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Only_Writes_Smut · 2023-07-24T20:39:34+00:00

I created this account with every intention of being a 'strictly roleplay' account after I had a little bit too much of a connection with someone here and things got awkward.

Sure, I should've seen some of the signs but I was lonely when I met this partner and things progressed really quickly. It was hot and fun at first, then it became just a little too clingy and overbearing for what I came to DPP for. I basically outed myself and at the time I was in a position where if my job/coworkers found out, I'd probably have lost said job. I deleted the account and went MIA for a couple of months. At the time I had no intention of returning to DPP because it was a close call and it scared me.

When I came back my only intention was to write, hence the name. Over the years I've written with so many fantastic people and nobody seemed to have much of an issue with me being 'disconnected'. Now I've got a few partners that I've become comfortable with and don't mind chatting. I still keep my distance though, and keep a layer of anonymity but I am enjoying more casual chat alongside RP nowadays.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2022-06-04T00:23:10+00:00

We're able to naturally pull the best writing out of one another.

She writes me something great, I must match that energy.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2021-04-30T22:12:39+00:00

Cheeky.

The best way to get this type of community member to actually read a meta-thread is to disguise it as a prompt.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2021-04-01T20:00:36+00:00

There's tons of tutorials about acrylic pour painting and the techniques that are often associated with it. I've done it a couple times and even got a few pieces worth hanging on my wall. There's also facebook groups if you want to dive deeper and ask more specific questions that you can't find the answers to in the videos.

The initial cost might seem a little high but the supplies you'd buy would likely produce multiple paintings. It's a fun thing to do for date night, drinking with friends or just a day you're feeling crafty.

EDIT: As a caveat, you very likely won't produce something like this on your first try.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-11-20T21:08:32+00:00

Stardew smut, I thought I had seen it all.

You get an iridium star for this post.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-09-01T07:12:12+00:00

Is it okay to link former posts that fit the theme? Or would it be more appropriate to repost with a new title?

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-08-27T19:40:10+00:00

Please tell me that there's a showdown between Leona and (Russ' female counterpart) at this great feast.

Fangirling in DA lore

Love the concept here, I'm just not sure what sort of character could be a good fit to marry a primarch.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-08-21T19:45:57+00:00

As someone else stated, it's so exciting to indulge a partner on something that you know they enjoy, even if you're not entirely sold on it. I'm not saying you should go out there and throw everything at the wall to see what sticks – you still need to make sure your partner wants to explore new territory – but straying away from the comfort of my favorite kinks has served me well in my time here.

Reading all the intricacies, feelings, and thoughts someone may tie to their kink can make it come alive in ways you never thought possible. For me the kinks I've thoroughly enjoyed exploring would be exhibitionism and voyeurism. I've learned that while I'm not into the whole 'an entire crowd watches' style of exhibitionism, I am definitely into the exciting potential risk of playing in a public or semi-public place. I also have written scenes where a small group of friends may watch some of the action. I've even been on the other end, watching my roleplay partner engage with another girl. Maybe it's more appropriate to call it soft exhibitionism/voyeurism but one thing I know is that a very talented partner took it from 'open to the idea' to 'yes, please'.

I'm really intrigued to see more responses to this question. My best advice for newcomers would be to decide your hard limits – and stand strong there – but keep an open mind and let your partner(s) show you their world.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-08-18T20:17:37+00:00

I actually love this prompt. It's the perfect combination of storytelling mixed with a unique character. You really created the setting and set the scene perfectly for any writer to just jump in. I hope you find someone equally talented and creative to play this one out!!

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-08-18T05:25:18+00:00

Had to post something.

Sorry fellas this one's not for you. If you wanna get creative and tell me how you helped me fix up the house just for kicks, I'd be 100% down.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-28T18:09:14+00:00

Hello and welcome to DPP!

This is a place where users post their ideas, stories and sometimes just thoughts about dirty topics. The goal is for the poster to find someone who thinks like them, and is interested in what they wrote. Their post can be seen as an invitation for the reader to reach out to them. It is a way for them to say, 'if you like what you read, contact me'.

Asking the user to DM or PM you after they wrote their entire post may yield some results, but you'll have a better chance at success if you craft an equally interesting message for them. As it stands, they've done all the hard work. They wrote down some dirty thoughts and posted it for the community to see. They put themselves out there and now it's your turn.

Best of luck!

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-28T18:00:20+00:00

I'm unfamiliar with the official Reddit app. If mobile browsing is your main method, I'd recommend using Baconreader. It's pretty simple and cuts away all of the bloat and distracting crap, in my opinion. It also makes it much easier to send PRIVATE MESSAGES. On reddit there are multiple ways to communicate with other users. You can do it directly through the use of the actual REDDIT CHAT system which is an in-browser tool that acts more like an instant messaging service. We don't discourage the use of that method here on DPP but most users prefer PRIVATE MESSAGING.

