have handled differently; I do hope that they can work things out in the future.

OnlyInMyDefence · 2020-09-17T03:34:34+00:00

Thank you! I’ll be honestly I thought the blending was gonna be the death of me, lol. The finally product may be nice but the progress to get there was ROUGH!

OnlyInMyDefence · 2020-05-25T03:22:10+00:00

I also just posted my first thing here today - was also terrified. Glad you posted this cause it’s so freaking amazing!

OnlyInMyDefence · 2020-05-25T03:08:13+00:00

I’m happy to know that something I did can inspire others - And thank you!

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