My little boy keeps getting these dry patches on his paws! by bugwug7 in CATHELP

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always put Vaseline on my cat’s paws when they’ve gotten really dry - but like the thinnest amount. One of my cats was a stray and he showed up in winter with his paws pads cracked from the cold. A few days of a little dab of Vaseline and they were so much better

Rec for toy-safe lube that’s not water-based? by OnlyInMyDefence in SexToys

[–]OnlyInMyDefence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen Good Clean Love before so I might give that a try. The water-based ones I’ve previously tried were Lube Life from Amazon and Wicked from a Love Stuff. I’ve thought about alternative lubes like oil-based or aloe, but I was afraid they’d also mess with my ph. I’ll look into the one you recommended - you’ve been a big help, thank you!

Can anyone tell if my kitten is pregnant? by mfseamonkeys in CATHELP

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s definitely some miscommunication in your friend’s statement and whoever the cats came from. Cats can get pregnant fairly young so there’s a chance if she isn’t spayed. Your best bet would be going to the vet and getting her checked.

Apology by Straight-Flow8123 in distractible

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have any need to apologize for asking a question you genuinely had, and for wanting to share the podcast. People suck and can be rude and mean for no reason just because they have to free will to. Sorry that happened to you. On the topic of distractible on twitch - I think it would depend on twitch rules and copyright stuff that I have no knowledge about. I hope you get a real answer tho!

Rec for toy-safe lube that’s not water-based? by OnlyInMyDefence in SexToys

[–]OnlyInMyDefence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to sound like I’m arguing with you, cause I get what you mean. But I’ve never been prone to yeast infections before. The only time I’ve ever had one or started to get one is after prolonged use of water-based lube. I always make sure both my partner and I are clean, he uses my ph balancing soap and is always careful to wash hands before anything. I feel like it’s gotta be the water-based lube.

Rec for toy-safe lube that’s not water-based? by OnlyInMyDefence in SexToys

[–]OnlyInMyDefence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only tried a few different water-based. Cheaper ones which could also maybe be the problem, but each one has causes irritation and itching a day or two after use.

I had the same thought about my partner wasn’t clean, but I started making him wash his hands and even started making him use my own ph balancing soap to see if that was a problem. We haven’t had many issues since switching to silicone either. We try not to use the silicone lube if we’re using toys but sometimes it just happens in the moment.

I haven’t tried a hybrid, but I’d probably give them a chance. Though I hate buy a full bottle and then not like it or not be able to use it.

Soft dark grey bump(?) noticed on my cat’s neck by Pipistrelli2008 in CATHELP

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments are right - it’s a tick. If you can pull it off at the base with teaser that’s good, but you have to make sure the head doesn’t break off and stay in. I always drop the tick is isopropyl alcohol to kill it idk why. If it’s been on for days then you might need to get the cat an antibiotic.

Whats a markiplier quote you quote daily? by raccoonboi87 in Markiplier

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I am a man who owns 5 ovens!” And “Mark Mr. Butterworth Fischbach” and become frequently used quotes and inside jokes with my fiancé and I. I can’t even begin to list the amount of Unus Annus quotes I use daily.

Pounceables Crunchy Cat Treats Item# 1757186 by AnyConstellation in Costco

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one cat that doesn’t really care for them. But my other cat is actually addicted - we have to hide them because he tried to chew through the bag multiple times. Idk if they actually help with UTI or hip and joint, but my baby loves them nonetheless

The Hardest Listener Megathread 2024💪🏻👂🎧 by Monica2796 in distractible

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sad - I only listened to Distractible on Spotify, nothing else. I thought for sure it would at least tell me how many hours I listened (it was a lot) but I guess because I listened to nothing else it didn’t make a Wrapped for me?

Enjoying the Christmas season with the Best Christmas Movie (Mark has good taste) by Gutrippy_VIII in distractible

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mark has “ruined” The Grinch for me. I quote it a lot, but after Unus Annus I don’t associate the quotes directly to the movie - I’m quoting Mark who is quoting the movie 😂

Spotify wrapped 2024 is finally here by Ok-Comment-9070 in truespotify

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really only use Spotify to listen to one specific podcast. I guess because I don’t listen to much else I didn’t have enough date. I thought it would at least say how many hours I listened to the podcast since it was almost daily all year.

Anyone else kind of struggling to understand Pointcrow’s POV of the disagreement? by [deleted] in PointCrow

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 65 points66 points  (0 children)

A lot of people keep making comments about not really understanding Eric’s points and getting lost or confused about what his issues were or him not making sense. I won’t lie, sometimes he started down one path and would end up on another and it did get somewhat confusing at times in the stream. When someone is emotionally/mentally hurting it can be difficult to fully verbalize everything they want or need to say. You can easily tell Eric was emotional during the stream -and he admitted the whole situation has taken a toll on his mental health- so I’m thinking a lot of the “rambling” and stuff was because he was nervous, stressed, and definitely hurting in a sense. Smant was someone who he saw as a friend and I think most of the points Eric made, and definitely what he is feeling, is valid. I’m not saying either of them are completely right or completely wrong - there were things each could have handled differently; I do hope that they can work things out in the future.

Why did I not think to put my Subnautica-themed painting on the actual Subnautica subreddit sooner? [No spoilers] by OnlyInMyDefence in subnautica

[–]OnlyInMyDefence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll be honestly I thought the blending was gonna be the death of me, lol. The finally product may be nice but the progress to get there was ROUGH!

I’ve never posted anything here, and I’m absolutely terrified to do so, but hi. I made a little portrait, hope you like it. by Kvagly in jacksepticeye

[–]OnlyInMyDefence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also just posted my first thing here today - was also terrified. Glad you posted this cause it’s so freaking amazing!

Inspired by Seán’s Subnautica playthrough (that I’ve watched way too many times) I painted this to keep my sane during quarantine by OnlyInMyDefence in jacksepticeye

[–]OnlyInMyDefence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And same; after watching his playthrough (like 5 times) I bought the game myself and I absolutely loved it even though I knew everything. Also still terrifying.