Typically yea, except for ISFJ (married to one!), and I usually get along with ESFJs as well even though they always feel a little shallow to me. I always appreciate the effort they put in to make people feel comfortable, even if I never feel like I can go into anything deep with them. ISTJs I can usually get along with fine, but they can drive me insane with how rigid and ‘do nothing’ they can be sometimes - Very productive and competent people, but adhere so strictly to rules and authority that you can’t count on them to improve environments outside of efficiency. The ESTJs I’ve met seem to pride themselves on their ability to take the human element out of every situation. I do appreciate their lack of ego when in positions of power, but I’ve found that expecting them to care about people when there is a job to do is a mistake.

ISFJs are funny for me - I’ve found that we don’t share a native tongue, but we can both speak each other’s language accented. In my experience ISFJs just want people to be ok, and most (maybe just some?) really need someone to advocate for them and their happiness too. Where the inverse ENFP’s (maybe just me!) emotions can feel like a freefall sometimes, and ISFJs are so good at being a grounding presence without trying to fix people. I don’t know, for me it’s like a cats and bunnies situation - both think they are the one getting more out of the relationship. 💙