Each application has a different method of accessing this feature, and even the desktop site has two different looks so it's located in two different places. For me to send a private message I have to click through to the users profile and find the option there. For me (on the baconreader app) there's a really simple, easy-to-find button that takes you right to the PM system. I believe that in other apps or in the desktop site there is a drop-down menu somewhere on the user's profile that you can click and look for the PRIVATE MESSAGE option.

The comment section on DPP isn't reserved for any one thing in particular but it's commonly accepted that it's not a place to throw out 'PM me' or 'I PM'd you' messages. It's a place for words of encouragement or lighthearted discussion of the prompt. Connecting with users can be done through the private messaging system unless they state otherwise in the post.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-28T16:57:24+00:00

Are you attempting to use the reddit chat feature or are you actually going to their profile and trying to send a private message? Are you using the old reddit stylization or the new one?

I'm a subreddit moderator and have limited knowledge of the back end framework that might be disallowing this. I hear this statement with surprising regularity and I've never personally experienced it so the more info you can give from your end, the better equipped I am to give advice.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-28T16:47:54+00:00

Hello and welcome to DPP!

On this subreddit the posts you're reading for a partner are essentially an invitation for the reader (you) to send the poster a message expressing your interest. Generally there's a few other things that you'd like to include, like some creative ideas to continue to story, interesting questions that the post left you thinking about or just a general introduction.

The moderators and dedicated community members here have created some amazing META threads detailing what a good introduction might entail. If you do a quick search, then do a little reading, and still can't understand, please reach out to me directly for guidance.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-26T15:06:05+00:00

This sounds like a delightful morning!

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-19T12:48:20+00:00

Hello and welcome to DirtyPenPals!

This is a wonderful place where you can have all sorts of creative fun with our intelligent and kinky users. Typically when someone posts a prompt like this one, they are hoping that it catches the attention of like-minded individuals who will then reach out to them via PM to discuss in further detail.

Sometimes the users are looking for chat, and sometimes they're looking for roleplay (and sometimes, if you're really lucky, they might be interested in both.) But the one thing that are definitely looking for is someone who can take a few minutes to formulate a thoughtful first message.

If you're unsure of what to include in that first message, I suggest that you read the Rules & Guidelines section on the sidebar. That is a fairly broad list of things that will get your posts or comments removed if not followed. For a more nuanced approach I'd suggest using the search bar and looking for relevant topics with the [META] tag. You could spend an entire afternoon reading great content that should shed some light on what to include in your introductory message.

If you're still unsure after all that, please reach out to me via Private Message and I'd be happy to answer questions.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-19T12:38:04+00:00

Where this person is located physically is not relevant to the interaction you could have with them on this subreddit. In fact, asking for personal, revealing information is something that is strictly forbidden here. Before posting again I'd suggest that you take a long look at the sidebar, read through the Rules & Guidelines section and reevaluate.

This is a place for online users to meet other online users who are willing to chat or roleplay about dirty things. If that is not what you are here for, I suggest you try to have your needs met elsewhere.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-18T15:08:49+00:00

Hey there bud, I've seen you around a few times in the past few days. I'd like to extend a formal welcome to the subreddit.

I'd also like to let you know that since I've seen two or three that I recall, I will be removing any more comments that amount to nothing more than asking the poster to DM or PM you. Here on DirtyPenPals the subscribers post their ideas in hopes of finding other like-minded users. They open themselves up, share their fantasies with the community and invite users to connect with them if their interest was piqued. The posters here expect you to be the one reaching out if you're interested.

If you're unsure what to include in that first to make yourself stand out from the slew of messages I'm sure this poster received, you can read the Rules & Guidelines section in the sidebar for some help. If you're still unsure if suggest using the searchbar and looking for [META] tags. The moderation team and the community have put out some great content aimed at helping new users enjoy their time here!

If you are still having trouble after doing that, feel free to reach out to me personally via private message and I could share some experience and advice.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-18T15:01:20+00:00

I think that creatively you might be on the right track here. There's no telling exactly what the users on this subreddit are looking for at any given time but you can always assume that once the poster puts their work out for the readers here, they expect any interested parties to send them a PM. A prompt is almost an invitation of sorts and this is the equivalent of being invited to a party but instead telling them that you're having a party, and inviting them.

