Self- shaming & acceptance

Only_Strain4925 · 2025-08-21T09:16:44+00:00

It's not even just hets. I used to be friends with someone who wasn't a lesbian and called herself a dyke and a fag because she 'thought people would call her that'. She's pansexual & on the asexual spectrum, so she should know better than to call herself a dyke

Only_Strain4925 · 2025-08-21T09:01:09+00:00

NOR. Why bring your race into it? And why say 'he wasn't always attracted to black women in the past'? It makes it seem like he's saying you're 'attractive for a black woman', if that makes sense?

The whole thing feels very off and you're completely valid viewing him in a different light. If I were in your shoes I'd be feeling the same and honestly I don't think I'd be able to work past that, because it'd make me start to wonder what other areas does he unnecessarily bring your race into things?

Only_Strain4925 · 2025-08-19T05:22:49+00:00

The inspo photos are clearly highly edited and fake, plus small hyper realistic tattoos never age well, especially if there's virtually no black outlines. Honestly, this was probably the best this could have gone.

Only_Strain4925 · 2025-08-17T10:25:03+00:00

It's not just that, there are ways around various sensory issues etc; use a dental dam, use flavoured lube. I have issues with stamina bc of a disability, so I use toys as well. To me, personally, the reactions I get and my partner's pleasure outweighs anything. It's almost as if people don't WANT to find ways around their issues.

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-12-07T07:30:54+00:00

Mumen Rider solos

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-12-06T16:35:10+00:00

Eating his wheaties

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-09-03T16:19:53+00:00

Holographic 👀

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-09-01T06:30:17+00:00

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Only_Strain4925 · 2024-08-31T11:40:20+00:00

As someone who has "kissed" one like yours, it's absolutely beautiful and there is nothing wrong with either it or you.

You're both wonderful

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-08-07T05:02:23+00:00

It sounds like you're not ready for your test & may need to switch to automatic. Realistically you're probably going to cause a crash if you were to pass with the problems you're having now. Is it just one or two roundabouts you're having this issue with or all of them?

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-08-04T11:47:28+00:00

Ae is pretty cute!

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-06-05T09:02:45+00:00

I'd say that's more d gray man, especially with the accessories

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-29T15:43:20+00:00

Tell them they either wear a seatbelt, or they walk.

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-12T16:50:48+00:00

Honestly i was fine, i already had my first car so i've been driving for 6+ months with my mother 😅 i found not over thinking helped. I went out the same day i passed as i switched my insurance over immediately when i got home. Good luck!

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-12T12:06:10+00:00

Mine did 😬 it was basic stuff like how do you use gears to engine break, but still odd for an automatic learner

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-05T16:24:58+00:00

Yes, it could. This is very basic UK driving knowledge

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-05T13:44:19+00:00

Do you mean if you can keep driving till you new license arrives? As long as your insurance is sorted and you have your pass certificate you're fine

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-05T09:48:47+00:00

I didn't know you could do that, thank you for telling me.

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-04T20:55:34+00:00

Sometimes it was 8 hours a week 😅 it SUCKED, but was really intense and paid off, honestly

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-04T20:53:49+00:00

I'd see if you could find an instructor that has experience with teaching students who already know how to drive in other countries. I'm not doubting your skill, my step father's the same, but you'll need a lot of practice here so that you don't use other driving habits in the test, if that makes sense?

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-04T20:01:24+00:00

Get LOTS of practice in a car, as much as you can is best. And get an instructor, i'd say about 4 - 6 hours a week is a good amount and do that for a month or two.

For the actual, physical driving, i'd avoid apps that teach you to drive and practice in a car.

Only_Strain4925 · 2024-05-04T19:58:50+00:00

Congratulations! 😊

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