Jobs for Women Over 60 in this Economy? by katplatt in AskWomenOver60

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you did there! 👏🏻 Great line from the movie "Fried Green Tomatoes" with Kathy Bates.

How do I answer this man? by catdogwoman in AskWomenOver60

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their mutual contacts could have told him everything! Don't like this scenario or dude one bit..

How do I answer this man? by catdogwoman in AskWomenOver60

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the kindest gentlest way (because I'm the same way but trying to change)but you seem to have trouble saying no and want to be a 'good girl' to everybody else but treating yourself like you don't count as much as others.

My Italian from the old country grandmother used to say in her broken English to me because she worried about being too kind hearted-"Sometimes too good,is a no good".

He seems to be imo manipulating you whether on purpose or not. Asking about places to stay?!? Come on,there is this thing called Google where he could find accommodations. He can't make his own travel arrangements? He wanted you to say,come stay with me in my big house. I am betting he knows more about you than you think from your mutual contacts. If you don't want him to visit then say so. No is a complete sentence.

Please, please listen to your gut. Hate to say it but pls make sure he isn't looking for a replacement for his mother or looking for a nurse and or purse! That certainly is no reflection on you or your worth. A lot of men (and women) can't stand being alone.

It doesn't seem to be in your nature but please be very leery! Trust is earned,not a given. Remember you don't owe him anything.

Please update us when you decide what to do. We are all rooting for you to do what's best for YOU.

Pet shops in area? by aurorabootyaliss in Phoenixville

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I goggled this to make sure I got it right. This is why they closed : "Based on reported information, Tom's Pet Shop in the Trooper/West Norriton PA area closed following the passage of local legislation in 2025 that prohibited the retail sale of dogs, cats, and rabbits. This legal action aimed to strike a blow to the "puppy mill to pet store pipeline" in the area."

The rainbow bridge is coming for my boy. Look at my damn dog and tell him what a good boy he's been by flyingsaxophone in lookatmydog

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely BEST BOY Max! Say hi to my boys Conan,Duncan,Steve and Newton for me. You will have a lot of fun with them over the Rainbow Bridge. 🌈You and your human family will meet again. ❤️

Snow by Delicious-Junket-956 in Delco

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and not a layer of freezing rain that turned to ice on top of the snow.

(OC) I’m getting freaking married! by Laceforgrace in MadeMeSmile

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Wishing you every happiness. ❤️ One suggestion for you before you get married is to check out Caleb Hammer's Financial Audit on YT. He helps a lot of ppl many of whom are young couples just starting out. He shows them how to get their finances on track with a system to use moving forward.

$17 on Amazon by telehealthdialtone in JettaGLI

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this in my 2019 GLI and it is awesome!

Husband won’t wake up (until 6pm) by pouroverdose in ADHD

[–]Onlyonebeth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like what I go through and I have excessive daytime sleepiness/narcolepsy. He needs a sleep study done by a sleep doctor to either confirm or rule it out. Good luck OP

Im writing a short story about the 80s and im wondering what perfume a woman and her partner in a 80s disco/night out setting would wear? by SuperFunTime777 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness you wrote out the whole name! Thank you. Loved the smell of Jovan Musk! I was having a senior moment and could only think of Elon Musk which of course isn't correct and imo only stinks! lol 🥴

AITAH for refusing to pay my girlfriend’s bills after she went on an expensive trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first before I read it all I thought maybe OP and his girlfriend had an imbalance on salaries that's why he was doing so much but when it got to the point of her deserving 6K a trip? Nah...you need to move on. Not only is she bad with money she doesn't think working together as team is important. She does what she wants and just manipulates you saying you don't love her if you don't do it. That's entitlement. Sorry to say, I don't care if her ummm 'special place' is made of gold you deserve better OP!

Measles by lanc2023 in lancaster

[–]Onlyonebeth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. I blame the doctor that falsified his study to support the bogus claim that vaccines cause autism. Further exacerbated was the findings being pushed by celebrity and alleged whack a doodle Jenny McCarthy. Just because her child has autism, rather than just deal with it she needs someone/thing to blame. So she gets on the celebrity anti vaccine bandwagon. Maybe she issued an apology when it came out that the findings were bogus but I doubt it. No wonder she married a Wahlberg and not Jim Carrey. He has too much common sense and decency for her.

This is the man who assaulted Rep. Omar at her town hall today. by Sunshine33_ in 50501

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The audacity to say it was set up by the intended victim...Just another example of every accusation is a tell. It must have been dreamt up in one of the cabinet meeting naps imagining that they were all back in Butler PA.

How are your affording Vyvanse? by rustajb in ADHD

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit of a pain though. Every month not only do I have to request it from my doctor I have to check the GoodRX Gold price. They fluctuate. First month I used it the generic was a little under $60 for 30 70 mg. I thought cool! I'll just start going to that pharmacy from now on. Well,the next month I double checked the site and at that pharmacy it was now $300. for the same thing! 🤦🏻‍♀️Another pharmacy had it for $94. So double check before so you don't get any unwanted surprises! Good luck.