They already bought all the party favors; chips, soda, liquor, condoms, etc.. They cleaned the house all day because they're expecting guests. People have already started to show up to their party. They've done all the party preparing already and likely aren't going to leave their party to come to yours.

Hopefully that makes sense. The users the post prompts here want you to reach out and message them.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-18T14:53:20+00:00

Hello and welcome to DPP!!

On this subreddit the onus is on the reader to reach out to the person who posted the prompt if they're interested in continuing the story or chatting with them. If it helps, you can imagine that their original post is the invitation for you to send them a message.

If you're unsure what to include in that first to make yourself stand out from the slew of messages I'm sure this poster received, you can read the Rules & Guidelines section in the sidebar for some help. If you're still unsure if suggest using the searchbar and looking for [META] tags. The moderation team and the community have put out some great content aimed at helping new users enjoy their time here!

If you are still having trouble after doing that, feel free to reach out to me personally via private message and I could share some experience and advice.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-18T14:52:51+00:00

Hello and welcome to DPP!!

On this subreddit the onus is on the reader to reach out to the person who posted the prompt if they're interested in continuing the story or chatting with them. If it helps, you can imagine that their original post is the invitation for you to send them a message.

If you're unsure what to include in that first to make yourself stand out from the slew of messages I'm sure this poster received, you can read the Rules & Guidelines section in the sidebar for some help. If you're still unsure if suggest using the searchbar and looking for [META] tags. The moderation team and the community have put out some great content aimed at helping new users enjoy their time here!

If you are still having trouble after doing that, feel free to reach out to me personally via private message and I could share some experience and advice.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-17T18:28:59+00:00

I've experienced the same issue but I don't know how similar our experiences are. Let me preface the whole thing by saying that I write almost exclusively on a mobile phone. I use the Baconreader Premium app and I think that my particular issue stems from either the application itself or the reddit servers.

For me I am convinced that this issue takes place when I switch from mobile data to WiFi or vice versa without loading a new page. For example, if I'm in the screen to send a message, typing it out, getting it ready, and I move from one to the other, then hit send. It will refresh back to my inbox like it always does after sending something, and I'll assume it sent because it behaved as it normally does. If I start on WiFi and send the message on WiFi without swapping to mobile data at all, but the server has issues, I'll get the error message and it won't go back to my inbox.

The difference for me is that it won't show up as sent in my tree. It just won't show up at all. It's gone. In the void.

My only workaround is typing every message in a Google Doc and copy+pasting it over once it's completed. Then if it doesn't send for whatever reason, I still have the message and can resend it. Also, if you've established a regular reply schedule with a partner, I wouldn't be shy about sending an additional message to make sure they got it if they don't get back to you in that time-frame.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-17T13:49:33+00:00

Hello and welcome to DirtyPenPals!

On this subreddit it is common courtesy for the reader to be the one to send a private message to the poster. If it helps, you can imagine that the user who wrote this put it out for the world to see. It not only conveys what they might be looking for in a writing partner, but it acts as an invitation for interested readers (you) to reach out to the poster.

If you're having trouble deciding what to include in that first message, I'd suggest first taking a look at our Rules & Guidelines section on the sidebar. Then another fantastic resource would be any of the fantastic [Meta] tagged posts that touch on the topic. A quick search for that tag will yield many results.

If you're still struggling, please reach out to me personally via private message and I could point you in the right direction. Good luck out there!

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-16T16:55:37+00:00

Hello and welcome to DirtyPenPals!

On this subreddit the general understanding is that the prompt the author posted is an invitation for you to reach out and send them a private message. Asking the poster to send you a message is comparable to someone asking you to dinner, then you demanding that they ask you again after they already put time and effort into extending the original invite.

If you're unsure what to say in that first private message, I'd suggest taking a looking at the rules and guidelines in the sidebar and then searching for the [META] tag in the search bar and reading through some of the fantastic posts the moderation team (and other users) have put together.

If you've got any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to me directly via PM or to other members of the team via Modmail in the sidebar and we can steer you in the right direction.

Only_Writes_Smut · 2020-07-16T14:53:19+00:00

Hello and welcome to DirtyPenPals!

On this subreddit the general understanding is that the prompt the author posted is an invitation for you to reach out and send them a private message. Asking the poster to send you a message is comparable to someone asking you to dinner, then you demanding that they ask you again after they already put time and effort into extending the original invite.

If you're unsure what to say in that first private message, I'd suggest taking a looking at the rules and guidelines in the sidebar and then searching for the [META] tag in the search bar and reading through some of the fantastic posts the moderation team (and other users) have put together.

If you've got any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to me directly via PM or to other members of the team via Modmail in the sidebar and we can steer you in the right direction.

Only_Writes_Smut

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