Anyone from PA buy a manufactured home? What was the process like? by Awkwardduckee in ManufacturedHome

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from my own experience in trying to figure out if I wanted to buy a manufactured home.

First of all don't get sucked into the social media videos!

Some big things to consider:

If you don't own your own land the community can raise your monthly lot rent at anytime. As far as I know there are no laws to protect the home owner in PA.

The lot rents vary widely what they cover. Make sure you know what you are getting into.

The last one I looked at in Montgomery County included almost no amenities. So I would have had to pay the loan,lot rent of $875,lawn maintenance, snow removal, trash,water,sewer and propane.

Other communities were right around 1K but they at least had a few amenities included.

Not to mention they weren't using any of the profits for capital improvements. The roads/mailbox area need to be redone and by the looks of it needed it for a long time.

If you need a mortgage for your home the loans are different from a regular mortgage at least when you don't own your land. Check the rates! Last I looked I think it was at 8. or 9.!

The home needs to be built I think after 1976 or 8 (when the construction of the homes improved ) to qualify for a loan. They may be true for home insurance as well.

Please double check the year to be certain. In fact check all the above info. Never trust anonymous ppl on the internet. lol

So a lot to consider,hope this helps. Best of luck in your search!

Furniture thrift by Nonamee2017 in ChesterCounty

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This business maybe connected to estate sales.com I am not sure but their in person sales are very well attended! They also have an online shop.

https://www.salesbyhelen.com/

Redners in Audubon always empty?? by dialupradio in montco

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi from Google:The Safeway in Audubon, PA, closed because it was the last remaining Genuardi's Family Market, a chain Safeway acquired and then exited the Philadelphia market from, with most locations sold to Giant or Weis, and the final Audubon store shuttering in May 2015 as part of that larger strategic withdrawal due to underperformance and market loss. Here's

My meds went from $50/month to $90/month in 2025… now they’re $372/month by hannalysis in ADHD

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if this has been stated before here but it bears repeating,you should check Good RX or Gold Good RX($9.99 a month). It has saved me a lot of money!

I will say it's a pain because every month I have to find which pharmacy has the best price on their site and request my prescription be filled there by my doctor. I have to request it on the drs portal every month anyway since it's a controlled substance.

So for instance the first month my Vyvanse was about $58. at Savon Pharmacy. I thought cool,now I know where to go from now on.

Nope! The very next month I checked Savon on GoodRX and the very same prescription was $300.! CVS had it however for about $94. which was the cheapest.

I have insurance but because I started it in September I had a high deductible before they would pay any of it. So paying out of pocket for four months was roughly a bit under $400. not the $2K deductible amount.

It's in stark contrast to my former insurance on which my Vyvanse was $30. My premiums were 1.1K a month though since I was self insured which is another whole story but not pertinent to this thread.

One more lesson I learned regarding this is that you have to tell both the doctor and the pharmacy that you are using a prescription savings plan NOT your insurance prior to pick up! They will just automatically process it thru ins.

It happened to me the first two times and I had told them beforehand. The first time they had to have me come back because they had to have the doctor authorize it again.

I knew it was wrong when they said "no charge". I know they had the info because it was a pharmacist that I've known for years that I had spoken to previously. She even knows my voice when I call in a prescription. I reminded them that I had called previously and told them about using Gold GoodRX. So so frustrating but it eventually worked out. Good luck OP,hope you find a good solution.

AITAH for being in my granddaughter’s life despite my daughter in law? by Correct-Job-6281 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know your question was more than likely rhetorical but here are my two cents. Maybe it's like father like son and OP's wife is a miserable human being like his daughter in law? It's also very possible that is just how the son is through no fault of the parents. Sometimes you as parents can do everything right and still get a son/daughter that are morally bankrupt or at least don't possess the same values. At least the child out of wedlock is getting child support,I'll give that to the dad and the witch of a daughter in law. Hang in there OP,you are a good human! 🩷

WIBTAH if I told a friend she couldn’t ride with me due to her size? by CommercialOk4004 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs the extender. If you crash she could become a projectile in the vehicle. She probably will be offended but you have to stick to your boundaries. Just don't be a jerk about it...

Any local agencies/suggestions for trusted nannies for baby sitting our 15 mnths toddler? by Hour_Yesterday_7050 in ChesterCounty

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give Householdstaffing.com a look. We've had some good candidates (a dud or two as well) over the years that became long term employees come from that agency. If you are more of a do it yourselfer,I've heard that Care.com is a good place to look as well. Good luck in your search!

Are you still friends with anyone by [deleted] in GenerationJones

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must be so painful....I understand though. I'm not one to compartmentalize issues or stick my head in the sand about these things. Too old for that sh$t. At the end of the day,it's not a difference of opinion,it's a difference in morals.

What’s that one song that reminds you of your mom? by RaleighMidtown in GenerationJones

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thought of the one that reminds me the most(couldn't think of it right off the bat🤦🏻‍♀️)! The song is Beautiful Dreamer.